Value of Sexual Organs - More Than U Thought

Even though Communism was defeated officially through the falling of the Berlin Wall, it still exists and is followed wholeheartedly by multitudes of people through force.

The ideals that we find happiness and salvation through the materials we achieve was based upon, not any religion, but the ideology of Communism.

Communism had a mission to bring about world peace but through force and without God.  In fact, under the communistic regime, anyone who pronounces any sort of faith was murdered or persecuted.

We were able to see the trend of this ideology take over the Western world beginning in the 1980s.
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The 'me generation' was the first generation which alluded to the fact that the trend of materialism was taking over the ideals of spirituality and religion.

The Me generation was the label given to children raised during that era, who were no longer about humanity and their neighbors, but their own joy, suffering and accomplishments.  It was the first generation, raised by the idealist of the 60s, where America truly begin to see the slip in values.

What is the basis of individualism; where does it begin?

No one can claim anything as his own; God owns everything and bequeaths it to His children.

When a child grows up, through the love of his parents, 99.999 percent of his existence springs from the mother's bone, flesh and blood which combines with his father's .001 percent of the father's sperm.

When you break this down, you do not see any concept of "myself alone" in nature.

Nothing Was Created for its Own Sake

No one is born with the concept of "myself".

No matter how great any of us are, we cannot claim that we became great all by ourselves.  Bone, flesh and blood and the important parts of our body are all inherited from within our mother's womb.

Every essential element of our body is included in the egg and sperm.

There is no exception.  Therefore, there is no base or foundation for any self-centered individualism.

When you think of above, you automatically acknowledge below.  Will individualism be able to stand with the concept of above by itself?

There is not a concept of the individual by itself.  

This is not part of the creation which exists in pairs.

When we talk about right, it presupposes the existence of left.  In the relationship between front and back, front presupposes back.  The word man also cannot exist by itself - it presupposes woman.  This is not just the claim of any person, but is a universal fact.

Why did God create man?

Usually a man said that they would be perfectly fine if they live alone by themselves and they do not care why they were created.

Despite this fact, man was created for the sake of the woman.  Without women, there is no need for a man.  Actually, nothing in creation is made for its own sake.

Take our five senses for example.

Are our eyes created for looking at themselves?  In the same way, our nose, ears, mouth and hands were created for the sake of our partner - not for ourselves.

The force that can mobilize and focus the five senses is true love.

 Eyes, nose, ears, mouth and hands are the tools that were created for the sake of true love.

If people take things that do not belong to them without permission for their own use, we call them thieves.

Therefore, any person who uses his five sense and even his body just for his own sake alone is a thief.  This is because these were created for his wife and future descendants, not for his own sake.

What is the main difference between men and women?

Of course, their bodies and the sexual organs in particular.  Then who absolutely needs the male organ?

It exists for the sake of the woman.

One of the sexual organs is concave and the other is convex.  Why are we created in this way?

Because each of them exists for the sake of the other.

You did not know that the female organ absolutely belongs to man.

Who thinks of such a concept in the time of women's equality that says women and man should be equal in every aspect of life.  Women absolutely wants what is man's and vice versa.

Through each occupying each other's sexual organs, man and woman come to know love.

Only through the experience of these two becoming perfect in oneness, will they come to know the highest level of love and not the secular form of love of having different partners every night.

Everyone must acknowledge these facts as truth and not deny them.  Today's popular trend is to date as many people in a week or night as possible, but this is far from the ideal way and is the reason marriages have lost value.

An ideal couple comes into being in the place where the two achieve complete unity.  Absolute love exists in that very place.

God would come to dwell in such a place of unity where love is absolutely unchanging.

Man Owns Woman and Woman Owns Man

How does the subject and object, or yin and yang unite?

Would it be through kissing?

Love is abstract and not concrete.  Do you know what makes a man a man and a woman a woman?  It is none other than their sexual organs.

Who dislikes these organs?

Up until this point, you may have not known the virtue in valuing the sexual organs.  From now on we should cherish them.

What will the world be like in the future?

It will be a world that will not abuse their sexual organs, but will absolutely cherish them.  Will that world be good or bad; will it prosper or perish?

Which part did God invest the greatest creative effort when He was creating human beings?

If humanity was to be able to completely transcend into traditional fields of morality and religion while being absolutely in harmony with the sexual organs, earning welcoming praise from God, then what kind of world would that be?  Who owns the male and female organs?

The organs of the husband's sexual organ belongs to the wife; her sexual organs belongs to the husband.

Have you ever thought that a person's sexual organ is owned by the person of the opposite sex?

This is a simple truth that cannot be denied.  Even after thousands of years of progress, this truth will not change.  Typically, a man thinks that his sexual organs belongs to himself to do however he pleases.

One believes since they think their sexual organs belong to them that it does not hurt anyone else.  But to carelessly misuse this organ does harm not only to the future spouse, but eventually to the whole of society which degrades through such behavior.

A woman thinks her sexual organs belong to her.  This is why the world is perishing due to this individualistic thinking centered on one self and not God.

Everyone has mistaken the ownership of the sexual organs.

People have thought that love is absolute, eternal and dreamlike, but they were unable to grasp the true ownership of the sexual organs which lies with the opposite sex.

If humanity had known this simple fact, it would not have become the hell on earth as today.

Even thousands of PhD recipients and scholars have never thought of this point of the most important part of the human anatomy.

If you could ask your parents, grandparents, great-grandparents, the original ancestors, even God who is the origin of the universe, they would all agree that the sexual organs belong to the spouse.

This is an iron-clad rule which will remain as an universal principle even after the universe has existed for billions of years.

The natural conclusion then is that when you stand before God, He will judge you as either righteous or unrighteous according to this law.  In fact, the Fall originated in the violation of this very law.

Adam and Eve, each thought that their sexual organs belonged to themselves to use as they please even before they were mature.

Because of their selfishness in not listening to God's warning, they were driven out and could not be acknowledged anywhere in the universe.

The sexual organs are reserved for the sake of one's partner of love.  Adam and Eve did not know this.

Why do the sexual organs exist?  They exist for love.  Thus the male and female exist in order to find the pure love of God.

All men and women must become humble when they receive their spouse's love.

Love comes to you through your partner.

There is no love that is separate than love for the sake of others.  We must remember, that we find absolute love wherever we absolutely live for the sake of the others.




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This post was rewritten and derived from the textbook cehon Seong Gyeong book four, True Family, chapter Twelve Section 1,3

Man Become Less Valuable Than Material

When we narrow down 'our standard' it becomes 'my standard'.  When we broaden it, then it becomes the 'world standard'.

Where would we find the standard?  In the past, present or future?  What would be the central factor that sets the standard?  Would the standard be set by money, knowledge or power?

Could a person set the standard?

We can say that the standard should be based on the mind.

It would only be natural that the standard be based on the mind, but the mind also varies.

Sometimes it is beautiful and other times it is ugly.  Would the standard be based on a school record, or on religion, or on God?

Through this topic, we need to determine what has value for our lives.

The Korean word for treasure literally means "material treasure".

In talking about value we often are referring to material value; usually a treasure is based on material value.

What determines a standard of value?

First, something of value will last for a long time, has an unique eternal and unchanging quality.  Gold for instance is not easily changed.

