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Tuesday, November 19, 2013

Plant Our True Heart in the Original Homeland

If we ask what is our main goal while walking this course of faith toward bringing the world back to God's original homeland, what would that be?

What is the main goal of all of us fighting this spiritual battle for God and humanity?


What are all people of faith looking for?  


It can't just be to have their own goal to reach heaven.  To find a place just where only we and our family can settle.

It should be broader than that.

The true goal of people of faith has been to fight to find the true family, which is opposite of the current trend of disunity and divorces within families.

An individual cannot come to rest within a broken family.

Moreover, without the larger unit of a tribe, then the family does not have a place to settle all the way up to the national and world level.

The highest level most of us can work toward is the family level.  But without the tribe which creates a stage upon which to act as a fence to block any offensive substances, the family can fall apart with the first blow.

For this to be so, you must become the head of the family among your relatives.

Once you are head of the family, then your relatives will fight in times of battle.

Only then can you take a rest while commanding them.


That is why I have told you to take up the mission as representatives of the messiah to your tribe.  Until now, in reality, you have lived away from home. Now, you must go look for your hometown. You must break into tears and put your whole heart into your hometown.



Just as the Israelites lived in Egypt for four hundred years as slaves, this movement has done the same within the first forty years.  Now, we must return to our hometown and let love take root.

You must love God, your parents, and your brothers and sisters.











You must disconnect the source by which the worldwide Satan can falsely accuse you.












Even after God worked to build a foundation through the Israelites, they failed to establish the ideal heavenly kingdom in the blessed land of Canaan because they could not remove that source.

Therefore, do not expect anything from the satanic world.

You must go forward, progressing by digesting the villages and marching proudly with an outcry of love.

With this in mind, I want you to fight onward.

I can give you the right of inheritance and the right of having the same position as I have because you have the name of being true children before True Parents.

You must trust this privilege given by God and invest everything within the realm of love.

With your total investment, your family will resurrect from the chains of satanic dominion.  The nation will resurrect with the revival of the family.

In the hometown where your parents have been buried, you can plant new seeds that all the fields and mountains praise the value of all those who sacrificed and bow their heads to them.

When flowers bloom from seeds, you must designate the first flower as God's flower, the second as the Parents' flower, the third as your eldest son's flower and the fourth and fifth as your own flowers.

Can you you live this righteous life casually?

Of course not!

At this time, you are in the same position as the Israelites who have gone into the blessed land of Canaan.

Do not be envious of those who are rich when you return to your hometown.

Do not envy people with power and authority!  Do not be spoiled.  You must educate the people correctly.

The tradition of loving God, loving your future generations and loving your race in the position of Israel is the best.

Those who embrace your children and bring them to church should not be absorbed by the secular way of life.

With joy of returning back to your hometown, you should soak the land with your blood, sweat of hard work and tears along with the cries of your cells and bones.

The land should receive the title of divine land, which has been dampened with God's blood and tears.

This is where the heavenly kingdom will unfold.

You must restore your homeland and restore them.  The Israelites could not accomplish that.

Having returned from being a group of beggars for forty years, the Israelites were envious of the seven tribes of Canaan who ate and lived very well while they lived in tents.  In this situation, they ended up selling off God and the nation to end their suffering and pitiful situations.

To love people, you start with the pitiable person first, love the most pitiable child and move up to the middle-aged people.

There are many conscientious people among the secular people.  We should love those who live in the most poorest living conditions.

Even though they are in the devil's world, people who can inherit God's fate will emerge from their ranks.

What should you do upon returning to your hometown?

You must inspire the people to unite into one with you.  This method is rather simple.

Your son should become a teacher who teaches the heavenly tradition and show by example what actions will bring about the heavenly nation.

The mother and the father should show other mothers and fathers in the neighborhood what ways the heavenly nation will come.

This is what we must do.  It is simple:

You must form a family of love in which the husband loves the wife and the wife loves the husband.  The parents love the children and the children love the parents, and you hand it all down.


I have walked such a path in order to stand in the position of the global ancestor. You should be aware of the fact that you must go on the path to inherit the tradition that corresponds to you, the tradition for you to become the tribal ancestor.


