Value of Sexual Organs - More Than U Thought

Even though Communism was defeated officially through the falling of the Berlin Wall, it still exists and is followed wholeheartedly by multitudes of people through force.

The ideals that we find happiness and salvation through the materials we achieve was based upon, not any religion, but the ideology of Communism.

Communism had a mission to bring about world peace but through force and without God.  In fact, under the communistic regime, anyone who pronounces any sort of faith was murdered or persecuted.

We were able to see the trend of this ideology take over the Western world beginning in the 1980s.
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The 'me generation' was the first generation which alluded to the fact that the trend of materialism was taking over the ideals of spirituality and religion.

The Me generation was the label given to children raised during that era, who were no longer about humanity and their neighbors, but their own joy, suffering and accomplishments.  It was the first generation, raised by the idealist of the 60s, where America truly begin to see the slip in values.

What is the basis of individualism; where does it begin?

No one can claim anything as his own; God owns everything and bequeaths it to His children.

When a child grows up, through the love of his parents, 99.999 percent of his existence springs from the mother's bone, flesh and blood which combines with his father's .001 percent of the father's sperm.

When you break this down, you do not see any concept of "myself alone" in nature.

Nothing Was Created for its Own Sake

No one is born with the concept of "myself".

No matter how great any of us are, we cannot claim that we became great all by ourselves.  Bone, flesh and blood and the important parts of our body are all inherited from within our mother's womb.

Every essential element of our body is included in the egg and sperm.

There is no exception.  Therefore, there is no base or foundation for any self-centered individualism.

When you think of above, you automatically acknowledge below.  Will individualism be able to stand with the concept of above by itself?

There is not a concept of the individual by itself.  

This is not part of the creation which exists in pairs.

When we talk about right, it presupposes the existence of left.  In the relationship between front and back, front presupposes back.  The word man also cannot exist by itself - it presupposes woman.  This is not just the claim of any person, but is a universal fact.

Why did God create man?

Usually a man said that they would be perfectly fine if they live alone by themselves and they do not care why they were created.

Despite this fact, man was created for the sake of the woman.  Without women, there is no need for a man.  Actually, nothing in creation is made for its own sake.

Take our five senses for example.

Are our eyes created for looking at themselves?  In the same way, our nose, ears, mouth and hands were created for the sake of our partner - not for ourselves.

The force that can mobilize and focus the five senses is true love.

 Eyes, nose, ears, mouth and hands are the tools that were created for the sake of true love.

If people take things that do not belong to them without permission for their own use, we call them thieves.

Therefore, any person who uses his five sense and even his body just for his own sake alone is a thief.  This is because these were created for his wife and future descendants, not for his own sake.

What is the main difference between men and women?

Of course, their bodies and the sexual organs in particular.  Then who absolutely needs the male organ?

It exists for the sake of the woman.

One of the sexual organs is concave and the other is convex.  Why are we created in this way?

Because each of them exists for the sake of the other.

You did not know that the female organ absolutely belongs to man.

Who thinks of such a concept in the time of women's equality that says women and man should be equal in every aspect of life.  Women absolutely wants what is man's and vice versa.

Through each occupying each other's sexual organs, man and woman come to know love.

Only through the experience of these two becoming perfect in oneness, will they come to know the highest level of love and not the secular form of love of having different partners every night.

Everyone must acknowledge these facts as truth and not deny them.  Today's popular trend is to date as many people in a week or night as possible, but this is far from the ideal way and is the reason marriages have lost value.

An ideal couple comes into being in the place where the two achieve complete unity.  Absolute love exists in that very place.

God would come to dwell in such a place of unity where love is absolutely unchanging.

Man Owns Woman and Woman Owns Man

How does the subject and object, or yin and yang unite?

Would it be through kissing?

Love is abstract and not concrete.  Do you know what makes a man a man and a woman a woman?  It is none other than their sexual organs.

Who dislikes these organs?

Up until this point, you may have not known the virtue in valuing the sexual organs.  From now on we should cherish them.

What will the world be like in the future?

It will be a world that will not abuse their sexual organs, but will absolutely cherish them.  Will that world be good or bad; will it prosper or perish?

Which part did God invest the greatest creative effort when He was creating human beings?

If humanity was to be able to completely transcend into traditional fields of morality and religion while being absolutely in harmony with the sexual organs, earning welcoming praise from God, then what kind of world would that be?  Who owns the male and female organs?

The organs of the husband's sexual organ belongs to the wife; her sexual organs belongs to the husband.

Have you ever thought that a person's sexual organ is owned by the person of the opposite sex?

This is a simple truth that cannot be denied.  Even after thousands of years of progress, this truth will not change.  Typically, a man thinks that his sexual organs belongs to himself to do however he pleases.

One believes since they think their sexual organs belong to them that it does not hurt anyone else.  But to carelessly misuse this organ does harm not only to the future spouse, but eventually to the whole of society which degrades through such behavior.

A woman thinks her sexual organs belong to her.  This is why the world is perishing due to this individualistic thinking centered on one self and not God.

Everyone has mistaken the ownership of the sexual organs.

People have thought that love is absolute, eternal and dreamlike, but they were unable to grasp the true ownership of the sexual organs which lies with the opposite sex.

If humanity had known this simple fact, it would not have become the hell on earth as today.

Even thousands of PhD recipients and scholars have never thought of this point of the most important part of the human anatomy.

If you could ask your parents, grandparents, great-grandparents, the original ancestors, even God who is the origin of the universe, they would all agree that the sexual organs belong to the spouse.

This is an iron-clad rule which will remain as an universal principle even after the universe has existed for billions of years.

The natural conclusion then is that when you stand before God, He will judge you as either righteous or unrighteous according to this law.  In fact, the Fall originated in the violation of this very law.

Adam and Eve, each thought that their sexual organs belonged to themselves to use as they please even before they were mature.

Because of their selfishness in not listening to God's warning, they were driven out and could not be acknowledged anywhere in the universe.

The sexual organs are reserved for the sake of one's partner of love.  Adam and Eve did not know this.

Why do the sexual organs exist?  They exist for love.  Thus the male and female exist in order to find the pure love of God.

All men and women must become humble when they receive their spouse's love.

Love comes to you through your partner.

There is no love that is separate than love for the sake of others.  We must remember, that we find absolute love wherever we absolutely live for the sake of the others.




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This post was rewritten and derived from the textbook cehon Seong Gyeong book four, True Family, chapter Twelve Section 1,3

America Must Change Directions

America feels that the direction that it is going is the best direction just because they have always been successful.

Americans don't even want to accept the suggestion that they have to move in another direction.  Americans insist that they are the greatest and refuse to believe that any other nation can be great enough or worth understanding and learning from.

According to the Principle viewpoint, this will never work.


Dr. Rev. Sun Myung Moon


If you were to observe the country decade by decade, you would undoubtedly see the multitude of changes such as the break-up of the family units, school shootings, rise in atheism and so on and so forth.

These may seem like natural occurrences, but it is a true sign that we as a nation have headed in the wrong direction.  Others may shrug it off and say, "This is human nature.  We are animals, there is nothing to stop it".

What is the true desire of our original God-given nature without any trace of sin?

When you say 'nature' most people, automatically think it conveys something we see or that is manifested.

The word 'nature' refers to the result instead of the cause.  But 'original nature' refers to more to the cause than the result.

We generally understand that there is a background or cause to a person's nature.  There is something that formed everyone's nature.  The result's destiny and direction is determined according to its cause.  People receive certain surnames from their parents such as Smith or Jones.

Each individual comes from a different cause which takes him to a certain destination and direction.
  We see that some people like a certain thing and some people don't like it at all.

We as individuals are within the universe which is a big sphere.

All spherical shapes have a central point from which a line is drawn out going in all directions.  As individuals, we each have a certain point within this sphere and form our own sphere, centering on the central core.

From that point, we proceed in a certain direction according to what we inherited from our ancestors.  Even though another person may be at the same point within the larger sphere, he might take the opposite direction depending on what he inherits.