These are the quality of value for material things.

People talk about the value of material things, but do not see a person as a treasure.  Minimum wage is still under 9 dollars an hour.  How cheap a man is!

Why haven't people been regarded as treasure?  People will go to war and kill other people to obtain material treasure or territory.  This is a real problem.  How did a human become less valuable than gold?

A pearl has a harmonized color which is beautiful.

Gold and pearls are very soft, while diamonds are very hard. Would you exchange your loved one for gold?

Would you give up your loved one's little finger for an equal amount of diamonds? Is that a good deal?  If someone offered you a diamond as big as your wife or husband, would you trade them in?

Then this means that men and women are more valuable than gems.

What do men have that makes them more valuable than diamonds?

It is his sparkling eyes or his skin?

Do you have the three qualities of value?

Men and women change.  Do you have valuable quality only when  you are young and pretty, or also when you are old?  Why do you prefer a warm, embracing person over an aloof and distant person?

When it is warm, people tend to relax, but when it is cold everyone automatically tries to protect himself.

Warm weather causes people to be more expansive and relaxed.  Do your favorite things change or not?  People are changeable, particularly women!

Changeable women are less liked than more stable women, right? 

Would the changeable quality be true for men also?

The three qualities of value apply to people as well as material things.

Therefore, a person who has a changeable quality has no everlasting value or uniqueness.

Man has two aspects: a mind and body.  Which changes more?  Does your conscience change more than your physical desires?

People who believe in the theory of evolution, say that there is not much difference between the make up of men and animals.

By holding to this belief, one tends to believe that animal behavior and conflict is also inherent in men, is natural and will last forever.  With this kind of ideology, a world of true, everlasting peace where man has freedoms within principle cannot exist.

They also say that the mind's desires are an illusion and that there is no such thing as an absolute standard of conscience.

They feel we are just material and there is no such thing as a permanent ideal.

In other words, if we are no better than animals just existing without a true purpose, then there is no room for a permanent standard for which to live.

Therefore, no permanent quality of value can exist.

If you and I are truly descended from monkeys, then man is also only an animal.  Do you think that monkeys live by moral standards or ethics?

There are no such standards as keeping one's purity in the monkey world.

But man is more advanced culturally, but seems to be changing into more like the monkeys because men and women just have casual sex together like the monkeys.

Those who uphold moral values seem to be losing the debate with evolutionist because they cannot show how men and women are really different from animals.

In order to be able to distinguish men from animals, even though evolutionists do not believe in God, we would have to create even an imaginary God who could be the embodiment of some absolute standard.  Otherwise there is no other way to win the battle.

Without an absolute standard, mankind cannot survive.

God has been neglected by mankind throughout history, but now we have reached a deadlock.

In the animal world, the stronger animal attacks the weaker ones.

Is this natural in the human world?

Do humans naturally need power in order to protect themselves?  There is certain conduct that needs standards.  To determine those standards, we need a foundation.  Would this be formed by the body or the conscience?

Moral quality has to pursue a tangible value, such as justice and honor.

The mind works by combining intelligence, heart and will power.  

 

Human value is based on conscience, which has an everlasting quality.

At the same time, everyone will like and agree on the value of the conscience.

The conscience should be needed morning and night and every moment of our lives.  That is the kind of standard we have to come up with.

The quality that defines a person of treasure, comes from his conscience and mind, which is eternal and unchanging.

In the Orient, when there is a bad person, we say he has a bad mind, we never say he has a bad body.

When you value someone, you value his mind saying his state of mind or thinking is good, not his appearance.

In criminal law, it is important the person's motives to commit the crime, motive is intangible.  Motivation comes from the mind, and the body reacts to that.

Does the conscience pursue good or evil things?

The answer will be the same 1,000 years from now.  If you ask someone from 10,000 years ago, their answer will be the same.

This means that the conscience has an unchanging quality.  Thus, we say that the conscience is at the base of value.

Therefore, the man's unique value comes from his conscience.

Why do we appreciate the three qualities of value in material things?

There must be some corresponding aspect in man which include those qualities.

We appreciate those qualities in certain things because we have them within ourselves.  That reciprocal relationship is the key to determine value.

We can see the same principle in the relationship between man and God.

We are not the universal subject of creation, so we cherish these qualities of values because there is a first cause which initiated this.

Evolution tries to deny the power of the conscience by saying that it is only the by product of material which came about by itself.  That material came into existence first and conscience is like a side effect.

Evolutionists don't accept the idea of a first cause, or God. 

Evolutionist say that conscience is like animal instinct which evolved to a higher status.

Do you feel good to hear that you descended directly from monkeys?

Evolutionists do not have any solutions to the human problems of today.  In order to distinguish ourselves from the animal world, we need to have God and if no real God exists we still have to make an imaginary one.  Otherwise there is no solution to the deep problems of humanity.


For the last ten years I have been spending an incredible amount of money inviting the world's leading scholars to come and think about absolute value, but they don't even want to think about it. Everyone wants to deny there is absolute value, saying there is only relative value; they keep saying they are tired of hearing about absolute value. They are asking me to change the subject of the conference, but I have refused.  I know that, no matter how great these academics are, they cannot find absolute value because it can't be observed in a laboratory or test tube.


Scholars try to determine everything through their physical senses.  They do not recognize anything that does not come their way or is intangible.

The physical senses cannot perceive the spiritual reality or anything beyond the material world like God.

There is no way you can reach conclusions about value and conscience through the analytic method. 

Today's scientific world is confused about what is reality.

There are five senses, but you need to employ one more sense to perceive the complete reality of the universe.

Thinkers say that we must conquer reality if we are to advance.

But there is such confusion of what reality is.  Religiously and philosophically there is confusion.  We have to clarity this confusion by setting the standard.

We need philosophy and religion, but what do 'I' need most of all?

An active conscience.

To determine what is reality, we have to restore our consciences to be true ones.  Have people throughout history lived with true conscience?

All men have the common desire to live with true conscience, but how can that be realized?

An important quality in a moral code is filial piety.

We place value on this, but what is it and why should we exercise it?

Filial piety is loyalty to the unchanging value of the family.

A son that practices filial piety will serve his parents and brothers and sisters even if they do not reciprocate.

Our conscience dictates that this is the right thing to do.  But if you are not able to recognize the value of conscience, you will not recognize the value of filial piety.  You have to have some starting point.

Conscience values your parents' welfare more than your own.

On a larger scale, a patriot follows his conscience by serving his country and caring about its welfare.

There is the common ground that the conscience dictates the benefit of something higher than yourself.  The conscience pursues something of higher value not caring only for the self first.

What is a saint or a holy man?

The saint follows the same principle, but he obeys his conscience for the sake of mankind.  He recognizes that the subject of all is God.  In history, holy men have always been religious leaders.

Like evolutionists, the materialistic communists say that awareness, or consciousness, is merely a by-product of the material world.  So, where can we find the moral code in that?

Communism is destructive because it is based on materialism and recognizes consciousness as only a by-product, not something that has value or needs a standard to follow.

Within communism, there is no ideal of a person of treasure.

Since communists do not place value on the spiritual element, life is expendable in their political system.  Humans are only viewed as material.

We see throughout history that they freely sacrifice people's lives to attain material.