You must set a tradition on which your tribe and family will follow.  Those who think only of themselves will not be included.








You must plant your true heart in your homeland. 









The Fall was the inability to lay a foundation of heart.

You must be the head family of your tribe.

God is the Abel of the universe.  The world's people are in the position of Cain before God.

Since God has led the providence of restoration through servants of servants, adopted children and true children, we must then inherit that tradition and go to our tribe and present this tradition we have built as a foundation for the true way of life and work to win hearts in the secular world.

This will not take long - three years at most.


Our Task for This Time Period


What does every person hope for?

They want to welcome the returning Lord and his bride before establishing the global nation.

This will begin from your new sons and daughters who are born connected to the true blood lineage of the Messiah's lineage.

Therefore, the True Parents are the starting point of the new future.





Let us testify about True Parents 


How does everything end?

The coming of the True Parents is the hope of all humankind throughout history because it is the conclusion of the evil sovereignty on earth.

This time has never before existed and will not exist again.

If we think in terms of the eternal world, our life on earth lasts only as long as the time it takes to draw in one breath.  What kind of people are the True Parents?

They are the symbol of hope, the symbol of absolute hope for the fallen, suffering humankind. 

They are the fruit of history, the center of time and nations of the world.

True Parents are the starting point of the future that can connect to the ideal world we all hope for.

Let us take into consideration the name of True Parents.  They are the starting point of a new world.

We started the world based on the false parents Adam and Eve who did not follow God's law.  True Parents come to the earth to reverse the mistake of the first parents.

Through them, the internal relationship is formed by which Satan can subjugate and God can be liberated from Satan who possess the external world.

Therefore, you should be grateful first and foremost for living at this time in the presence of this amazing grace of being able to live together with the True Parents and live according to their direction.

Everyone has the hope to meet True Parents, who are the ones for you to meet even when you walk the road of death.

When you meet the Parents, you will restore your ancestor's fallen history, the age and the future which has been lost.

This is the meaning of True Parents.

When you are able to completely be one with the True Parents, the true nation, tribe, race, and family will come into being.

True Parents are the manifestation of value that equal to the glory found in heaven and earth.  Would you exchange the True Parent for money?

Would you exchange them for life?

That is why it is different from before.

No matter where you go, you must find your way to Korea to attend the True Parents. It is the same for your sons and daughters and descendants of thousands and tens of thousands of years. Therefore, this movement is different and unique.



Q. What really are the true parents we speak about?

Truly think for a moment. If the first ancestors of humankind had followed God's command and were never kicked out of the Garden of Eden what kind of people would Adam and Eve be?

They would not have fallen, they would have been linked directly to God's true love, true blood lineage and way of life.

Adam and Eve would have become perfected and would have been God's body.  That means they would have become the body of God.  God is like the bones and Adam and Eve are the flesh.








God also has a mind and a body.










God would have been the internal parents and Adam and Eve would have been the external parents.

Based on the unity of God and humankind's love, the true parent, the perfected person was to emerge.

There is no perfect person without the cooperation in love.





Let us attend True Parents' picture in every family





You become a family of the heavenly kingdom just by putting up True Parents' picture and the flag of the Unification Church.

I mean that I will make you the family of the heavenly kingdom.

That is why there are a number of people who suffered disasters, such as being struck by lightning after grumbling about having to put up flags.

There was an incident in which someone broke his finger pointing at me and had to repent and pray for several nights to recover. Why do these incidents occur?






The power of an individual cannot block the advancing heavenly fortune. 









In the Unification Church, those of you bowing in honor to the True Parents photograph or the flag will live during these Last Days.

In the Old Testament, everyone who gazed upon the staff which Moses held were saved.

By putting up the UC flag, it signals to members who pass by that it is okay to enter your house, and rest if they are tired or have lunch.

If they are hungry before they continue on their journey.

You should always be prepared to receive guests.  You should make such preparations on behalf of True Parents.

Since you cannot attend the True Parents daily in person, you should attend their picture.