You, as well, occupy a certain position.  Some of you go toward the north, others will go west and so forth.

When the person who is going west has reached the limits of the west, he has to do on of two things:  either he stops there, and cease to move, or he can change directions and keep moving.  Everything in motion wants to perpetrate itself without exception.  Everything wants to keep on moving and continue forever.

The person who has reached the limit of the direction of the west can turn to the north and then turn back toward the east.  This person can think, "I have been going west and it is very meaningful to me, but I can go east because I am flexible."  Then that person keeps moving forward.

If that person however does not have flexibility in the direction he is going, when he has reached the limit of the west then he will be in trouble.  Then instead of willingly going forward, the nature of the sphere will force him to change his direction maybe pushed to go toward the south.

He can do one of two things: He can be absorbed by the environment of the south, or he himself can digest the environment of the new direction. The person may think that heading east he will never once deviate from that direction, but unless he can willingly move to a new direction, once he reaches the limits of that direction, he cannot continue to progress.

Why is it necessary to change directions?  Why can't he just continue to move east?

It is the will of the universe, which is in the shape of a sphere, to maintain that spherical nature. 

Therefore, changes of direction are necessary.


Here I am, Reverend Moon, an Oriental man. People wonder, "Why doesn't he stay in the Orient? Why did he come to the west and face all this criticism?" Externally, there are many barriers for people to understand this, but internally I am well understood and able to communicate. Your original nature, your true nature, can estimate your own value, the value of Reverend Moon, and the value of the relationship you can have by uniting with me. Although I came from the east, it is also important for me to move toward the west.


Once you enter another person's property you have to ask person for permission to go any further.  Once you are allowed to enter, you may tell them that you will obey the rules of the territory.  The same thing applies to the existence of men and women.

Women today who say that they are sufficient with being by themselves forever and why do they need a man, does not understand her need to move in a different direction.

Or on the other hand, a woman who has seriously been searching and finally finds a man, but she instructs him that he has to do everything the way she wants.  Certainly men do not want such a woman.

Her movement toward another direction towards a man only came to a certain point.  She actually cannot truly enter the territory of a man if she has such an attitude.

By the same token, a man who has been in search of a woman must be willing to accept her and behave in a way that pleases her. Otherwise, he too stops right there and does not actually enter into the territory of a woman. He does not actually change his direction.

Why should men and women live according to the desire of the other instead of continuing to just live in the way they desire?

By living for the other, men and women make a spherical movement, not a linear one.  Living in this manner, there will be no end to their movement, and they will continue forever.

As they move in this spherical manner, they are headed in a certain direction, or along a certain path..

When a man and woman are truly living in perfect harmony with one another, they are able to go any  place in the world and adapt, no matter where or how difficult it is.

A couple may be headed east and say that they do not want to go west, but once they get all the way in that direction, there is nowhere else for them to go.  Then they cease to develop.

Why do we need to change our direction?  Why is the going in the opposite direction necessary?

It is because in order to keep moving in a spherical motion requires that we embrace the opposite direction.

All living things move like a spiral which is small in the center and is large on the outside.

Just like we all breathe in and breathe out, all living things go through the motion of shrinking and expanding.

Through this phenomenon, it ensures that the central point will eventually move to the outside and the outer point will eventually move to the inside.

When we exercise our muscles, our bodies naturally go through the normal shrinking and expanding.

Have you noticed people breathe in different ways?

Some people breath in a deep long breath, but exhale in short puffs.  Others may take in a short, strong breath which takes a long time to exhale.

Also, the earth expands and shrinks.

We must be connected to the rest of the universe and have a relationship with it.  Would you only want to be recognized by people in your school, or by everyone in the United States or even in the whole world?

The biggest trend these days is reality shows that showcase everyday people.  There are different scenarios that one can imagine even wife swapping.  It seems that everyone wants as many people to know who they are as much as popular.  Everyone wants their 15 minutes in the limelight.

Why do we want to be recognized on the largest scale possible?

We want to be recognized by the largest scale so we can be connected with it and move out to the largest level of value.

Another way to express your desire to be recognized by the world is by saying that it is natural to want to relate with the cause of your being.

It is good to go back to our cause in order to participate in the value of the whole universe.

Your value as an individual can be involved in the value of the universe.

If someone was to pluck a hair from someone's head, to whom would that hair belong?  The hair was attached to the body, but the whole body contributed to the elements of the hair.

All beings are perpetually in a spiral, spherical motion, coming back to their cause.

In a circle, we can draw a spiral that begins at the outer rim and goes to the inner point of the circle, but we can also draw a straight line that leads from the outer point directly to that inner point.

You may wonder why we just don't go in a line which is the shortest distance, but the universe does not work that way.  Only in a drawing, in two dimensions can we move in such a straight line, not in the realm of the ideal.


Where should I go after having been here in the west? I will go to South America and Africa, then to the north and such countries as Russia. There is work that needs to be done in the southern and northern countries. 


A person has two options when they go to another country:  either be absorbed by that country or digest everything there.  Traditionally, the United States is a place where other cultures are absorbed, but Father has tried to influence America to become a better place.

If a nation comes to the end of the direction they are heading and refuse to go in another direction, it simply will perish if it is not willing to change.  This is the law of the universe.

This is why Westerners are taught in the church that they must change directions.

If Americans were to go to the the southern countries, where the people are predominantly dark-skinned, with an attitude that their way is superior and "black" people should bow down to them, this is not good.

This is the same attitude of the woman or man who refuses to harmonize with their spouse.  Of course the spouse will not accept such a person and he will be isolated.

If Westerners refuse to recognize the value of any other direction just because they have been going in one direction, then they will be isolated with no place to go.

We can see that all over the world this type of non-changing attitude has caused strong anti-American sentiment.  Some nations are bitter toward America.

Americans may not know this fact until they are exposed to such feelings.  Someone has to point out to them that, yes, they have been successful so far, but they must recognize they have come to the end of this direction and must turn around and go another way.

Someone from the east teaches this important lesson because America was started from a certain cause and has come to a certain result.

Now, the spiral must begin to turn inward toward the original cause.

Maybe someone is happy that they found God, but they still want to continue to expand himself.  However, it is more natural to go inward toward the cause which means that one must become smaller.

A spiral motion goes inward only by shrinking, not expanding, therefore, modesty has been traditionally considered a virtue.

By becoming smaller, a person can return to that cause in the center.  But a selfish person is not normally modest or humble.

Sometimes, humble people are criticized or treated poorly.  They may be told that they should be more expressive and reach out to the world and give themselves more.

Once this person has gone to the inside of the spiral, then they move out again to the outer part toward the result level.

In other words, once he has gone all the way down to the smallest point, there is no other way to go but up and out.  If he stays around and doesn't want to go out, someone will come and push him.

Why must there be constant motion?

The purpose of all movement is eternal motion, this is the nature of eternity.  

The effect has become one with each other in perfect harmony.

Then they can move in any direction, just like an harmonized couple that is welcomed anywhere in the world.

You have within yourself a mind which is the cause and a body which is the result of your mind.

They want to be in motion, this is natural.  The mind wants to express itself and go beyond itself through the use of the body.  The body, also, wants to go inside the mind.

Which is the subject and which is the object?

The one who takes the initiative is the subject.

Thus, the mind is in the subject position over the body.  But we find that the body sometimes refuses to respond to the good mind.  This is the general nature of Satan.   Satan resists ever becoming smaller.  Once he does go up, he never wants to go down.

The true, original nature of man is in accordance to the principle of perpetual motion from inside to outside, from up to down. Constant motion.

Then do Western people need Eastern people?

Yes, because both directions are required within the sphere of the earth.  The one who gets the closest to the center is the one who is adaptable and willing to go in all four directions no matter how difficult it may be.

That kind of person is qualified to be closest to the center.

There may be a humble woman who is close to that central point, but because people just judge her by her outward appearance, they many not see how good of a person she is.  However, she has a quality that is the most beautiful and adaptable to all four directions.

She is harmonious within all four directions able to digest everything never making demands for herself.