There is no such thing as an everlasting moral standard in the world of communism.

Which is first, consciousness or the material?

How do we determine that consciousness came first?

As stated in earlier posts as an example, the eye is material whether it is in man or some animal.  Would the first eye in existence have known that it would encounter sunlight or dust therefore develop eyelashes and tears itself?

Whoever designed the eye would have understood these phenomena.  Anyone who tries to argue that the eye randomly came about into existence, you can show him his error with this short example.

Are the tear ducts to keep the eye clean and moist a random event?

Then it is logical to say that long before the eye came into being there was an universal conscious that designed the eye according to the environment.  So, we can say that conscious came before the material world.


I don't deny the process of evolution in development, but I am saying that there is a creative process going on behind it. In the theory of evolution there are sudden occurrences called mutations, in which something new comes from its parent body. But we have to say that there must have been some energy or willpower that authorized that occurrence. Could evolution itself create a new awareness and make a new design? Absolutely not.


Then there must be something that is outside evolution that supplies creative energy.

Development occurred between the highest and lowest stages, but it did not just happen automatically.  Each stage was the result of a design and input of additional energy.

Evolutionists do not want to recognize that creative energy.  Evolutionists need to acknowledge an universal consciousness that provided the know-how beforehand.

When you talk about the conscience of man, then you have to recognize that there is an universal truth that ties into it.  Therefore, they must recognize God who is the first cause.

Does conscience also evolve?

If you do not recognize the unchanging quality of conscience within yourself, then you cannot begin to look at the unchanging and unique characteristics within gems.

If you do not have this quality within yourself, then you have no reason to seek it outside  yourself.  You appreciate precious things because you have that quality within yourself.

You cannot compare two things unless you have the capacity to appreciate both.


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This post was rewritten and derived from the speech, Our Standard

World Champion of Public Way

Eating is truth, and love between husband and wife is truth, and giving birth to children is also truth. No matter how old you may be, still you want to give birth to a child. Some girl may say she is afraid to get married because eventually she has to give birth to a child; she doesn't know what truth is. But when she is thirty or forty then she understands and wants very much to have a baby. I think that is true. This is true everywhere.


Reverend Sun Myung Moon



We are going forward for the sake of the world and spirit world.  While we are doing this, everything around us will be left behind.

Those living in spirit world know that club dancing is wrong because of its selfish purposes along with drugs and smoking cigarettes which are harmful to our temple.

Satan uses these weapons as his tools to lure people away from following God's way.

We will do away with those things.

Don't go to a cabaret to dance, but dance in your home. 

If a father, mother and the children were to dance in their home that would be all right because it does not have the sexual connotations or selfish reasons, but can bring about unity.

Those who have passed into the spirit world are able to look into the world and observe everything that is bad going on earth.  We should wipe all of this out which is bad.  T

he prostitution and immorality that is happening within the city limit must be eliminated.  How does such behavior promote peace or national sovereignty?  Does a country move forward that promotes such behavior?

You may think that the work that you do is trivial, but you should know that in a year, everything will be better.  Every decade will be better than the decade before.  We should have a clear vision of where we are going now we know there is hope for the future.

You may say that you are just an ordinary person without much significance and don't want the world.  Y
ou might say that you just want to live with your own individual family  If you refuse to do such work, you will be fencing yourself in without a foundation once you go to spirit world.  You should be able to go everywhere freely without boundaries once you are in spirit world.

But if you just stay in the same position while here on earth, you will be unable to go beyond your fence as well when you reach the world of spirit. No one will be able to break that fence down to free you.

There are many Christians who believe that just merely believing in Jesus that when they reach the next world all of their problems will automatically be eradicated.

But once you reach that world, you cannot go beyond what you were while you were on earth.

You would regret everything so much once you know that this was all explained to you when you could easily do the work of restoration here on earth.

Once it is bound in spirit world, you must return to earth again and work through people who do not recognize you.  This explains the phenomenon of many spiritual experiences people are having in these last days.

This is a miserable situation and may take thousands of years for you to restore yourself back to your original position before the fall which takes years while on earth.


If I didn't know about the spirit world, I would not live the way I do. I would be easy-going like you. I am smarter than you and have many skills, and still I work harder because I know about the spirit world. That gives me conviction and strength. Even if the whole country comes against me, I couldn't stop, because l know that whatever I fail to do here I will have a harder time doing there.


To break barriers is never easy.

Once Father would get to the fence or barrier of a country, he would just kick it open and all of Satan's people would shout in retaliation and accuse him.  This speech was given in 1981: has there been any other time before where somebody kicked open a big barrier like a nation's fence and make all kinds of commotion?


We are supporting President Reagan so that a Christian revival can be made possible through the conservative ideals. As soon as the Reagan administration takes office, the communists will start to demonstrate against the new administration all around the country. Even Mr. Reagan is not thinking about it but also getting ready for that event.


When the Communists demonstrate, you should be in the front line to fight against them.

Many people may ask why a religious organization is fighting communism instead of loving them.  Communist have their focusing on entirely dominating the world with their God-denying ideology through force.

If the communists nations were working for the sake of mankind and for God's dispensation, then they would be helpful to the work of world peace and we would work with them.

But the atheistic communist doctrine teaches that it is necessary for the social classes to struggle and clash. Communists believe in confrontations between different parts of society not true unity.  God's ideal is centered on unity, not confrontation.  The one who strikes first always loses.

Communism promotes promiscuous sex, homosexuality, club dancing, and drugs.  It urges people to create a world of hell by centering their whole lives on themselves forgetting about family and society.

We cannot let that teaching continue to influence the world.

The public way would be to fight against communism.  We do it for the sake of the country, world and God.  If we had not fought, then the people of religion will be destroyed.

The Messiah has the foresight to see that communism could pose a threat and that we must take a stand against it.  As a side note, the Washington Times played a major role during the Cold War that aided in the victory of Ronald Reagan in bringing the wall down in Russia.


Only after listening to my words have you come to know my real value and the value of the Unification Church. I am not doing all these activities because I am dumber than you; if what I am doing looks obscure, it's because I am way ahead of everyone else in my vision. Eventually, everyone will conclude that this is precisely what should be done.


We clearly must have an ideal for a public life, a public way.  If we don't have one, then when it is time to decide which direction to take, we will be thrown into confusion and disunity.  But if we clearly know the public way, then we can always become successful.

We know that 'God' is a good word, but for some reason it has become negative when people speak in frustration screaming out, "Oh God!".  What they are really saying is that they want God instead of Satan who stole the central position.

It happens many times where someone was on the pathway toward God, yet ended up under Satan instead.

When you are happy or unhappy, you have experienced tears at both times.  But the quality of those tears makes the difference.

Therefore, just because you are crying does not mean you are in heaven or hell.

What do you think God would like most?

God would like religious meetings!

Throughout the ages, there have been many forms of religions and now religion has come to a very high level.

In America, there are many people of all religious backgrounds, but in other countries, people only worship in one way.

There are also five different colors of skin here, but in most countries, there is just one color.  We see that throughout history that when a better religion comes into being, the established religions always challenge and compete with it.  Finally, the higher level of religion emerges from this.

Now, the Unification Movement is confronted by Jews, Christians and communists.