You should attend your guests as if they were True Parents. 








This practicing connects equalization to the highest heavenly standard.

This is why you should attend your guests as if they were God or True Parents.

Such a person will surely receive blessings.




I am very famous. Everyone acknowledges that I am a patriot living for the sake of the nation. Moreover, the whole world has honored my achievements. So if people come to say, "Since we have put True Parents' picture up, my wife and I cannot quarrel in front of it," and tell their children, "You should not do such things in front of Rev. Moon," what is wrong with that? Because you are revering it more than the photograph of your own parents, your ancestors will come and also revere True Parents as their ancestors. It will become an altar where ancestors can come and hold a service for the household.



The way to receive heavenly blessing has been opened up due to this kind of attendance.

Then, even after you have fallen asleep at three o'clock in the morning, your ancestors will chase out all of the evil spirits from around the home.

Moses led the Israelites away from the Pharaoh of Egypt.

At that time all of the firstborn of the Egyptians were smitten, while the Israelites avoided this calamity by smearing the blood of a lamb on the their doorposts. Thus, the spirit world is watching over you and will protect you.

Then Moses guided them to Canaan by enacting great works and miracles.

When the Israelites were about to leave the land of Egypt, they were able to avoid calamity of the smiting of the first born through smearing the blood of the lamb on doorposts.

In the same way, carrying a picture with True Parents, will protect you.  Spirit world can recognize the picture even if it is in your pocket.


Now my fame has gone beyond national borders. I have heard that many statesmen in various places have put my picture on the wall of their study and pay their respects to it.


You probably have experienced that there is a mysterious side to my smile, like that of the Mona Lisa. I believe that most of you probably are experiencing hundreds of thousands of ways of viewing my mysterious features.

At certain times, I appear to look like this and other times like that. This is because at different times the spirit world is cooperating with you in different ways. I think most of you experience this.

Those in the spirit world all know me. So when they see this picture, would those in the spirit world like it or dislike it?
Your ancestors can be connected with the picture as the medium. I want you to know that's how good it is.



Let's do revival services for our tribes





There should be a family revival service in the future based on your family.  

Those services represent the entire tribe.  You should think that such a revival service represents not just the Korean tribe, but tribe members of Blessed Families here around the world. 

You do not know what a blessing it is to hold a revival service representing the world centering on the tribal foundation, with Korea as its base.

 Everything depends on how much you think for the sake of others and on your own efforts.

Return for Tomorrow's Post: Attend the Messiah to Liberate Your Sin


This post was rewritten and derived from Cheon Seong Gyeong, Book Thirteen,  Chapter 4, Secion 4,5

Thursday, September 5, 2013

Mind Wants Principle, Body Pursues Addiction

A constitution is the base of all laws of a nation.  It is the yardstick for determining what is good and what is evil.












You make a judgement based on a standard which you hold within yourself


If you are a person that does not have principle, then when you view something as good or bad, your judgement has no value.

Random judgments are based on self-centeredness.

A true judgment can only come from a basic law or principle within yourself.  The mind has an unchanging quality, while the body always changes.  The mind should have a permanent foundation.

The body follows the direction dictated by your five senses which are always changing direction.  If your eyes see a lovely flower, then your body will walk over to it.

But the mind is not bound by the five senses.  The mind can refuse to obey, and it gives direction to your body.

Your mind tries to bring the body to the place where all the five senses can be contented.  If the mind favored only the eyes, then the other senses would complain.

The mind takes in account all the five senses.  The mind decides how it will respond to the desires of each sense.  The mind can only make these decisions based on principles.

Actually, we should thank God that we have a conscience as a command post for the body.  Before knowing this, you may have felt bothered by the mind limiting your activities.

Americans look for the comfortable and convenient way of doing things in life.  To those who just want to party and enjoy sex, the conscience seems to be an obstacle to those activities.

When it is time to eat, the body craves delicious food.  It prefers to have delicious pleasures all the time.  Why does the mind put certain limits on what the body desires?









Habits and customs are hard to change, no matter how logical it is to change them.









Addiction to drugs, alcohol and sex are hard to cure.