Even is she does not realize it, as she continues to move, she will eventually end up at that central position.

Who do you need more: yourself or your neighbor?

If you are from the west, whom do you learn from more, another Westerner, a Northerner or anyone from another direction?

Because of this principle, we can conclude that all people must live for the sake of others.

When you ask a college student why does he study, he may answer because he wants a better position in life or want to marry a better person.

This answer is not universal.

The better answer would be that he goes to school in order to have more to offer in service of his nation and the world.   This actually makes more sense.

If a person continues to go up the ladder of success step by step and becomes a rich man of influence, eventually he has to return those accomplishments back to his cause which are his parents.

Even though the whole world may willingly bow down before a man of greatness and influence, he will stay humble before his parents like the day he was born not demanding them to bow to him.  This is more natural than one who tries to remain in a lofty position never wanting to go back to his origins.

In Korea, parents say to their children, "Go out and come back quickly," wishing their child well.  In the English language there is no simple word to express such an idea.

Within this wish is such a knowledge that unless you are welcomed by the world, you cannot go out and come back quickly.  So, you want the world to welcome your child.

It is a natural desire for parents to send their children out to become successful, then come back.  Also, we want to go to the level of true family because the original mind needs to reach that level before it can move up to all the other levels.

This is the standard way and no one can change it.

You may have many people tell you that you have beautiful eyes, but do the cells of your eyes feel isolated from the cells of the rest of the body?

Even the eye wants to be harmonious with the rest of the body even though it is a small part of the whole.

Some people might want to stay in the same position and not move up to other levels because they are satisfied being by themselves.

They don't even want to go to the family level.  If somebody wants to stay in such a position, he will eventually be miserable.



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This post rewritten from the speech The Deep Desire of Our Original Nature

We Must Get Rid of Barriers

When we speak of heaven, we speak of God; when we say earth, we speak of human beings. If God is all alone, He cannot be fulfilled, so He needs to come together with human beings. The purpose of creation can be fulfilled only when love is fulfilled, and love cannot be fulfilled by one alone; there must be two, in the relationship of subject and object.


Rev. Sun Myung Moon


When love is fulfilled, both the upper and lower areas are fulfilled equally.

This was God's ideal for the world, but because of the fall true love could not be completed.  Therefore there are several different barriers and walls which separate heaven and earth. When the highest point comes down and the lowest point comes up, they can meet in the middle.

In Oriental philosophy, the word 'heaven' connotes huge noble aspects, while 'earth' connotes small, lowly things.  The distinction between the two only came about through man's selfish love.

If the fall did not occur, there would not have been a difference between heaven and earth.  Heaven would thus be on earth; world peace would have been established from the beginning if the seed of misused love had not been planted.

Even though man fell, God cannot go down to the point of the fall.  Therefore, man must bring himself by uniting mind and body.  The most important thing is for man to know God and to conquer the ignorance of the fall and his horrible situation.

God has worked thousands of years to bring people out of darkness so we can know God's true nature.  Yet, wherever God goes, Satan plants his seeds of hate, doubt and lust to trip up God's people.  Therefore, God uses alternative means to reach His children.

God had made two major efforts throughout history to do this.  He used science, which is the external level, and religion is on the internal level.  When we know the purposes of both, then we know where would science and religion be headed.

The two  will meet at the point where love is fulfilled.  This would not be the level of human love standard, but the pure, high standard of God's love.  Any effort to find and discover God will ultimately reach the one point of the true love of God.

Every entity has two aspects: internal and an external.

The two must meet at one point. This means that the mind and body should share the knowledge each possess and unite.  To become one, the two should know each other.

In order for science and religion to unite, they both must understand each other.  Everyone possesses a mind and body which is in a horizontal alignment, side by side.  God also has a mind and body which are in the same position.

Here on earth man should have unity between his mind and body.

We can meet God, not only through religion, but also through science.

This fact may be hard to take in, for both sides, that unity is imminent between science and religion.

Have you noticed that you are at your happiest when your plans or ideals are finally fulfilled?  This realization is not enough, it is the coming into oneness with a subject or object in reciprocal give and take that creates happiness.

Then what makes God happy and what is the work of God?

God's work after the fall has been in perfection of human beings.  This has been God's goal and true masterpiece.  When that goal is met, that will be the point of ultimate joy and goodness.  This would not be the point of secular, lustful love, but the original pure love of God.

I want you to understand that unless your mind and body are united, you are not eligible to meet God. 

We have two eyes that do not work independently, but they both have one focus that produces one image, not two.  The same with ears, the nervous system coordinates those impulses into one sound.  This focus is between the two, not in front of one or the other.

When two different focal points meet, they will discover that they are actually alike.  When they discover their likeness, they will be able to stimulate each other in give and take and fellowship.

When your mind and body no longer war for domination and are totally united with the godly mind at the center, then that focus is upon God.

God's united mind and body is united into one and people would be the focus of these two.

The common goal that excites them both would be true love.

Therefore, unless God finds love, He cannot find completion; and unless man finds his ultimate goal, which is the true love of God, he cannot achieve completion either.  When God focuses upon man and man focuses upon God, and the two are united, the entire universe is united.


In human love, the nervous system focuses to transfer sensation to the whole system. If the mind is willing to live this way, but the body is lethargic and doesn't obey, then the mind/body alignment is askew. Then the person is crippled, just as if he were missing an arm.

It is most important that we focus our life. 

The focus of the entire spirit world is God, and the focus of the physical world is man.

We see many horrors in these days, but you must understand that God would not arrange His creation in a sloppy manner.  God being perfect and of love, God must have organized the creation to focus upon one point on both earth and in spirit world.


There are two aspects to everything in the physical world: positive and negative. Within those positive and negative aspects, there are also internal and external elements, or mind and body. Once positive and negative electrical charges meet, you can't tell which is which. Likewise, you can't tell where positive starts and negative ends in a magnetic field. But there is action in the magnetic field and energy is created.


Men and women are different, but they are not enemies.

Instead, each focuses on the other to win his or her love.  Every senses focuses on love.  Even in the nonreligious world today, people see the fact that men and women meet and love each other, but this is only the beginning point.

Just like energy from the power plant works wonders, men and women work wonders together to tap God's power plant.  When you understand this, then living becomes a joy.

Even electricity follows this Principle.

Would electricity refuse to the light up the house of a smelly country bathroom?  Electricity works universally, once it is hooked up.  Do your nerves refuse to provide sensation to your smelly, dirty feet?  Does your blood refuse to circulate through arteries and veins there?

The oceans of the world are really one body of water even though sections of it are given different names depending on location.  In the same way, once love is activated, it is able to go anywhere in the universe.

Young people would like to travel the entire world with their husband and wife, and then along with their children thereafter.  Wouldn't a true king also like to see all of the beauties of the world accompanied by all of his subjects?

Don't you envy the birds who have the freedom to fly off to any parts of the world without a passport?  Humanity has such senseless barriers such as immigration restrictions and hangups about nationalities which are man-made barriers.

Once we are able to get rid of all of these barriers, we will be able to live in a world as free as the birds.  

Do ducks from the north discriminate against ducks from the south?

Would they refuse to marry and mate with one another just because they are from different parts of the world?

Nature in this respect has a higher standard than humanity by following this basic principle of the universe.  To ducks, it does not matter whom they marry just as long as they are ducks!

You are constantly told that you should serve others and focus your love and attention on other people because by living in this way you create unity.

A good athlete focuses all of his energy and distributes it perfectly in the pursuit of his sport. If 1, 000 people were able to do this, they would generate great energy and power.  This pushing and pulling force must harmonize to create tremendous power.

The greater the power of give and take, the greater the wonder it can create. 

God can stretch His arms from one pole to the other pole while embracing the entire universe in give and take.  If God is great, then it is logical that His creation which is man is also great.

Your ears "focus" within your brain, but actually you want to hear sounds that are universal, not selfish.

We take exhaling and inhaling for granted, but have you ever thought that the air we breathe travels all around the world linking you to it?

In daily life we are dealing with one universe, one air, one water, one sunlight and one land.