The content of the Divine Principle, which upon this blog is based, members believe the words are good and they know them to be true.  But members do not really want to act on them.

We like the idea of fundraising, but you do not actually want to fundraise.

Young people from all over the world have come to compete in a religious Olympics.

People accuse Father of breaking up families and brainwashing people to hear this truth.

But all of spirit world knows that we are good.  All the world is going against the champion of religion.  Where as in the spirit world, they are cheering you on as you do the work of restoring the world.

Is our score in this competition better than the world's score?  You champions are not so great, but you have a great coach.

The champion who is able to go out when the coach give direction, wins all the time.  Then the world would praise the coach and say he is really something.  Will you be defeated or will you win?  Do you pay a lot of attention to home church now.

If you do not have that confidence, how will you be able to break through even one barrier here?

Once you are able to finish home church, you then are given credit for doing all the rest of the work.

Think that the arena where you fight for the title match against evil is in your home church.  We have a world champion in this movement and we are competing among ourselves.

Are you the Church champion at winning, or are you the champion at losing?

There was a member who was fundraising who was a teacher before he joined.  He really enjoyed his work, but after joining for one year and three months, he said he had learned more than he had learned in his life.

He was thankful for being given the gift of the teachings of the Divine Principle.  Father shouted out, Oh God!" at such a person who could see the gains he was making in his life.

Your Home church area is the dividing way between heaven and hell. 

Those who were not able to have success in the home church providence will wonder why such a mission was created because if it did not exist they would be free to move about in spirit world.

Those who are in spirit world who successfully witnessed in the their Home Church area would speak up and say that they did as they were instructed and were successful and that is why they were able to be in heaven.

There may be a fighter who is a champion in his local area, but if he loses the fight on the national level, then he is a loser.

The person who did the work of fundraising getting persecuted and shedding many tears will have an easier time witnessing to the 360 homes in his area and become successful in a short period of time.

You are trained in the champion way.

If you were to go up in a rocket ship, you would not eat the usual food.  You must eat what is available in the capsule.  In this case, then you must eat and be able to digest the Principle food here that is prepared.  These are serious words.

Once you enter the ring, fighting with all your might would be the right thing to do.  If you don't fight, that would be wrong.  Inside the ring, hitting and fighting well is your virtue, but outside the ring that is different.

Home church is the public way. 

You have been given the best present that mankind has ever had.

With this weapon and this food of truth, you will never be defeated by going this way.

Like dedicated runners who jog everyday, you should jog to home church.   You will destroy the walls between individuals and families.  Walls between 'white' people and other races will crumble.  You will enable everyone to move back and forth freely.

If you were to say that you don't like the public way, then you are retreating to hell.

You are doing good work when you are going the way you are supposed to.  Have you ever thought that after you do home church that then you will go to other countries?

Laid upon that foundation, you can think that millions of people will act upon your direction in the future.

Will you go into the arena of home church now?

That would be the ring which you fight the championship bout.

You must truly understand and know the public way.  Once you turn into the direction of the private way, you will be declined and blocked wherever you go.

You always should check yourself in this situation.


A straight line passes through the three points of the past. present and future. If the central point turns around, will all the rest turn too? Since this line is the axis, it will turn. If heaven will make the axis spin, then everything else will tend to spin, too. As long as you maintain a public position, if heaven spins then you spin accordingly. 


As long as the three points are in a straight line, when the axis spins, everything will automatically spin.  The center will always need more power in order to spin.  What would be the power that is strong enough to move everything around and still have power left over?

It is the power of love.

Could America spin around with the power of love?

When life and love come into harmony, then they are strong enough to move the whole cosmos.

When we make the statement that God is love, we mean He is in the center.  To be public is to connect to the axis of love.  Each individual, and nation each level must connect to that axis.

Sacrificing is not bad at all.  Love is all good.

When your parents keep hounding you to study, it is good just as long as they do so with love.

Sacrificing is not bad at all; love is all good. 

No matter how much a person bothers you, if he does it with love, then you must accept that as being good.

God urges you to sacrifice because He wants to bring you to a higher level of love.

Thus, you should bear the heavy burden and important responsibility.  If you are able to persevere, then you can become the axis of love.  Right in the center.  This is why you are urged to sacrifice and suffer.

If one runs away from the work because it is too hard, could he become the center?

Through love, Father was able to become stronger than the communists and nothing else.


I have been strong and unafraid of anything. I am the point connecting the present time to the axis of love, and when I go around in love, the universe will go around with love.  Once I teach you, whether you pass or fail is entirely up to you. If you fail, it does not mean this is a bad school. It's the other way around, in fact.


If there is a school that was so strict that many students fail, then that school would become well respected.

This teaching is a rigorous standard, with no compromise.

The world will come to understand that this is a true school.  It is up to you whether you want to go through this tough course successfully working for others. There have not been many members who have been going the way which will yield success.

Stay with the public way all of the time.

You can forget eating or drinking, but you cannot neglect the public way. 

This way of life of spreading the truth is more important than loving, eating or anything else.

When you are hungry or do not get enough sleep, you may wonder why you work so hard going this way.

You would like to go on Christmas vacations once a year and perhaps there is someone you really like to see.  These are the difficult things that you must overcome and give up.

Do you not pity the young people who do not know who they are and which direction they are going?

They take drugs without knowing what they are truly getting into.  Living for just their carnal desires, there is no future doing that.

When you understand and know the love of God, you must still go the public way no matter how hardened your body may become.

Once you are married, would you want to just give up and get divorced?

Even after you get together, you still have to sacrifice and continue working for the sake of the country.  Once you secure the country, then you have to work for the world.  You still have all of these goals ahead of you.

Your spouse should be really close.  He would be like your friend or your comrade.

During combat, your friend is more than a companion, he becomes like one of your legs.  Your spouse is to be closer than that.

Without a family, you will not come to the love of God. The family is the axis of love, and this is why you love your family.

Even if you are fighting the war for the country, the family is still the nuclear unit.

You should have the kind of thinking that through the work of your family, the world will turn around.
If you are unable to think in this way, then you forget about everything else and just enjoy your family, then your family will perish.

We see many families who are prosperous, and live only for the prosperity of their own family.  But then they leave nothing behind and the children decline.  What use is it to accumulate a lifetime of wealth if the children do not have the means to carry on?

A family that cannot live for others would be like a thief of the heavenly country.

Love yourself so that you can become strong and be an axis which the entire world can depend on.

You are not loving yourself for your convenience, but for the destructive element of the world.  By loving the world, you automatically become the central shaft.  Everyone knows how to love themselves first, but the public way is to love the world, and then for that reason love yourself.

Once you reach that level of loving, everything will come to you.

On the outside, Satan's way tries to look like God's way, but God is living for the sake of the world, while Satan is living for the sake of himself.

You don't have to sit and ponder what your accomplishments will be, if you are able to live in the public way, then your future will be bright automatically.

Likewise, you don't have to worry about the future.  On the other hand, if you work just for your own profit, then you will automatically be headed for hell, with no way to turn around.

As long as you work in the public way and follow the Principle direction,  you will win every time.  As long as this is true, whether you go to heaven or hell is up to you.

You follow this way because it is the fastest and easiest route to the country and world levels.