Have you ever thought how we can truly cure these addictions in our society?  Our lives must be planted on a firm foundation of principle.

If we do not already have one, then we have to create one.  Without standards or principles, we will only cause and see destruction around us.

If there are no principles that bind the parents and children or husband and wife, then the family will fall apart.










The mind wants a principled life, but the body pursues all kinds of addictions. 











Don't you feel the war between your good mind and your sinful body?

This contradiction is a terrible burden.

People feel sorry for mentally ill people, but the reality is, those whose mind becomes sick is even harder to restore.  Religion deals with that world.

A grasshopper doesn't plan ahead for the winter, but instead enjoys the warm weather thinking about how sweet his life is.  Spring and summer always come to an end, however.

We must come to a standard law and principle that should be followed by everyone in their homes, society, nation and world standard based on your conscience.

This standard will be acceptable by everyone and it will be unchanging, eternal and unique.

Thus, we conclude that the conscience provides such a standard.

Everyone appreciates material treasure, but would material things like everyone?

If treasure could speak, it would tell you that it would like to be possessed by someone that has a higher standard than it holds.  You feel this way because you yourself are like that.

We like things that are higher and nobler than ourselves. So do material things.  A diamond would like someone who shines brighter and is harder than it is.

Gold's deep color represents peace, and it wants to be loved by someone more peace loving than itself.











A pearl will respect and love someone with a more harmonious color than itself.











Would a diamond like some unworthy person who just grabs it or prefer to be possessed by someone with a moral ethic?

A diamond also has a preference and would resists the thief who reaches to snatch it.

This is also how we would react.

One person does not consider if he is worthy to possess a diamond, while the other considers whether he is really entitled to it.

If you have this quality, then the diamond would have that inclination, too.  This is elementary, but necessary education.









America's problem is that it doesn't really know the power and existence of the world of conscience.











How large do you think that the conscience is?

Seven billion people live in the world today.  So that means there are 7 billion different kinds of conscience.  Then if we were to include people in the spirit world that is billions more.

If you did the work of ten people today, the conscience would not tell you to do the work of nine tomorrow.

There is no such conscience.

The conscience will tell you to do more work the next time.  If you gave ten people ten dollars, would your conscience permit you to give nine people ten dollars the next day and keep the ten for yourself?

Your conscience will tell you to give the money to eleven people instead.  As you can see, the conscience is never satisfied.

Even if the whole planet earth was contained within your conscience, you would want to reach out farther and possess the whole galaxy.  Then if you had the whole galaxy, you will want to have God.

Even then your journey would not end until you owned the heart of God and had His love.

Even if you contained the whole planet earth in your conscience, it would still want to reach out farther and possess the whole galaxy.

Even if it had the whole universe, it would still want to have God. Your journey wouldn't end until you owned the heart of God and had His love.

That is how the conscience works.

When you try to set a standard for this extraordinary kind of conscience, it is not easy.

Who made the conscience so big?

God did.  If He had nothing that He could put into it, He would run away.  He is responsible.  What can fill the conscience?

God knows you like diamonds.  Would He be satisfied by filling everyone's conscience bag with a lot of diamonds?  Why not?

God can make all the diamonds and gold at will, but there is one thing He cannot control.  True love.  True love is only activated in a reciprocal relationship of subject and object.

Without an object, love is not created.

Can you show the love that you have?  Man's love is only activated when he finds a partner.

When you are sitting by yourself, your love cannot be activated.

God has been sitting all by Himself, lonely just like you would be, so can He enjoy His love alone?

Even if He was holding a piece of chalk and can laugh with enjoyment, then it would make a little better sense.







No matter how much potential love God has, by Himself God cannot feel its excitement. 











An object is always needed in order to activate love through give and take.  When a woman has a man to relate to, the vibration of the give and take can begin.  How about between woman to woman?  Even God needs an ideal object.

What was the purpose of God creating the whole universe?

For the perfection of His object.  Since God is gigantic, He needs an equivalent object who can stand side by side with Him.  Therefore, He created man with a conscience as big as God's conscience.