Do you focus all of your attention just on your husband or wife without taking interest in your society, nation and world?

When man and woman attain unity, they would then focus on the larger entities such as society, nation and world.

The greater the vision and the greater the distance this couple focuses on together, the greater your life becomes.

Has anyone else ever thought like this?  We know that as individuals we represent the entire universe, and furthermore you think that God looks like you, not that you look like Him?  Is this pompous thinking?

Through the teachings of the Divine Principle, which this blog is based upon, a small person would think that he was big enough to embrace all of America and the world.  This would not be possible through any physical means, of course.  But through love he would be able to do it.

There is no nationality in the world of love because love travels all over, like air. 

Can love reach all the way to God? Love will penetrate God's system and reach His heart.

If someone was to lock God's love in a vault, your love would be able to penetrate even that wall.  This means that your love is the greatest secret key of all.  Everyone no matter what their status is focused upon love, even God hangs onto it.

All things cling to love as well.

Everyone, young or old, Eastern or Western wants to be in possession of beautiful things.  If we were to think what the most precious thing in the universe would be, it would have to be love.

Even all of the spirits in spirit world would have to agree.



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This post was rewritten and derived from the speech Heaven and Us

Corrupted Love Decrease;God's Love Increases

The western world places such importance on fashion without tradition, but really important things are not subject to fashion.

The earth has its own tradition; it is unchangeable.

The population of white people compared to the over 4 billion living in Asian countries amount to only 25% of the Asian population.  That is one to four which equals yellow power.

If there was a war to break out, it could not be a nuclear war.

What if problems were solved through martial arts?  Karate has the technique for taking your opponent's guts out.

We should never be confronting, but harmonizing.

In the Unification Movement, Reverend Moon performs international marriages where members from other countries do not mind marrying Orientals; they even love it.

Each person has their own heavenly fate to follow.  This fate goes up and down over thousands of years never on a straight line.  So, the family that is enjoying the upper trend now, will later have to come down.

Knowing this principle, no one should be arrogant about their position, because everyone who is up knows they will eventually come down.

Those, who refuse to come down, will crumble anyway. Everyone has to come down.  If your lives are difficult right now, don't worry; always think, "My day will come".  Those whose generation has been doing well, prepare yourself and expect to come down.

Every major religion started in the low position and went up.  This is the natural way.

There has been persecution on the world scale, therefore, it raises up on the world scale.  Who is the greater person: the one who sacrifices their life for God's will or the president?

The current of heart began from God at the beginning of history.

Since God is the center of the heartistic tide, that tide itself is omnipotent and omniscient. 

It knows everything.

If you understand God's intention and dispensation centering on Divine Principle, the Completed Testament, you know everything.

After obtaining knowledge from this content, you would have minimal question, not major ones such as "why do we exist?".

When we know Gods love, which is a very secret part of God, then there is nothing more we need to know in the world.  Would God like to keep this secret to Himself?

Until humanity reaches perfection, there is a lot of secrets and deceit.  Once we become perfect, then there are no more secrets and nothing we do not know.  Before, other cultures did not expose their legs before being influenced by western revealing fashions through movies and the media.

Fallen man essentially is like a thief. 

He sees something good and he takes it away.

Men see a woman who keeps a secret as more attractive.  Love needs to be planted in the deeper places instead of flowing around freely. Thus, if you cover only a little of your body in public with little secret to the imagination, is this attractive?

It is less interesting once you expose it.

How much more stimulating would it be if a man did not see a woman's bosom or skin for many years until they get married?

Western women do not keep secrets.  Even statues are undressed and show everything.

For a woman to qualify as a bride, she should not have seen the entire body of a man in her life. Even living in a small room with sisters who are strict and should have never seen any male figures before.  Until then they are mystified.

So, when they join together for the first time, the mind and body will tumble into oneness.
Korean tradition for married couples was to never talk with each other at all in public, train or on the bus.

If they talked, people would look at them strangely.  It was unthinkable for them to talk and laugh.  Therefore, they would hold in all kinds of expressions.  Those expressions could later be used in the bedroom.

Love starts from the deepest place, in privacy. That is the true nature of love. 

A love king and love queen take action in the most secret place.  The most deep is secret.  Deep means secret.  Which is better, western women, the deep one or the short one?:

Deep means secret.  Who is the owner of the original love of creation: God or Satan?

Satan proclaims that the way that he loves is the original love.  Today's society is so confused that they do not know the difference between God's pure, true love and Satan's corrupted, sinful love.

How do we know that God's love is true?   First, it was absolute, and also because it was first.  

Corrupted love starts big, but diminishes, whereas, God's love starts small and becomes bigger and bigger.

The satanic world has come as far as it could and bore its sinful fruit.  God's world of love is just beginning. This means that God's love is descending from above to below.

Satan is the center of the satanic world's love. 

When we compare God's and Satan's love: Satan's horizontal (physical/bodily world) love is hell, and God's vertical love is heaven.

Satanic love gets smaller and smaller, while God's love becomes larger and larger.  Satan's world eventually comes down because it is centered on the self without God.  It does not center on the whole including others, or for the sake of everyone.

Satan places himself in the highest position in his world of love and comes down.  God's love is just the opposite.  It starts small, and at the base of love is everybody, the public.  This is historical indemnity.



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This post was rewritten and derived from the speech The Tide of the Heart

Only One Way Men and Women Are Equal

Suppose there were millions of women on earth, but only one man?

Would the woman who marries him be able to declare that she didn't truly love her husband and she could start searching for another because of something she does not like about him?

If this was truly the last man on earth, would it matter to the women that he was crippled as long as he was a man?

If he had only one eye would women refuse to marry him based on this?  In that case, his wife would quickly remedy any problems in her heart toward him, and even though she does not like some parts of him, she would accept him.

If a woman is able to digest the negative things in her husband, then unity will come forward and then love will follow.

When unity is accomplished then God moves there to visit.

Unity is good because God dwells there, and then everything becomes love.  Therefore, any movement that creates unity everywhere and with everyone will flourish.

Only after God created both Adam and Eve did He say that the creation was good.

Women today are called feminists as they seek out the concept of equality.

No matter how much they fight for the cause, they cannot argue the fact that there are differences between men and women.  Can woman claim equality when a man needs two helpings of food and women only need one?

A woman wrestler could never defeat a man.  Men can do extra hard labor that a woman cannot do.  Therefore, can women demand equality with these physical differences and strengths?

When are men and women equal?

Only through love are men and women equal.

Is there any better equality higher than love?

During the more primitive times, a man had to work extra hard to provide for his family.  Since man was independent in this way back then and could care for the whole family, God gave woman the one ability that man could never have, which is childbearing in order to balance the differences in their capabilities.

The latest trend these days is that more women have less desire to marry and refuse to have children.

Women must know that their body was not created for themselves.  Even a child understands that the woman's hips and bosom are to nurture children.  But now women diet instead of wanting to develop their hips and breasts for their children.

Would a child want to cuddle in the arms of a woman with a bony figure, or wide hips and soft bosoms? The present trend is for women to be very thin in the Western society.    The design formerly came from the British where women were proud to show off their large hips and bosoms.

This is a serious matter.

If you were to ask God, would He say it was better for a woman to have small bosoms or abundant ones after childbirth?  What about a full figure that is in proportion to their overall height?  Maybe being plump does not look right for an Asian frame, because of their small height.

What about a tall Westerner?

Now, that you understand that your features must balance your height, there is no need to diet.

What is the way we must go in order to prosper?

First, you must be parallel to the purpose of creation.  If you have active love that you give out, you have the ability to observe and digest.  This is an action man and woman should do together.  If you have love, then unity will not be that difficult.

If a couple really loves one another, then it is easier for them to observe and embrace each other.  Sometimes you have to travel a wide road and sometimes the road is narrow.

When you lived the single life before getting married, you went your own way.  But after marriage, you are on the same track with another person.  Either person cannot change for their own individual desire, but they must continue to travel together.

If the goal is always changing, then harmony will be lost and conflict between the two result.  If you continue to change your direction and discard the old one, the next one will never be as good.