If future Presidents and world leaders were able to follow this way, then World Peace would quickly be brought about.

People asked where the Kingdom of Heaven is.  Jesus replied that it was in every person's mind.  We must know how we are seriously standing at the borderline of heaven or hell and we must persevere to win.

There is no substitute for winning.

Are you able now to forget about all of the past attachments and realize the public road, continuing on until you win the final victory?

Let us pray.



Return for Tomorrow's Post: Love Language


This Post was rewritten and derived from the speech The Public Way and Private Way

The World's Future is Bright

Since we are flowing toward one world, what is the one language that you are going to use in the future?

Will learning this language be more important than learning English, Chinese or Japanese?

Within the Korean language, you can find the deepest thought in the world of religion.  The ideal and the deepest thoughts are all combined into one.

That precious understanding is found in the Korean language.

Right now, the world does not know this, but the world is evolving and moving to the other side.

The high will go down, and the low will go up. And the lowest will go to the highest point. 

This principle happens automatically, not through force.



Wise Use

In the future, ownership will move from the individual to the group.

Possibly, through ownership by family or extended family.  Have you noticed companies that have been around for over 100 years were and are still a family company run by members of the same family?

Vertically, this is a "world property" concept.

Horizontal relationships vary; horizontally, it is a group that covers 360 degrees group property not individual ownership.

Vertical relationships are one.  In the future, the world will inevitably go from a wasteful society to using resources frugally.  We will save resources, because they will be limited.

It will not be necessary for everyone to cook everyday at the house for the family.  There can be a village bakery, which uses a small amount of resources that yields the maximum product.

When you do cook,  you can make a particular dish, but you would make enough to share with other people in the village.  If everyone was to do this like a potluck, then there is no need for everyone to cook everyday.

If a village was to share in this way, the citizens wouldn't have to cook but a few days a year.

That day of such unity is very near.

People of faith think that this day is slow in arriving.   This day has not only been prophesied, but the foundation of manpower and preparation is connecting in every area to bring this about.

Even though China is becoming an ultimate power, it will crumble if it does not have this kind of standard in the future.  The reason why we know this will happen is because spirit world is like this.

Spirit world is our original hometown.  The earth is our body's original hometown. 

The spirit world is the mind's original town.

From here, the only way to go is toward the world of the mind.

Americans like hamburgers with cheese; Koreans cannot do without eating smelly kimchee.  Trends here on earth have to follow the pattern that is set in the spirit world.

The after life is better than here; it is heaven.

No matter how long you live on earth, it is like a small grain of sand on earth compared to eternity.  It is like one second of life compared to the life we are going to lead there.  Because we were born as human beings instead of animals, no one should deny this.

Once people begin to understand the reality of the spirit world, then they will understand the true way we should live our life while on earth.

You cannot occupy important positions without training first.
 

Is this thinking practical and powerful enough to bring the unification of spirit world and physical world?

This is a dual structure, which does not mean that this is a relationship between two things that are the same.

One is vertical and the other is horizontal.  This is what makes it dual.

All existence has to follow this 90 degree angle where the horizontal meets the vertical.

A tree follows this principle and orients itself to grow vertically.  Even if a tree is on a slope, it never takes the horizontal line.  It is smart.  But man follows the horizontal line, the fallen thought world, which is far away from the vertical line of God.

This is where we observe that nature is higher than humans in that it follows its own purpose of creation brought about by God.  It always stands at 90 degrees based upon the vertical line.  People should bow down to a tree because they are better than fallen man.

A tree, unlike fallen humanity, absolutely fulfills God's purpose and will.

When you are working hard at your mission, it is very difficult if you do not understand the purpose of why you are doing it.  This becomes a hopeful activity once you have that understanding.

There are two ways to follow: one is to clearly see the objective, and the other is when you don't want to do your mission work, but you have to.

In the latter, you will not be able to go fast.

With this type of selfish thinking, it would weigh you down and you would get behind and be defeated.  When you understand the historical purpose behind this work we are doing, you will go beyond your complaints and go forward quickly for the work of God!


Return for Tomorrow's Post: Corrupted Love Decreases, God's Love Increases

This post was rewritten and derived from The Tide of the Heart.

One World Family

We speak about World Peace, beauty queens speak about world peace even soccer players and politicians all have the agenda toward world peace.  Is world peace simply just war ending and everyone laying down their weapons as a nation?

Then if this was to happen what about on a societal level of peace?  Is it true peace if there is no more war, but people still are afraid to leave their homes in their neighborhoods, or go home because of a fear of a spouse?

What is truly World Peace and what will it look like when God's ideal dream finally is realized in our reality?

After we entered into the new millennium we moved quickly in the direction of an unified world.  The twentieth century was the most violent in all of human history.  The religious call this Armageddon.  the last struggle between the good side of God's people and the evil side that fought on the side of satan through the use of the communistic world.

We are going beyond the "one nation under God" and are moving toward "one universe under God".  This will bring about the universal family that was prophesied for many centuries. Some call. this the Utopia.  A world of peace.

This will now begin to become a reality and not just a work of fiction or an fruitless dream of many who fought for good.

Even in this new era, there are obstacles on this path toward world unity pertaining to racism and religious strife which are a formidable, lingering force.

God is the first ancestor.

These obstacles stand against His will.  God does not see race or national borders.  In reality, the five different colors of humanity reflect the climate from which they originate.

White people began in the Arctic region and spread through Scandinavia, Britain and across the world.  The yellow race lived mainly in Asia practicing agriculture.  They have a deep love for the land.  Their soft skin eventually turned brown.  Black people are like the black bear of the tropics.  Their skin is black because they lived near the equator where the sun's ray's are intense.

The different skin colors among the races have no significance in terms of superiority or inferiority.  It is simply a matter of our having adapted to different environments.

The make up of every human's body is 99.6% identical.  God did not create skin color.  He is the God of love and He is colorblind.  To God, color does not hold any qualitative importance.  In the spirit world, color does not exists - only the color of true love.

In the spirit world, there are no walls between nations, denominations, or religions. It is a world composed of one huge family.



Jesus' words:

"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life," 

John 3:16


Let's take a look beyond the boundaries of Christianity to reveal the nature of salvation on a universal, global level.

One roadblock to a peaceful world is the divisions among the religious group.  God only created religion in order to usher in the new world and teach you and me the path to walk.  He did not create religion to break into different denominations and religious groups.

Religion is the direct result of the fall - not a part of God's original ideal.

Originally, Adam and Eve would directly link their love to God directly and bare children with God's lineage.  Satan is the originator who created division between religions, nations and peoples.

Satan works to build barriers between the people and God works hard to tear these barriers down.

The great founders in spirit world, Jesus, Buddha, Muhammad and Confucius have worked as well to tear down any barriers between their followers in spirit world.  These leaders can go back and forth and communicate freely with one another.

In the future, the Home Church format of witnessing of God's love to 360 people in your hometown will gradually become well established on earth.

Ultimately, organized churches, temples and mosques will disappear.

Why doesn't God just intervene and return the world to the original Garden?  Even Satan does not want to destroy the evil world he created.  God by Himself alone cannot reverse the ill effects of the fall.  If He had the ability to do this alone, He would have prevented the Fall or would have reversed the problem as soon as it happened and end sin within the first generation of Adam's family.

