God Loves the Wife the Most

"A wife shouldn't be sad because she cannot wear nice clothes or because her household is poor. Your husband already knows your heart. Deep love and priceless treasures are hidden in his heart of feeling sorry for you."

Could it be possible that God loves woman more than man?  Man's body is like God's body as His physical representative after perfection.  Woman is the utmost masterpiece of God's creation, because at the last moment to receive love from God and eventually she is to become a mother.

Isn't it true that children mostly prefer their mothers?  Raising children is the hardest job on earth.  When a woman is pregnant she loves her taste for food and suffers.  Because of this suffering, God acknowledges her.

During the difficult period of pregnancy and delivery, God gives her deeper love.  God made this process of giving life difficult so a woman could understand love.  If having a child was easy, there would be less of a bond between mother and child.

When she goes through the excruciating pain of giving birth, she can understand the heart of God in the process of His own creation.  She will cherish her baby;woman is created as God's object of love.

Why does God make a pregnant woman lose her appetite? If his wife doesn't lose her taste for food, the man will be indifferent even though she is pregnant. A woman also grabs God's attention more when she is pregnant.

"Father thinks of something in the far distance and Mother thinks of things close at hand. Woman is the realist."

In bearing a child, a woman gets to know parental love, husband's love and child's love. Woman is so precious because she, more than man, is connected to love.

A father cannot compete with a mother when it comes to loving a child.  The mother already pours out all of her power and herself more than anyone else in the world and suffers when bearing a child.  She will love this child more than anyone else.

Woman should make the fragrance of love spread out to the far distance like the morning-glory flower.

In the realm of emotion who in the family holds the precious position?  It would be woman.  No matter how much a man loves his baby, it cannot match the love of the mother.  When women understand this, they can see that it is not bad to be born a woman.  Therefore, woman will go to the Kingdom of Heaven of heart.

God is fair.

Even though a husband tells his wife not to intervene in his business, should she not intervene at all? A wife can stand as equal in position to her husband. If the husband is absent, his wife should be able to replace him.

A husband usually tells the wife not to intervene in his work, but should a wife intervene or stay behind him?  When a man marries, no matter what position his wife is in, she stands equal to her husband.  When the husband is absent, the wife should be able to stand in his place.  When establishing the family, the woman's role is important and she should try with utmost effort to do her best job.

A wife should never be indebted to her husband.

A woman should follow where her husband goes or she cannot qualify as a wife at all.  She should have the attitude to be ready to accept her husband's opinion, which is centered on God, 100%.  Her internal bond to her husband should be so strong that she should go east when her husbands needs her to go.

Women should be careful how they speak at the first moment they offer their life to their husband.  If a sister offers her obedience to her her husband with a serious heart, she will surely receive his love.  Such a quality is necessary.  The wife should be a person who is responsive for the sake of her husband.

A wife's ear should be trained to go over the rugged mountains.  How can a woman survive if she is married to a man who curses daily?  She should be able to say to her husband who curses her during breakfast to say, "Please wait until after lunch to curse me."

Then when it is lunch time when he is cursing the wife she should respond without negativity, "Why don't you curse me after we finish dinner."  Then if he continues after dinner say, "Okay, just wait until we wake up in the morning then you can curse me later."  Then Satan will go away in forty days because there's no fun in trying to make this kind of woman mad who responds gently.

"You are not supposed to expect only good things. Can you bathe in the sun 24 hours? No. You need the night, don't you? It is Principle that the high is followed by the low."

Wives should wake their sleeping husband and ask, "Why are you always sleeping?" Wives want their husband's happiness more than their own because it determines their mutual relationship. Woman is born to welcome man and man is born to welcome woman.

You should feel the family standard keenly.

Man is subject and he should stand in the center. Western women do not want to hear this, but this is the Principle. The subject should stand in the position of subject, not that of object. The center should be protected and it shouldn't be at an odd angle. He is in the position representing God.

Motive and cause start from the subject. Happiness and joy originate from the subject. The man is responsible if there is family discord. See this balance?

The responsibility for the fall is assigned to God first, to Jesus second, and to the Holy Spirit third.

Ideally, men in the subject position would not have created war or have made women and the earth struggle.  In the ideal world that is to come, man and woman must become equal.  So who will be the subject then?  The subject does not press the object hard to take responsibility;when we eternally take absolute responsibility, equality is possible.

After fulfilling his responsibility as a subject, he can call the object to account. God doesn't call human beings to account until they become perfect. In other words, He is tolerant until the perfection of human beings.

In this respect man as the subject is responsible for everything good or bad.  Whoever can inherit the responsibility and fulfill the public commitment becomes the subject.

Man has an active and conquering nature.

Humans are called the Lords of creation which the word 'Lord' sounds like it refers to man doesn't it?  Man has the responsibility of pioneer work.  How does it sound if a woman with a small stature and slender face screams out "I am the Lord of all Creation?"

Think about it. No matter how many times she shouted, her voice would sound feminine. What if a man with a somewhat thick voice shouted, "I am the Lord of all creation." How would you feel?

Even all the women and the feminists would agree with his claim after hearing his voice.

When men are fighting, if a woman tries to intervene, saying, "Go away," how do you feel? But when a man with his fist clenched firmly says, "Hey! Beat it; get outta here," at least it sounds authentic.


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This text was rewritten and derived from Textbook: Blessing and Ideal Family, The True Husband and Wife and Ideal Family.