The reason is simple: whoever follows the law of creation will be protected by God.

He gets God's protection because He wants the purpose of creation fulfilled.

The man that goes against the laws of creation and follows Satan's law instead will be opposed by God.  This is how the fall takes place.


A rainy day is closer to Satan's side, while a sunny day is closer to God's side. Nevertheless, although it may be raining, you can feel that the sun is shining all around you. That indicates that you have observed and digested and overcome the circumstances.


It is easy to feel down on a cloudy rainy day, but if you are able to overcome and feel brighter, Satan will have to leave you.

That kind of person can go anywhere in the world and spirit world where Satan hangs out and make Satan leave.  Satan's standard is to always find ways to benefit himself.  So, when you overcome circumstances and defeat his purpose and will, he has nothing to gain by staying around.

Is the diligent or lazy man on God's side or more on Satan's side?

Satan whispers in peoples' ears to discourage them from work saying that it is too much trouble and relax.  God, on the other hand, wants to see consistency in your life.  The person who lives one day to the next just only responding to what is thrown at them leans more on the satanic side.

God would urge people to live according to heavenly law.

Are you on the satanic side or good side?

Is the person that constantly dozes off or the one who has bright eyes during a sermon on the satanic side?

The person that was able to be bright eyed because they had lots of sleep is also on the satanic side!  The person who didn't get much sleep, but is still able to have bright eyes is the worthy one.

What must you do to be on this rising side?  Which of the four saints would this worthy person most resemble?  On what foundation can you say he resembles Jesus?

Jesus, of course, abided by God's law, but more importantly, he lived love.  By living love, he went beyond the limited concept of the law.   He went beyond the concept of race because he wanted to belong to and liberate the whole world, not just his country and people.

He went beyond his own religion, and transcended the strict tenets of Jewish law.  He was faithful to bigger principles.  He not only loved the Jews, but even the enemies of his people as well as the rest of the world.

Jesus could even embrace the people who crucified him.

What did Jesus accomplish based on this foundation of faith?

We can understand precisely why Jesus was so great when we know that his goal was to bring about unity which could even include the Romans.

If Jesus was still alive in America, would he push for deeper segregation between the whites and blacks?  People may feel that they are more comfortable around other whites because they can easily digest that situation.

But God would warn such people that as long as they fail to follow their Christian ideals by failing to include Black and Mexican people and bring unity, they would risk their own survival.  We see that today.

Statistics says that if the current population continues to grow, that by 2050 the white population will become the minority.

Jesus' heart had the capability to observe and digest even the world of the Roman Empire, which at that time ruled the entire world.

This high standard of heart was the reason he was great in the human realm.  Whereas he was great because he was the only one at that time who proclaimed that God was the only Father and humanity were His children.

Jesus consistently followed the law of creation and met God's expectation. As a result, Christianity not only survived, but prospered as no other religion has done before his time.



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This post was rewritten and derived from the speech The Way of Prosperity

Spirit World is Now Here on Earth

Every Sunday morning worshipers sing about "God is on His throne" as we praise him. Would any father enjoy His high position as His own children suffer?

God gave up His throne and came all the way down to the bottom of hell.

After the Fall of man, Satan stole God's children from their original birthright as true owners.  There at the bottom of hell, God Himself paved each step toward the accomplishment of human perfection.  God has been pulling and pushing mankind through each step of the providence.

Who fulfills God's will? By man.

When God is down at the lowest part of the world, would he say that He doesn't need you and He can fulfill His will all alone?  It is impossible to fulfill God's will without man's participation.  Man is an important component to fulfill God's will.  Therefore God embraces man in this mission.

God instructs man in accordance with man's acceptance or his level of understanding.  God cannot teach the highest possible truth to men with inadequate awareness.  With many failures of saints and people of faith to fulfill God's will, His providence has been prolonged for thousands of years.

God could not reveal the contents of the Bible or Divine Principle to primitive tribes who did not know anything about the world or universe and only had concerns for themselves.

God has a method of teaching and gives guidance that differs according to each man's perception.  Still God had a method to teach each generation of man to their own level of understanding.

For example, through Shamanism, God asked people to worship the creation of trees, the sun and moon things in which they could relate and see directly.

Would God have been able to teach people of a simpler time in a classroom and blackboard setting?

God already has all the knowledge and resources necessary to teach each person who can perceive the universe through other teachings.  Yet, God is limited in all the knowledge that He can teach man all the time.

The human mind turns every moment of the day both day and night just like the universe and the earth.  God can only reveal His teaching to a person's mind that is in the daylight or one whose mind is uplifted.  Only in those moments can God capture and teach each of us.

No individual's mind travels in a straight line.

Instead the mind progresses in waves up and down.  You may feel this.  Some days you feel like a million bucks when you wake up and feel like flying.  Other days, you feel so gloomy that you can barely get the strength to make yourself wake up completely.

In those moments that your spirit is uplifted and shining, you are ready to contact the spirit world and God.  A spark can jump between God's spirit and your spirit.  This is the very reason as people of faith that we should strive very hard in each moment to be bright and happy all the time.

When you keep your spirit uplifted all the time, you can meet God. 

This is the most basic and important mode of life for those who want to reach God for which we can be thankful.  If there is something troubling you, then somehow take care of it right away.

So why is it important to monitor and make effort concerning your behavior every moment in life?

By living in this way you open yourself to God and prolong the time which you are able to be with God directly.  In this way, there is more chance that God can approach you.

This is why our religious life is so important in our spiritual progress.  The true definition of a religious life is making yourself readily available to receive God's revelations.  In living a religious life, we pursue the hope of seeing a grandiose future ahead with God even though our present situation only involves suffering.  By doing this you create an atmosphere where you can meet God.

When something deeply troubles you in your heart, don't you seek out a good friend to talk about it and get it off your chest?

This is the same reason religion stresses communication with God and trusting Him with our problems and forgetting about them.

You can go to God and tell him, "God, I have a problem here.  Let me talk it out with You so You can see it and I can get rid of it.".  This is better, because your good friend may not be capable to help or understand you and will eventually forget your situation, but God is capable to handle your problem and will never forget your situation.

Spirit world and God will always approach you when your awareness is high. 

In your awareness, the spirit and God can touch you and teach you, not in a classroom, but through dreams, visions and revelations.

You also may be guided by a spirit guide on a tour and be opened to the reality of the spirit world.  God uses dreams as an important medium to reveal Himself through important revelations in some dreams.

Because of the fall of man caused by the first parents of humanity, we belong to the satanic lineage or bloodline of Satan.  This stained sinful or fallen blood is not pure.  Therefore, there is only one way that a higher spirit can contact you.

Each time we move, that satanic blood circulates through our bodies.On the other hand, when you sleep at night and your body is not in motion, your blood does not circulate as rapidly.  It is the same as a muddy lake that is sitting still allowing the dirt to settle to the bottom bringing the pure water to the top.

This same kind of phenomenon happens when we sleep; our bodies quiet down and in that way our spirit is in a position to be touched, which is why revelations usually come at night. This is common sense; it may be new to you, but in religious life these experiences are very important.

Can you distinguish your dreams whether they are from God or from Satan?  A satanic dream does not have a clear focus, direction or central theme.  Korean slang labels this as "dog dreams".  They are jumbled and easy to forget upon waking up. In contrast, a heavenly dream has a system and a clear theme or message.

Heavenly dreams may continue a message from one dream to the next. 

If you have an uplifting dream three or more times that has the same theme or atmosphere, then you can consider this and receive it as a revelation.  A heavenly dream is so clear in your mind that upon waking you can clearly recall it vividly.

Why is that?

God's purpose of creation was that God and man were supposed to be completely united for eternity after completing the growth stages of formation, growth and perfection of self.

When God gives you something in this true atmosphere, you would not soon forget it.  Because satanic relationships are illicit and unprincipled, however, they are quickly forgotten.

If you are in constant contact with the spirit of God and good spirits, you cannot be swayed by the temptation of Satan.