When man completely fills his conscience and starts to laugh, then God can respond.

Then the whole universe can laugh together with them.  That is God's design.









Nothing else except love can fill that conscience, however. Love alone can excite God.










In love, God is an enormous plus and man is an enormous minus, when they come together a giant spark will flash.  How much power do you think that will generate?

The entire universe will jolt at that connection.

Then God, men and women will be totally intoxicated and melt within the power of that love.  From the one-celled amoeba, the insects all the way to the galaxies, all of creation will be affected by the unity of God and man.

You might think that God is too far away for us to unite and cause such a great spark.  Electricity can speak between any distance.

God's electricity travels faster than the electricity we know on earth.

When He is totally happy and intoxicated in love, then all of mankind can respond that they are happy, too.  Then the entire creation will echo around the world that they are happy.


I like the word "too."  The cross bar on the "t" represents the horizontal absolute; the vertical line represents you-you are a pillar of love. The "oo" means everything is OK. Americans say OK; the O means perfection, and K comes from "keep." So OK means that you keep perfection, that everything is going well. You didn't know I had a definition for this!



Conscience is OK, but what is it centered on?  Life?  That is good.  Knowledge?  That is also nice.  Power?

These are nice, but are not the central things.

What is one substance that everyone likes and participates in?  Love alone has that universal character.

When the cornerstone of existence is conscience that is based on true love or true love is based on conscience, then everything is in the right place.  That is the standard.

This is not a temporal standard, but it has an eternal, unique, and unchanging quality.  The essentialities of love is the same, but the components are different from person to person, depending on where love appears.

Each individual is a truth body with unique love and characteristics.

They all share a common essentiality in God.









Each person is a cell of love. 












Each person has love that is unique to them which cannot be duplicated by anyone else.  Yet, it is unchanging and eternal.

If you have true universal love within you, then you have become a standard man or woman of the universe.  The conclusion we have come to is that we need the standard of conscience which is true love.

Through just this standard alone, we can digest the world and bring it into our consciences.  We can even bring in God with our invisible true love.

As long as you have that true love, you can go in any direction.  The world of true love also transcends time and space.

The five senses will cooperate with that standard of true love instead of repelling each other, for they do so out of happiness, not duty.


Return for Tomorrow's Post: Search for God in the Conscience 


This Post was rewritten from the speech Our Standard

Saturday, August 10, 2013

Family Members Should Not Live For Self

Once a person reaches the world level, he must come back and make contact with the lower levels of the nation, society, tribe, family, and his spouse, then he is ready to move out toward the world level again. Such a person will be welcomed everywhere around the world, no matter where he goes. He will be sought after by all other peoples and cultures.


Reverend Sun Myung Moon


We know deeply in our minds that this principle is the true way for a person to advance to his fullest potential.

Surely, you want to go in the direction which Father wants to go, but since we cannot all go to the same place at the same time, we are spread out all over the world constantly changing positions with each other.

Why do you witness and do missionary work with such enthusiasm?

You desire to get good results, but you also want to return home with a proud report.

In that sense, you return to the reason of your activity and don't stay at the same level of result.  This is how you unite the result with the cause.











We know that man is not a causal being but a resultant being. 












Can anyone boast that they brought themselves into being?  Did they created themselves?

It would be natural that a being of result will want to know and become one with the world.  Eventually, he will desire to unite with God, who is the ultimate causal being, and report both his good and bad experiences to Him.

The resultant being wants to share his life with the causal being.

Every part of the process goes back to our cause, which is God.

Is this fact made up or is it true that returning to God is the ultimate path for all mankind?

You are right if you said yes.

Every pair in existence has two tendencies: to move toward the center and to move toward the center and to move toward the outer expression.

Nothing is randomly in motion.

Two controlling factors determine the way everything moves: one pushes the object in a certain way, the other in a certain way.

These two direction always exist to ensure the purposefulness of the object's motion. In this manner the motion of going from the causal point to the resultant point is continually repeated.

This is the way the universe moves.

Your mind and body delights in having good give and take during your lifetime.  A person that has good give and take is a happy person.