The only one that can reverse the mistake of Adam partaking in false love is a person who conquered on the individual level the position of Adam before the Fall.  The perfected Adam's family is the only family that will possess the original nature of love that originated from God.

Jesus was brought to earth and became the perfected Adam, but many wrong paths of the people of his time occurred and instead of building a world of peace centering on his family, he went the secondary way through the cross in order to bring about salvation through the spiritual level only.

In the original world, parents would officiate their children's ceremony where the children come to resemble their parents and inherit the parents' lineage.


Restoring the Order of Love


"The completion of the unification of all the religions in both the spiritual and physical worlds have been declared. All the saints in the spirit world, my own children who have joined the spirit world and all the blessed couples were included.

In summary, the True Parents are the king and queen of the families. Has there ever been anyone who could claim that he or she is the king or queen of the family, standing as a representative of heaven and earth, with absolute purity?

In order to become the king of the family, we have to become the parents among parents and the first son among first sons."

All of Creation Has an Order

There is an order to everything.  Among brothers, the first son should be the first to marry and start his family.  The order is violated a lot these days which mirrors the path of restoration for humanity.  People go this and that way, follow the reverse order; the disorder should come to an end.

When the right order is not followed, everything will fall apart.  The world has become this way.

How do we begin to repair or undo these problems?  All problems that deal with illicit love relationships stem from this confusion.  When people revolve around without knowing the center or the source, these wrong kinds of relationships occur.

As a consequence, they grab and consume one another.  In this era of confusion, chaos and family-level disarray, people bump around hooking up with one another without any sense of order.  This goes even beyond the national level.

The self-indulgent lifestyle of many diplomats can testify to this statement.

God could not interfere with the tragedy of the fall or with marriages.  Even in these Last Days.  Since it was the first parents that became false parents through false love and false life centering on satan's ideal, the true parents have to reject these false ideals and restore true love, life and lineage through indemnity.



Liberation Through Sacrifice


What is the meaning of Matthew 10:39,

"Those who seek their life will lose it"?

We should be able to reach beyond the level of death in fulfilling God's providence. We should be able to say, "I still have energy to do God's work, even after I die."

In this way, we will live.

There is no resurrection for those who fear death and run away to save themselves.

Even if God takes the position where He might lose His life, He will live.  But if God lives for only His own sake and His own being and life, there there will be no completion of the ideal world.

This is how God saves fallen humanity.  When you throw a rope to the bottom of the pit you have to keep pulling the rope up until you bring everybody up to the top.  This is how God offers everything to humankind   Therefore, He is not sitting up on His throne enjoying being glorified.

Therefore, the Messiah should work even harder than God and be willing to lose his own life.

Those in the Western word always shout out, "I want freedom!  Freedom!"  Even though the Western world has high-standard education, it is still confined within the context of the fallen world.  The idea of family, society, world, religion and the providence of God are missing.  In this respect  the Oriental and Western systems are 180 degrees opposite of the other.  Even the family concept is different.

"Ultimately we even have to liberate God. I started from the smallest level and finally came to the position of liberating God."

Therefore in these last days, the concepts of the Western world will diminish where we cannot find the concept of tribe, people nation, world and cosmos in this selfish individualism.    How do we begin to awaken a new concept in the world and cosmos?

Reverend Sun Myung Moon has brought the Completed Testament The Divine Principle to the earth by conquering satan spoken of in the book of Revelations.  He has taught the view of the family all the way to the view of God.

How was it done?  By starting with the smallest point: mind-body unity.

When one clings to selfish individualism, he cannot reach a position of absolute unity in order to build a family, nation and world that can return to God.  Individualism is the enemy of religion, conscience and God.  It is connected directly to satan.  It makes no difference whether you are a laborer or a graduate of Yale, Harvard or Oxford, this rule is true for all.

The life of free sex and homosexuality will lead people to drugs and AIDS which are detrimental to human survival.


Have No Fear


We have entered the era of Heaven on Earth where the True Parents and children have been liberated.  There is nothing to fear even if you are locked up, you should not be afraid.

The cosmos is in my hands. You should not deny that you have ultimate value as a child of God. You should not worry.

Today, by holding God's kingship ceremony, we have changed the nation. It is the time to worry about how to follow the will of God. God has been pained with the history of resentment. We need to provide the supportive force so that God can do whatever He wants to do freely without restrictions.

His children are to build heaven on earth and should be able to say to God, "Please wake up and take me along."  From now on things will change.  You should know how to guide Him.  God is to have full authority based on this new kingship.

Before, satan was the ruler of this world doing as he pleased breeding suffering.  Thankfully, that old world has now passed away and it is time to bring in new wineskins.

How do you achieve individual perfection?

It comes through the mind and body becoming one.  When we centered our mind and body on satan at the time of the fall, we inherited his blood lineage.  This fallen blood became stronger than the conscience.  To cut this tragedy we should under no circumstances follow bodily desires.


Three Immutable Laws



We should recognize that there are immutable laws that we should follow:

The first law is not to stain the blood lineage even unto the point of dying.

The second law is not to infringe upon another human's rights or heart.

Whether we are female, male, black or white we are all equal with God as our Ultimate Parent.

One must not discriminate or violate human rights. Extending this, one in the leadership position should not change someone else's position based solely on their own feelings.

The one who practices true love, honoring human rights in the correct way, living for the sake of others, is in the mainstream. 

The creation of heaven and earth began from that point. Whoever commits an act that dilutes or squanders this main current of thought is not to be tolerated. Violation of this is the second of all sins.

The third law is to refrain from stealing money to fulfill selfish desires. Seventy percent of the people in jail are there because of these crimes. If you are imprisoned, you will see this is true. Human rights infringements and lineage violations are problems that concern man and woman. Then come the money problems. Following these are the problems dealing with power and money.

The third law pertains to taking money solely to benefit selfish desires.  The jail system is filled with crimes such as these.  The human rights and lineage violations concern both the men and the women.  Then comes the power and money problems.

Money, knowledge and power have ruled the satanic world.

Starting today should pledge not to contaminate the blood lineage bequeathed through God's love and life.  To not follow the actions of the fallen world.  Even if your spouse dies, you must pledge that you will not stain the blood lineage.  When a husband and wife quarrel, they should be able to stop immediately when they remember this unbreakable, impermeable determination.  Once you understand this principle, you must abide by it even if you have to die a thousand times.

What's the first? Purity! Second? Abuse of human rights! Third? Misuse of money!


This is absolute necessary to maintain the kingship of heaven.  Therefore, do not neglect your older brother or younger brother.  In the secular world, people do not care if their siblings need help, but we cannot neglect in-laws or relatives.

How Shall We Live?


Those who graduated from a university neglect those who only have a high school diploma.  This is a sin.  It violates human rights.

In the beginning, God called out to Cain and asked where was his brother and Cain answered that he was not his brother's keeper.  This was after Cain had murdered Abel.  Those with a selfish lifestyle will not succeed no matter how lavish or great a life they may portray.  Try living this way or look at many people who have fallen from the top.

Following this offense is the misuse of money.  The selfish abuse of the public environment is just as sinful and fearful as the misuse of public money.

The whole universe dislikes those who incur a debt. 