You would have an unforgettable relationship with God.

Even if you were to go down to the dungeons of hell in a satanic environment, Satan can not claim you because you would be so deeply meditating on God's revelation.  Did you know that 70% of the Bible came through the revelation of dreams?

 In the Old Testament Jacob's eleventh son, Joseph, once told his parents about a dream, in which the sun, the moon and eleven stars came and bowed down to him. This little boy vividly recalled his dream. Later on, Joseph became the Prime Minister of Egypt and his father and mother, who were represented by the sun and moon in the dream, and his eleven brothers, the stars, came and bowed down to him.

Jesus' mother Mary received an important revelation testified in the New Testament.  Joseph was approached by an angel one night that told him not to fear taking Mary as his wife for the baby was conceived in her was of the Holy Spirit.

Every human dreams at night, but usually people forget them.  But if there is a vivid, unusual dream that you can remember more than three years later, such a dream is a revelation and the work of God.  Many people get the revelation about the Messiah of the Second Coming will be an Oriental man born in the flesh.    

Why do these phenomena have to occur?

The spirit world has descended on earth and they are trying to teach you through many distinct types of messages.  Sometimes, God Himself comes, or the spirit of Jesus or a noble spirit.

Sometimes your own ancestors come to you or even an evil spirit.  Therefore, it might not be that easy to determine how true these messages or from who they originate.

It is important to get the help and support of spirit world, but we can be misled and confused by it if we don't know the fundamental principles governing it.  You may witness that in today's time, more and more people are suffering from psychological disturbances.

This occurs and is more prevalent in these days because the lower spirit realms of spirit world also assault the physical world always trying to affect people on earth in one way or another.  The lower realm spirits always have an adverse effect on people.

Even those spirits from the lower realms are trying to assist you in your work on earth, but because of their lower energy, they can destroy you or at least disturb you.  Conversely, good spirits from the higher realms can guide and assist you by bringing you divine truth and power.

This is the reality of the world today whether people believe in life after death or not.  Psychologist and professors try to study dreams extensively to determine the cause and come up empty handed.  Some people believe that dreams come from the depths of our subconscious, but those kinds of dreams do not originate from God and easily are forgotten.

A God-given dream is very significant and vivid and are never expected.  All of a sudden a dramatic event will occur in a dream, that cannot be forgotten.  They are often times not related to familiar things.  This kind of dream is the intervention of the spirit world.

When we make an effort to concentrate on spirit world and God through praying all night or meditation, our spiritual nature can surface.  There, our dirty and foreign elements will settle to the bottom.  This is similar to when we are in a state of sleep except we are wide awake.

In a state when we are really tired where we are on the verge of sleep, yet we are still awake and can still hear sounds and see things not clearly, this is the moment where a vision can come.  This is a wonderful opportunity for God to reveal a clear vision and message to us.

Prayer is emphasized in discipline, in order to quiet our bodies down and increase our spiritual alertness.  This allows God to speak to us very clearly and manifest Himself in our visions.  When one becomes disciplined in this kind of prayer, one will be able to see visions with their eyes open.

As you sit down to pray, you will automatically see visions and hear voices.  Your ears will hear sounds from both the spiritual and physical worlds.  The movie 'The Sixth Sense' described this phenom perfectly.

Everyone has this ability.

This practice is called religious discipline.  When the missionaries get tired from working so hard all day, heaven will then open up and show them astonishing things as they are momentarily dozing.  Even with one second of time, God can reveal to them ten years of history or give them some kind of forewarning.  This is an almost daily diet.

There are two systems within our bodies: one deals with the physical world, another with the spirit world.  There is so much to be talked about spirit world for days and nights because it is so fascinating this world that one will not want to return to earth.

Of course,there are those whose spirit self is unsettled once they go there because of the unclean life they lived, but those closest to God who lived in love while on the earth can breath the air of the love of God while there.

Before you can speak about individual perfection, you must have a basic understanding of the spirit world.

The person selected by God is a pathfinder who can lay a superhighway for all the people dwelling in those lower realms and thereby free them to go to a higher level. We call that person a prophet.

Reverend Sun Myung Moon



God has been working in the lower realms of spirit world to bring multitudes of spirit men up to a higher level.  To do this, God will raise up a prophet or a central figure to open the path for even the lowest spirit in hell.  This is the pattern which God follows.

God chooses a pioneer on earth, not a spirit man, to first work in the lowest and most primitive reams that will open a path that other spirit men there can follow up tot he next level.  Spirit men work through a person on earth of their choosing to elevate when they elevate to a higher level on earth.

Then they will be able to live in a higher realm of the spirit world.  Everyone will benefit from God's pioneer who paves the path and become a recipient of his accomplishments.

In our times of the Last Day, spirit men from all the levels of spirit world come down to earth to assist people on the same level they are and inspire individual to follow God's central person the Messiah of the Second Coming.  These spirit men will then benefit from the person's accomplishments.  Spirit men will reap the same benefit by assisting the person on earth.

The key to man's situation is here on earth; whatever we loose here on earth shall be loosed in heaven. 

This means that salvation is only brought about on earth; once in spirit world, there is no solution to restore wrongs of the past.  Spirit men must have to work through someone who is in the physical world.  Some religions such as Buddhism has a similar theory called reincarnation.

The Divine Principle teaches that there is only one life and there is no way to reincarnate.  There is only one Buddha.  He cannot return and become another Buddha on earth born again in the flesh.  The confusion may begin because Buddha can appear in spirit and assist people on the spiritual level.  Then, people mistaken this phenomena of the second coming of someone as reincarnation.  Reincarnation is not possible.

Sometimes a spirit man influences an individual so much that he even behaves like that spirit man like Buddha or Confucius, for example. People may think that the individual is the reincarnation of Buddha, but actually it is only the spirit of Buddha assisting him.

Throughout history, God handpicked numerous prophets to extend the highway in order to further develop man's spiritual progress to teach them higher content.  Therefore, God made spiritual progress possible for all of mankind.




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The Will of God and Individual Perfection

Everybody Wants True Love

Does this seem like a false statement?  Is it possible that even a criminal, a mob boss or a seemingly heartless person deep down wants love?

All of the worlds problem can be solved through true love.

Where does this love begin?  It would begin in the family as two individuals mature in love , come together and bear their fruit of love expanding it on the family level.  Family is the textbook for love.  This level expands to the society, nation and the world.


Every human no matter how evil they may appear to be, wants true love.

Reverend Moon had tapped into the truth of the world's major headaches and found the root and cause of these problems. He explains the topic of True love in his following speech:

"Respected religious leaders, I am truly grateful that so many of you have taken time out of your busy schedules to gather here for the Fourth True Family Values Ministry Awards Banquet.

Ladies and Gentlemen, what is the most important thing that we need more than anything else?

It is not money, power or knowledge. It is true love. True love is more precious than life itself and more important to us than air or water.

Why is true love so precious and important? It is because it is the means by which we can meet God. Just as human beings desire to meet God, God also wants to meet true human beings because of love.

The love by which God can see, touch and share with men and women at the same time, is the love by which men and women love each other.

If anything other than love were to be recognized as the most valuable thing in the universe, men and women would fight each other to try to claim it for themselves.

Once we realize that love is the highest value, however, we can strive to live for each other and become one with each other, sharing the happiness of possessing love together.



Everyone desires love. 

Love is the only thing that can satisfy all human desires. It is humankind’s, and God’s, unfailing attraction to love that makes God’s providence of salvation possible. Fundamentally, love belongs to God. Yet even God cannot possess love all by Himself. Love requires a mutual relationship. A man by himself or a woman by herself cannot experience love.

Women exist for the sake of men’s love and men exist for the sake of women’s love. Regardless of external appearance, in our heart each of us desires a mate with whom we can give and receive the highest level of love.

When we examine the universe, we see that all beings exist in pairs relating to one another as subject and object. In the mineral world, we observe the relationship of plus and minus. In the plant world, the animal world and the world of human beings, we see the relationship between masculine and feminine.