A man that has this kind of harmony, wants and needs to meet a woman with that harmony.

Together they want to have good give and take that they achieve between their individual minds and bodies.

You receive direction from Father and you work hard to achieve your goals.

We have the idea within the church to achieve a good give and take relationship between the subject and object.  Then you return to Father with good result.

Through living this way, we expand the influence of goodness to the largest level.  A person may live according to this ideal for a while, but then will start to criticize and complain with the direction that is given.

We can use the illustration of baseball.

Imagine that the catcher stands behind the batter to catch every ball the pitcher throws.  Do you think that the catcher is judging which ball he wants to catch and which one he wants to let pass him?

No, he is determined to catch every ball that is pitched.

Even if the pitcher was to throw a curve ball, the catcher would still reach out and may even turn all the way around in a circle as he catches it.

There is not one catcher that would just stand still in front of a fast ball and try to stop its motion with a stiff arm.  He will catch it with a turning motion, and absorb the strength of the pitch.  Thus, his actions contains a quality of beauty.

You should change your thinking to when you make some motion, even raising your hand, that you are moving with the universe.

This principle of motion applies to everything in a person's life.

Today, many American young people think they have such a great life enjoying their time with their friends while ignoring their homes and their families.

If they were truly experiencing a great time, they would naturally come back home and have an equally great time with their parents and family.  Unfortunately, the trend is for young people not to see their parents as valuable.

They say that they are part of the 'older generation' and then ignore them completely.  Could this be called a complete and great life?

The truly natural way of enjoying life for a teen is for them to go out, have a great time and then return home and share his experience with his grandparents and the whole family.

It is unnatural to go out have a good time and then go home and isolate yourself from the rest of the family.

Would a grandparent or parent want to have such a child come back home?  To live in the family that does not interact would be a painful existence.  If the youngster lives in his own world without sharing his life in a positive way, the family will feel offended.

Most people do not understand the universal reasons why it is good for the child to share his experiences with the family.











Now you know that going out and coming back in harmony is the law of the universe, and no one can live happily in violation of this law. 












A person who lives according to this law is a person of health, and a natural person.

Others will seek him out and desire to learn from him the proper way to live.  He will naturally become a teacher to the people who don't know how to live naturally and harmoniously.  This is the principle standard for what a man should be.

Do we see this in our American families, where each are able to speak freely sharing their experiences with one another on a daily basis?

The person who lives according to the law and standard of harmony should become the natural center and leader.  He will be welcomed by everybody, not only in his own country, but the rest of the world will embrace him.

This is the criterion God uses.  It is all the standard of all things in the universe.  All creation already lives by this standard even if man chooses not to do so.

Then it is natural that those who leave this protective boundary of this principle of harmony will gradually lose power.

As we grow up, we gather and absorb all the elements of our environment.  But once we are grown and physically mature, we start giving ourselves to our surroundings.  As we age, we become physically smaller not bigger.  When a person dies, his body returns to the earth completely.

Whether it is invisible or visible, everything is guided by this cycle.

When we look in history, it is clear that those people who are still recognized hundreds of years later are those who lived for the sake of the world.  It does not matter whether the person lived in the east or the west, or if he was white or black.

The person who lives for something greater than himself becomes an eternal being.

The one who can give the most for the sake of the world is the person the world wants to remember most.  Look at a few examples before thinking that this is just a hasty conclusion.  Everything in principle can be applicable to your own life.

Even the physical world of mineral, vegetable and animal kingdoms and the spirit world are all guided by the same principles which we have been discussing in this blog.  God Himself is guided by these principles.  We can begin to relate with God in an intimate way.

We can talk and have a deep personal relationship of give and take with Him.  We can even dance with God.

All men want to perfect their character and their natures because they need to come back to that cause, God.

What if there was a meeting of all of the superior people from each part of the world.  Would there be a struggle among them to figure out who is the best of the best?  Can such fighting bring about a decision?  

In fact, such a decision would have to be agreed upon unanimously by all on their own volition.
The greatest person there would be the one that everyone recognizes having something the rest of them want or lack.