Would those in a family or clan love it if one of the members created a debt that caused the whole clan to fall into debt?  In the end the whole clan would punish this person. Debt does not always mean money.


"Do you understand the three points? Count the number of determinations you have made in your heart to follow the laws of the kingdom of heaven. Do you pledge to do that? The laws have to do with purity, equalization of all people, and proper use of national property. You should understand everything well and make it habitual.

You will avoid the wrong actions only when you reach the stage in which as soon as your mouth opens these articles of the kingdom of heaven come out.

There is no doubt you will face these challenges in life. There will probably be many such circumstances, but if you make an effort to abstain from violating the law, the challenges will make you a victorious person. As long as you keep up with these heavenly laws, you do not need Reverend Moon's teaching. You will naturally enter the Kingdom of God."



We all want to live a good life.  Does anyone consider living alone a good life?  We should live together.  Then what kind of people, rules and environment would be best for this environment?

There are three simple answers:  The parent-child relationship, the conjugal relationship and the brother-sister relationship.

Brothers and sisters are in the position of children in front of their parents;it refers to a relationship among children of the same parents.

When you share the same mother and father, naturally you have the brother-sister relationship.  Those of the extended family such as in-laws and all cousins are related.  Once the parent-child relationship and conjugal relationships are connected, the brother and sisters automatically exist.

Then all of the relationships that are shared between humankind would become a brother-sister relationship on the worldwide level.  God created these relationships in order for us to live a great life of harmony.

If you cannot become a model for others to live the best life, then you are not leading a true life.  

Every person has to be an example to others because in order to live a virtuous life, guidance is necessary.  If you can become an example before the mother, father, husband and wife and the children, then you are living a virtuous life.



Goals for Your Life


The time will come when the nation will recognize the family within its borders that is living the best life.  This family will have three generations each of which form the perfected four-position foundation (the oneness of God, husband, wife and children).

The time will come when the president will present the award inside the home of the family exemplifying the best life.



"There are three relationships, parent and child, husband and wife, and among the children. The brother-sister relationship is a consequence of the harmony of all these relationships.

Therefore, whether in a brother-sister relationship or children's relationship, in order to become a person standing in the position of subject, you must influence others positively, such that not even one person can live without you.

From now on, even if you are accused as a traitor and executed in the view of the world, if you keep these things absolutely, your family will belong to the heavenly royal family that possesses eternal freedom, unity and liberation.

I want you to remember this clearly. Keep it as a motto. In the motto of the third millennium, I mentioned pure lineage, the equality of human rights, and the preservation of national public assets. That means, do not be a thief.

What is next?

Be an example!

Be an exemplary parent, exemplary spouse, exemplary child and exemplary sibling. If you form such a family, people in your neighborhood will say, "We should follow that person. I want to live with him." 

That person is surely a citizen of kingdom of heaven, and heaven will remember that family forever.

I explained to you on this historic day, the day of the Coronation Ceremony of God's Kingship, the three most important things that humankind must uphold and by which you can be truly liberated in your family and in your nation. I hope you can remember these contents and keep them as the goals of your life.

In the Completed Testament era, we must understand about the spirit world. May you study about spirit world and God, and may you live for the sake of others. If you do so, you will receive the blessing and become a blessed family.

Through living for others, you prepare for your eternal life. We all should try to gain this heavenly fortune, which surpasses the fruit of all earthly effort.

In front of the living God, with humility, let us be children of filial piety and loyalty. Let us become the sacred children of God. In light of God's sovereignty, in this age of kingship, let us stand together to establish a world of peace, love and harmony.

May God bless you and your family.

Thank you very much." SMM


Return for Tomorrow's Post:  Harmony Arises in the Presence of Love

This text is taken and rewritten from: God is Our King and True Parent

True Love Does Not Fall

"To fall is to lose the center of vertical love and horizontal love. That's why conjugal love in the fallen world is so unstable. Conjugal love these days can be turned around 180 degrees by one word.

That is the fallen reality. That shows that people don't know where conjugal love should aim. The reason that the world is heading toward destruction is that the order of conjugal love has broken apart."

As a couple, you should be luminous and shine like the sun and the full moon in their principled orbit.  Do not be like the sun or the moon covered in dark clouds in a dark cosmos.

Heaven is looking for a couple which can represent heaven and earth and whose heart is filled with passionate love.   You should leave a legacy of love and raise your children in the atmosphere of such conjugal love.


Be a Couple of Parental Heart That is God's Fence

Economic difficulties cannot crack the affinity of husband and wife. Educational background cannot blur conjugal love. A wife may think that her husband should study a certain field more, but Father doesn't think so.

Love of husband and wife can fill what is lacking.  A wife may think that her husband needs to get a degree or become a doctor to become the best husband.  This is not Father's thinking.  The economic down turn of a nation will not crack the affinity of husband and wife and their educational background will not blur conjugal love.

Conjugal love is the oneness of the love of man and the love of woman.

Conjugal love then should become one with the children's love and then become one with God's love.  God's love dwells where the perfect conjugal love begins.

When a husband and wife are live with God and humankind as their center and are about to explode in love, God and the universe will claim and possess that family. This type of love does not begin with the man or woman - its origin is God's love.

When doves are in love, you hear them say, "coo, coo".  How does a couple in love sound?  When two people who are in deep love meet each other, the sound will be much bigger than that of thunder!

If we have strong love centered upon God, opposition and persecution from the world will be something interesting to play with. "First love" possesses enormous power, like dynamite. Did Adam and Eve live together without getting married, as is the practice of the young people in this age?

True love is the first the last and the eternal.  When Adam and Eve experienced their first love, were they married or practice fallen free love as the young people of this age? 

God wants a couple to love each other intimately and with passion.  When your mind wants to pursue such idealistic love, it will be the driving force to help you push through any difficulties and win over anything including Satan when we are in love.

A spouse filled with true love will love with the oneness of body, heart and blood lineage.  Who loves like that?  Only the husband and wife can perpetuate this ideal.  With a love like this, can a spouse have a fulfilling life when apart from their spouse?

Your spouse is the most lovely object in the world and your relationship as a couple resembles an echo.  Your spouse will live and behave according to how you sound and behave.  This may be difficult to hear when a spouse seems to be acting poorly toward another. 

When a man loves a woman, no matter how strong or masculine he may be, he will not reject a woman who has plunged into the depth of his heart with such a great love.  Men love such a woman.  When one sacrifices and invests everything for the sake of love, all barriers will be broken.

This is partly why Father Moon believes that through inter-cultural and interracial marriages, the world can become one. What grandfather would bomb the country where his grandchildren reside?

Passionate love outside the holy union of God has been the downfall of many nations and leaders.  To keep all the love for the spouse, bachelors and virgins are warned not to even touch each other's hands before marriage.   This is to love 100%.

When one keeps all of their love before marriage, they will be able to give this to their spouse wholeheartedly.  With a love this passionate, even when a couple is far apart, they will find themselves moving toward each other automatically.

We must correct the mistake of our first ancestors who loved passionately before they were blessed in marriage by God.  Afterward, humanity's mind and body contradicted each other.  God has used religion to help us correct this problem. 

Once we make the mind the subject over our body;s many ungodly wants, then we should make a circular relationship where God can dwell in our mind. 