This is because God created the universe in order to fulfill the expression of love. All beings desire the experience of true love through a mutual relationship. Love is the one power in the universe that absolutely no one can possess by himself.

Once we have a partner, however, love gives us the power to share the entire universe. Likewise, a husband and wife need children in order to experience the profound joy of parental love.

Thus, we can say that God created human beings and the universe as His reciprocal partners in order to bring about true love. All types of love -- including love of children, love of siblings, love of husband and wife, and love of parents -- come about through the unity of subject and object partners.

When two partners become one in true love, it is impossible to separate them. If for any reason separation occurs, true love is destroyed. Therefore, in true love there is no concept of divorce.

When a man feels love, the feeling is not generated on its own. The feeling awakens in his heart because of a particular woman. Likewise, the fire of love is kindled in the heart of a woman not by herself alone but by the man she loves.

In other words, our love belongs to our partner. Thus, we should honor our partner’s love as being even more precious than our love.

True love comes through both horizontal and vertical reciprocal relationships. A horizontal relationship of true love is gradually elevated in a vertical direction until it eventually reaches the pinnacle. This pinnacle is the position of the "King and Queen of True Love." We are born for the sake of love, live for the sake of love, and finally die for the sake of love.


Adam and Eve's False Love

God’s ideal was for one couple, Adam and Eve, centering on true love, to become the seed from which all the world’s families, clans, nations and, finally, the multitudinous citizenry of the Kingdom of Heaven would be descended. Citizens of the Kingdom of Heaven can be created only in accordance with God’s tradition of true love.

In all creation, the most precious entities are human beings -- men and women.

Furthermore, the most precious part of the human body is not the nose, the eyes, the hands, or even the brain. It is the sexual organs, the main organs of love. Everything in the universe can be recreated through the sexual parts.

Most living things -- whether plants or animals -- multiply through sex.

The most precious and outstanding family begins with a husband and wife who are one with each other. Our love organs are the main sanctuary of life, occupying a position of incredible value where blood lineage and history are connected. God’s fundamental principle is to create through male and female.

For a man and woman to share absolute love, however, they should have only one partner. We must not have two or more partners, but only one, eternally.

There is absolutely only one man for each woman and one woman for each man. That is why God did not create two Adams or two Eves. Tragically, in the world today we see children who have had as many as ten stepfathers. How false and degraded love has become!

When men and women uphold and preserve chastity, they are protecting the universe. The discipline of love between men and women is the foundation of the universe. We must not abuse our love as if we were animals. Our love can only have one owner. The word "true" in "true love" does not allow for the possibility of more than one partner. There can be only one. This is an absolute law.

Not just anyone can say they have 'true love'. Only God can really love with true love, and only God absolutely owns true love. God’s true life, God’s true lineage, and God’s true conscience emerges from true love. In this way, the most fundamental essence of God is true love.


God’s Children

We are created as God’s children. As we grow in love, relating to brothers and sisters, becoming husbands and wives, giving birth and raising children, God is present each step of the way, harvesting true love. God observes and guides us as we develop, and He becomes the owner of love at each stage.

In this sense, it can be said that human beings, through whom God comes to own all love, are more precious to God than He is to Himself. In the same way, we attach a thousand times more value to the person we love than to ourselves. God invests Himself for those He loves and then forgets this investment.

Then he invests again and again. In the same way, a wife who wants her husband to be a success invests herself in her husband and then forgets this investment.

By investing herself and forgetting, she enables him to achieve his full potential in life. When we as partners continue to invest in each other and forget, the level of our love is elevated, and we will ultimately find ourselves connected to God. This is how we can fulfill our parent-child relationship with God and have eternal life.

Everyone wants to go to heaven, but those whose attitude is "Everyone should live for me," will not get there. True love begins with embracing and living for the sake of all God’s masterpieces of creation. The way we can reach heaven is to live for all humankind and ultimately for God.

Again, the ideal family and ideal nation are the places where all of us -- as parents, children, couples, brothers and sisters, and nations -- want to establish ownership of true love. From there, eternal world peace will emerge, the Kingdom of God on Earth will dawn, and the Kingdom of God in Heaven will blossom.

Beginning from the year 2000, in every corner of the globe, countless blessed families united with the Parents of Heaven and Earth will initiate a new family revolution and worldwide moral revolution, centering on true love. God is longing to see the eternal ideal Kingdom of God built on Earth as well as in Heaven. Let us join in this holy task. May God’s blessing be abundant upon you and your family."SMM


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This post was derived from the Religious Book: 40 Years in America

Why Do We Marry?

Marriage is being placed in question these days, so it is fitting to ask why do we marry?

With a large amount of marriages being unhealthy, unhappy and on its way to divorce, what is the appeal to still get married in this day and age?

Many are ignoring the notion of being with one partner for life, yet many are still tying the knot.

Many answer, "I married to receive love".  Has anyone answered that they married in order to give their love?

Someone would say this in our current time because this is the age of action.  Women should be thinking in terms of giving in love instead of receiving love.  Men should give from the position of Yang and women in position of Yin.  This give and take action moves toward a life centered on that love.

You should support and stand behind your husband for his success.  Husband must be prepared to go a hard course, over the back path of wife.

A woman who wishes her husband to be strong and healthy is even willing to go hungry for his well being.  As he encourages you, you should push him forward in return.  Woman should do the same for her husband.  A husband and wife who do this create a spherical form.  Then thy meet in the center of the sphere.


Why Men and Women Were Born? 

It has a simple answer. Men were born for women and women were born for men. It is as simple as that.  Were we born to fight each other?  No, we were born to love others.

How much do spouses like each other?  With love for the spouse, knowledge and material possession or anything int he environment are not important.  How much do you love your wife?  When you truly love your spouse you can forgive anything and even though they might make you angry you should not leave that sphere.  We must understand this and remember that moment of love that first drew you together.  If you or your spouse ever leave this realm of love, the universe will chase you out.


Flowers Must Give Off a Fragrance First

Should women chase men or should men chase after women?

Women physiologically reach maturity before men and this is why men are less enlightened and this is why they are insensitive after the Fall of man.  Women give off a fragrance first.  As a flower sends forth its fragrance to attract the butterflies.  This law of nature applies to women as well.

At the age of 15 or 16 girls begin to look for their partner wondering where he is and make a big fuss.

Is there a difference between the love of a man or woman in love?  During a thunderstorm does the loud clap we hear as the result of the positive charge and the negative charge at the same time or different time.  They occur at the same time.

When there is a love current between man and woman wouldn't they become one or stay separate?


Love Travels the Shortest Distance


God is in the world of spirit, how do we know if God likes love or not?  Can people observe an electric current flowing through a cord just by looking at it?  We can find out with an electric tester and physical senses.  although electricity appears invisible to our eyes, we can feel it stimulate our senses.

The same applies to love.  An unfallen perfected person would be able to sense God's feelings.  They will feel sad when God is sad automatically and when God is happy they would feel happy, also.

When we hear a story of a person who desires to have love with tears, your own heart suddenly fills with emotions because we have the same elements.  We are all filled with common elements.  If God was crying with an aching heart or unhappy for anything other than for humanity because His purpose for creation isn't fulfilled we would probably deny and kick him out.

God is loving and cries for us and we give Him sympathy and help.  This is how the world of love eternally works.

Centered on love, especially centered on greater love, if there was a man who wanted to work more passionately, then people around him, which is the family, nation and world, would be eager to move according to his will.

Mankind should connect to heaven and earth vertically while horizontally connection to nation and the the world by each doing their part.  The whole world will be moved in this way.  The Messiah goes this way up to the world level.  On his way back, even the people who opposed him before would now welcome him.  This is how things evolve and the way of heaven and earth.  God and the Messiah have been moving the same way, vertically and horizontally.


Where does horizontal and vertical meet? They meet at a 90-degree angle.  man and woman represent the horizontal plane and there is only one absolute way they can simultaneously come together, not two ways.  Since love travels the shortest distance, centered upon love, the horizontal and vertical end up meeting at a 90-degree angle.  A 91-degree angle means they travel a longer distance.