Naturally, they would want him to become their leader.  A person who has an universal characteristic of every direction is the one who is acknowledged by those from every direction of east, west, north and south.  This is simple logic.

You have been trained to become such an universal person.  Even well-educated western members have willingly gone to poor countries to offer their time and effort to help the people raise their standard of living.

In the past, Western countries gave out their best people to lesser developed nations only to gain dominion over them.  We have reversed this.

We take the best person and send him to a backward country in order to live in the worst conditions.  This person though is to raise up the people to a better position instead of raising himself over them and thus keeping them in a miserable position.

Do we do this because we try to be different?

No, we go this way because this is the original, true way no matter how many people have gone in the opposite direction.

This is the law of the universe, and if anyone goes against it, he will eventually perish.

We have sent missionaries from America, Germany, and Japan because they can represent the developed nations.  They each come from nations with a history of never wanting to bow down to others.  Among them, the most willing to sacrifice for the sake of others should be the leader.

If America was to continue along her current path, she will be despised by the poorer nations.  The black people of Africa who are struggling in poverty and misery will turn against the predominantly white America.

We see the trend now where all the people around the world are beginning to wish bad things would happen to America.

Recently the royal baby was condemned by many people sometimes showing side-by-side pictures of a poor child in Africa next to the royal couple holding the new baby.

When you compare this to when Prince William was a baby and was well accepted worldwide we see that the Western society is losing ground.  At that time, America and Europe were looked toward as the ideal nations.

As this resentment toward the developed countries continues to spread, the voices of negativity will become stronger and stronger.

According to the principle of the universe, if there are many, many people who wish you to decline, then there is no way to avoid that decline.

If a person, nation or entity boasts about their great success, if it does not connect itself back to its cause, that entity cannot continue to exist.  This is happening everywhere.

The once jubilant American family is breaking down in relationships between the younger and the  older generations.

Also, there is rarely a good give and take between the American president and the citizens.










Somehow people have come to use an economic standard as the measure of their success. 








Economic concerns and money are only a result.

If this nation continues to only be concerned with money, which does not connect itself with the causal element, the consequences for this nation will be terrible.  

Of course, there is nothing wrong with having money or economic success, but why is money necessary?  

If we only desire to have money so we can live well, then this is the wrong attitude.

Money is the result of a fruitful cause and is meant to serve the purpose of that cause.  The purpose behind wealth is to make God happy when He is able to look at a healthy, good world.

America needs its money only in order to make the world a better place, the way God intended it to be.

Once you understand the purpose of having money, then it is fine for you to acquire it.

Even if you were to only be concerned for the nation, you still want to use your money in order to reverse the destructive trends in America.

What if someone wanted to use their money to make their parents' lives more comfortable and easy.

Everyone will approve such a person having and spending their money for the sake of a larger purpose than just himself.

If a person clings to his money for his own selfish purposes, even his own parents will not approve of him.

A person who lives for the sake of the whole world is welcomed in any place and has unlimited freedom of movement around the world.

However, if a person wants to live in a small self-centered way, all the elements of the universe will wish him ill.

Self-made millionaires who only live to acquire their wealth for themselves will never be truly loved or welcomed by the world, especially if he hurts others in his quest for money.  Such people are violators of the universal law.

Therefore, their success is not seen as a virtue, but as a manifestation of their sinfulness.

Money is not the only thing that falls under this principle.  Also, knowledge can be used improperly depending on whether one uses it for the sake of others or just to take advantage for his own personal goals.

The same can be said of position and prestige.  All of these things listed must be guided by the principle of harmony, then there is nothing wrong with wanting to obtain them.

When a person is in violation of this principle, someone else who doesn't seem to have much power may start to criticize the unrighteous one.  Eventually, the unrighteous person will become the loser, not the one who is in a 'lesser' position than him.

Now, we have a clearer picture of how to live, we need not to criticize others.  The only thing we need to do is go the right way.

We will continue to make money and spend it for the sake of the sake of the world.

If you see that someone else does not want to spend their money for a greater purpose, just leave him alone.  Certainly, it will not benefit him to live that way.