When a man and woman whose mind and body are united enter into the Marriage Blessing directly given by God, they will live giving and receiving perfect love and happiness.  This harmonized couple will resemble a flower in full bloom and emanate a beautiful fragrance to God.  For thousands of years, God has longed for such a couple.

"God can dwell only in the love of a husband and wife; all things and the universe should be harmonized centering upon that love. The Unification Church is the place for teaching this content."

God's favorite melody is the joyous laughing of a couple in love. When a couple lives with the mind to embrace the whole universe, laughter is produced automatically. Isn't the loving life of a such a couple a beautiful flower in God's sight? This is not a mere ideal or something abstract;this is how the original world was supposed to be.

What is God's favorite melody?

It is the joyous sound of laughter of a couple in love.  When a couple lives with the mind to embrace the whole universe, laughter is produced automatically. Isn't the loving life of a such a couple a beautiful flower in God's sight? This is not a mere ideal or something abstract;this is how the original world was supposed to be.  A couple becomes united in oneness when they have they desire to accomplish the purpose of the universe as the most significant aspect of life.

When a couple speak, they speak centered upon their mind, personality and love.  This makes them equal, correct?  If a woman from the country with only an elementary school education marries a king, the people of the nation bow to the wife.  Husband and wife go the same way;the wife's love is the wife's love is the husband's love and the husband's love is the wife's love.

When a man laughs, his eyes open wide, and when the women laughs her eyes gently close.  The husband and wife's laughter is relative and they become more intoxicated in love.

A couple shouldn't unilaterally desire their spouse's face to remain in a fixed shape. If they remain fixed, each will become really tired of looking at the other. When you look at your spouse with a joyful heart, he or she will look joyful; and when you look at your spouse with a beautiful heart, he or she will look beautiful. Feel your spouse's face anew with every new stimulation.

A husband and wife are happy when they give and receive love with each other.  If the husband was to strike his wife, there is no happiness. On the contrary, when a man loves with his loving heart with his physical power, the woman feels complete happiness.  When the wife returns her love physically and spiritually to the man, they become a truly happy couple.

When a man loves a woman, the women will feel true happiness. this love is not produced by energy alone or fulfilled by heart alone.

Because human beings were created to always need stimulation, happiness cannot be established without it. 

When we are starving, our vegetables will taste good and fresh.  We can eat the same meal everyday with the same seasoning.  In the same way, love should always be fresh and new.  As the days pass their love grows, the husband and wife should miss each other day by day.  We do this by studying and researching ourselves and God.

What can bring complete happiness?  Is it eating?  But eating is only temporary and once you had your fill, you can't eat anymore even if you are offered food from the finest restaurants.  We will never get full from the love of our spouse.  As we see them more, we miss them more.  Unification takes place here where lovers make a circle of love.

A married couple might have to think hard to the time before when they were single.  The girl felt like she didn't need a man, but once she was enraptured in love in her married life, she could not live without him.  Through this ownership of love, she sees that her husband is much more precious than herself.

Where does True Happiness come from?

Families these days are bogged down by the demands of their lives.  When a family centers their love upon God, and they can see the joyous God working in their lives, then true happiness is generated.  In God's original ideal when He was creating, making love between husband and wife was not something in which o be ashamed.  He created love to be the noblest, holiest and most beautiful thing in all creation.  The beginning of this reversal in love began with our first ancestor who sin by misusing God's love.

There are now 7 billion men and women in the world, but husband and wife should think that their spouse is the only one in existence.  This is Principle that a couple totally invests themselves in their spouse alone.  Would a couple who thinks this way, stray toward another person or wish for a better spouse?

The value of love lies in longing.

When you actively initiate love by asking for love with your mouth and your eyes, then your spouse will be happy to pour their love to you in return or else he would run away.  Wouldn't a spouse feel bad if their spouse was only passive or not serious in love?  We always want to be together with our lover because it feels good to be close and when we are together, everything functions simultaneously.  We can see God's love and investment through a couple such as this.

Which love is better, the love where two people shout in a crowded room, "love you" or the couple that expresses their love silently.   Deep love kept silent within the heart of a couple is very precious.

Here in America, love is active while in the Oriental culture love is internal.  Waves are high in shallow water and gentle in the deeper part of the ocean.  The waves of love also get quieter in depth, so in this sense, invisible love is more precious than visible love. 

What about God?  What would happen if he was a walking, visible God?  Every nation would fight even more wars just to possess such a limited being  within their boundaries.  Fortunately, God is invisible which is the most precious.  Because God dwells inside our invisible mind, nobody can steal him from us.

What if love was visible?

 It would be no fun.  Invisible love is the greatest love of among all love.  Because love is invisible like God, it can be the highest, widest, and deepest.  Love is compared to the Rocky Mountains and the Niagara Falls to describe love's deep, rugged qualities. 

"The invisible God is precious because invisible love is precious."

In order to find God, we must get rid of our ego and become absolute zero in front of God without our own agenda.  God lives deeply within the realm of the invisible world and in the visible world which we live.

When we see an American couple or a Hollywood couple in love it looks very hot.  But this love is actually lukewarm compared to Oriental couples.  American couples kiss each other automatically every morning like a fly touching on the skin and flying away. 

An Oriental husband and wife stare at each other before kissing and they shyly drop their eyes.  This scene can compare to a great masterpiece in any museum.  Also, the scene of the wife carrying the briefcase for her husband just before they leave for a business trip.  An American wife barely will leave the room or turn her head to see her husband off before he leaves.  Therefore, Orientals who are aware of the Western life style don't want to get married to an American woman.

The conversation of a loving couple is much more beautiful than any poem or any picture in the world. How beautiful words are, such as "between lovers," "between ourselves," or "you and me"!

When God blesses human beings, He creates the environment for the couple to be happy. The couples who enter the door of such blessing don't fight with each other right away. After entering the door of love, they are busy exchanging whispers such as, "I've been waiting to meet you for a long time. My life will bloom with the flowers of value through you. I was born to love you and waited to love you until now." There is nothing sweeter than the confidential talk of love.

God creates an environment in which a couple can be happy when he blesses them together.  A couple united in this love will not fight with each other right away, but will be happy and be appreciative for such a spouse.  This type of couple will tell one another how they have longed to meet them and how their life will bloom in value through them. They will say, "I was born to love you and waited to love you until now." 

"Their is nothing sweeter than the confidential talk of love."

The married couple's whispering of love is the most effective refrigerant to cool off all the fatigue and the hatred in the world.

A couple shouldn't demand love forcibly from each other. Love is natural, so the confidential talk of love is soft and beautiful.

Before marriage a man looks creepy and scary to a wife, but the woman's heart quickly changes after marriage.  After knowing this love, she would gratefully take a nap in her husband's bosom.  Such a woman will do whatever it takes to be with her husband as much as possible and ask him to come home for lunch.

Likewise, a man after knowing love, wants to sleep on his wife's lap whenever he finds leisure time, so he rushes right home at a coffee break or at lunch time. After marriage, he can do whatever the wife wants without a moment's hesitation -- even things that he formerly considered totally belonging to women. This is the typical change which takes place in a married couple with true love centered on God.


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This text was rewritten from speech given by Reverend Sun Myung Moon who is the founder of the Unification Church.