Perpendicularity is connected to absoluteness. 

Why is it perpendicular at the place where love abides?  Centered on love, to be perpendicular, love should travel the shortest distance. When you go to meet the person you love, do you go slowly, as you would to meet your next-door neighbor, or as straight as a bullet?

Even if it is night, day, spring or fall, however long human history is, love will always travel the shortest distance.


It is so that a point in the highest position can be connected to a point in the lowest position through the shortest distance. That is why love travels the shortest distances in this universe. That is why it is a vertical line that connects high and low positions at a perpendicular position. Do you follow?

Love Grows Bigger in Circular Motion


Do you need love? (Yes)


Within your body, what part wants to see and touch love first.  What is the antenna of love?  It is man's convex and woman's concave.  When these two parts come together it becomes round and then disappears.  This is true with everything.

For example, a positive electric charge comes together to meet a negative electric charge and creates a thunderstorm, then returns to neutral.  They go back to where they were.

Love works in a circular motion, it does not become smaller but becomes bigger and bigger.  Love has the desire to grow into bigger and greater love and seek family-level love instead of individual love.  In our own live we seek family love rather than individual-level love.  We not only need our family but our community or tribe.  The individual lives for the family to connect to the bigger world of love.  The family is for the society, the society for the nation, nation for world, world for the cosmos and the cosmos is for God and then God is for love.


God came into existence for the sake of love

That's why all beings that exist on earth want to be absorbed by love.

Does mankind want the same thing? For example, there are two people living together as husband and wife. Even though the husband loves the wife very much, if a greater love comes to the wife, then she will want to go to where there is more love.

Even if a husband loves his wife very much, if a greater love comes to the wife, she will want to go toward the greater love.  If he has greater love than he can detach her from the other love.  If one realizes that their spouse can embrace people of the nation and world, it is all right for him or her to leave the family and it will not be a bad thing.

Even if a wife begs her husband with tears, her husband still may leave his wife and children for the sake of bigger love.  Those who move forward for the sake of bigger love are the people closest to God.  This is why we call it goodness.  No one wants to pick the smaller love or a bad one.  This is a common universal concept of ownership and applies equally to everyone and is centered on love.

The original quality of love of an American mother is the same as a Korean mother.  We cannot begin to fathom the concept of unification without love.

Is the love of an American husband different from a Japanese husband and wife?  If the wife sheds tears for her husband and years for him, would her tears different while the other person's are bright with true heart.

They are the same.

The tears of an oriental wife and the tears of a Western wife is the same color and they both taste salty.    If yours are sweet then they are both sweet.  Isn't this correct?  If all human tears are the same, that means they are unchanging.


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Textbook: The Way for a True Child Section, "The View of True Love Between Man and Woman"

God Loves the Wife the Most

"A wife shouldn't be sad because she cannot wear nice clothes or because her household is poor. Your husband already knows your heart. Deep love and priceless treasures are hidden in his heart of feeling sorry for you."

Could it be possible that God loves woman more than man?  Man's body is like God's body as His physical representative after perfection.  Woman is the utmost masterpiece of God's creation, because at the last moment to receive love from God and eventually she is to become a mother.

Isn't it true that children mostly prefer their mothers?  Raising children is the hardest job on earth.  When a woman is pregnant she loves her taste for food and suffers.  Because of this suffering, God acknowledges her.

During the difficult period of pregnancy and delivery, God gives her deeper love.  God made this process of giving life difficult so a woman could understand love.  If having a child was easy, there would be less of a bond between mother and child.

When she goes through the excruciating pain of giving birth, she can understand the heart of God in the process of His own creation.  She will cherish her baby;woman is created as God's object of love.

Why does God make a pregnant woman lose her appetite? If his wife doesn't lose her taste for food, the man will be indifferent even though she is pregnant. A woman also grabs God's attention more when she is pregnant.

"Father thinks of something in the far distance and Mother thinks of things close at hand. Woman is the realist."

In bearing a child, a woman gets to know parental love, husband's love and child's love. Woman is so precious because she, more than man, is connected to love.

A father cannot compete with a mother when it comes to loving a child.  The mother already pours out all of her power and herself more than anyone else in the world and suffers when bearing a child.  She will love this child more than anyone else.

Woman should make the fragrance of love spread out to the far distance like the morning-glory flower.

In the realm of emotion who in the family holds the precious position?  It would be woman.  No matter how much a man loves his baby, it cannot match the love of the mother.  When women understand this, they can see that it is not bad to be born a woman.  Therefore, woman will go to the Kingdom of Heaven of heart.

God is fair.

Even though a husband tells his wife not to intervene in his business, should she not intervene at all? A wife can stand as equal in position to her husband. If the husband is absent, his wife should be able to replace him.

A husband usually tells the wife not to intervene in his work, but should a wife intervene or stay behind him?  When a man marries, no matter what position his wife is in, she stands equal to her husband.  When the husband is absent, the wife should be able to stand in his place.  When establishing the family, the woman's role is important and she should try with utmost effort to do her best job.

A wife should never be indebted to her husband.

A woman should follow where her husband goes or she cannot qualify as a wife at all.  She should have the attitude to be ready to accept her husband's opinion, which is centered on God, 100%.  Her internal bond to her husband should be so strong that she should go east when her husbands needs her to go.

Women should be careful how they speak at the first moment they offer their life to their husband.  If a sister offers her obedience to her her husband with a serious heart, she will surely receive his love.  Such a quality is necessary.  The wife should be a person who is responsive for the sake of her husband.

A wife's ear should be trained to go over the rugged mountains.  How can a woman survive if she is married to a man who curses daily?  She should be able to say to her husband who curses her during breakfast to say, "Please wait until after lunch to curse me."

Then when it is lunch time when he is cursing the wife she should respond without negativity, "Why don't you curse me after we finish dinner."  Then if he continues after dinner say, "Okay, just wait until we wake up in the morning then you can curse me later."  Then Satan will go away in forty days because there's no fun in trying to make this kind of woman mad who responds gently.

"You are not supposed to expect only good things. Can you bathe in the sun 24 hours? No. You need the night, don't you? It is Principle that the high is followed by the low."

Wives should wake their sleeping husband and ask, "Why are you always sleeping?" Wives want their husband's happiness more than their own because it determines their mutual relationship. Woman is born to welcome man and man is born to welcome woman.

You should feel the family standard keenly.

Man is subject and he should stand in the center. Western women do not want to hear this, but this is the Principle. The subject should stand in the position of subject, not that of object. The center should be protected and it shouldn't be at an odd angle. He is in the position representing God.

Motive and cause start from the subject. Happiness and joy originate from the subject. The man is responsible if there is family discord. See this balance?

The responsibility for the fall is assigned to God first, to Jesus second, and to the Holy Spirit third.

Ideally, men in the subject position would not have created war or have made women and the earth struggle.  In the ideal world that is to come, man and woman must become equal.  So who will be the subject then?  The subject does not press the object hard to take responsibility;when we eternally take absolute responsibility, equality is possible.

After fulfilling his responsibility as a subject, he can call the object to account. God doesn't call human beings to account until they become perfect. In other words, He is tolerant until the perfection of human beings.

In this respect man as the subject is responsible for everything good or bad.  Whoever can inherit the responsibility and fulfill the public commitment becomes the subject.

Man has an active and conquering nature.

Humans are called the Lords of creation which the word 'Lord' sounds like it refers to man doesn't it?  Man has the responsibility of pioneer work.  How does it sound if a woman with a small stature and slender face screams out "I am the Lord of all Creation?"

Think about it. No matter how many times she shouted, her voice would sound feminine. What if a man with a somewhat thick voice shouted, "I am the Lord of all creation." How would you feel?

Even all the women and the feminists would agree with his claim after hearing his voice.

When men are fighting, if a woman tries to intervene, saying, "Go away," how do you feel? But when a man with his fist clenched firmly says, "Hey! Beat it; get outta here," at least it sounds authentic.


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This text was rewritten and derived from Textbook: Blessing and Ideal Family, The True Husband and Wife and Ideal Family.