Don't despair, it does not matter who is great, powerful and wealthy today.  Those who live by the Principle actually are becoming the great people of the future.   The way of non-Principle is the way of decline.

The way of the Principle is the way of success.


Return for Tomorrow's Post: The Power of Witnessing

This Post was rewritten and derived from the speech The Deep Desire of Our Original Nature

Sunday, July 28, 2013

Does God Need Love?

Does God need true love?  We know that humanity has been in search of the purest love, but God has total authority, why would He need love?

Actually, the fact that God is almighty and absolute means that God also needs love more than anyone else in the universe.  Everything on earth only can work through the power of love.

Is it possible for God to have love without humanity or creation?  Is He able to experience joy all by Himself?







Love needs an object to complete a circuit, and even God cannot violate this law. 







God needs someone in which to love and be loved by; but is humanity equipped to give love to God? If so, would it be men and women together or separately?  Will love hit two people at the same time or one at a time?

What is the order of this love?  Who would be the first in this love crusade?

It is impossible to go in two different directions at the same time so there must be an order.  Would you be able to love your mother and husband with the same intensity, or would you love one more than the other?

Can you kiss them or embrace them both at the same time?

In this day and age, the feminist movement wants men and women to be equal, but there should be an order or discipline between them.

Equality and fairness are two different things.

Having blind equality does not equal fairness.  God loves both men and women equally as His children like any father, but there is always priority or sequence that follows.

Who would be the first to love God?  Women would say men come first.

When you make a circular motion based on this external layer, it goes in all different directions and ultimately is self-destructing.  Lasting, peaceful circular motion is always set up around an axis.

In everything, we need this central axis.  If you use this central line, then there will be no destruction no matter how fast or long you turn there. The more responsibility one has, the farther he advances toward the central position.

Who is designed more for greater responsibility, men or women?

The biblical tradition was for men to be given the blessing, because men are ultimately responsible.  Man is the subject in that central responsibility.







Blessing always accompanies responsibility. 








Throughout history, mankind has traditionally lived in this way, with women leaving their family homes to get married and taking their husband's name.  During war time and pioneering times, the women assisted behind the men in their work.

Men are in the subject mode and women are in the object mode.

Would you rather have a feminine man or a masculine man?

Women rather have a masculine man because this is a quality they do not have.  God created men and women in a complementary relationship.

Women are created for conquest of love by men.

This is not offensive when it is genuine, unselfish love that conquers you.  You will be intoxicated by it instead of repulsed by it.  At a certain point you will be a prisoner of love and give everything you have for the sake of your husband.

This is how God designed women.







The more you are conquered by love, the more you want to give. 








This is the spirit of true love.


I am a tough and rugged man who cannot stand any injustice, but even though I have a fiery temper I was conquered by the love of God and became totally helpless. In that love, I was made a lamb. If I weren't caught up in the love of God then I could not stand all the criticism that has come to me, but because of the love of God, the more people criticize the more I like it. In the name of God, I can be persecuted and tortured.


Father said in his speech that God would test him by allowing persecution to come.  When he would overcome, he would be completely intoxicated by God's love.  Then God recognizes him as His son, the living proof of His love.

God gives more tribulation as a condition where He can give him more love.

If Father is able to absorb the criticism and welcome the persecution he receives, then within the realm of God's love, there is nothing he cannot do.

Love is the central theme.  Would you like the kind of love where God allows persecution to come to you?  You would endure it because of love.







Equality is good, but not with blinders. 










Because you are not losing anything, you don't take exception to this, do you?

God created Adam first to be next to Him.

Women are built as objects, not subject.  If a woman was to go out late at night, it is natural for her to ask for a man to accompany her to the dark parking lot or to her car.

But even her youngest brother would be able to go out alone at night without asking for his sister's help.

This is the complimentary order of subject and object relationship which God established.

Father's family is the same way.  His first born was his daughter who is next to him, and then his second oldest is his son who is next to her.  Just because he is the first son does not mean he assumes the first position in the family.

He would not complain that his eldest sister is given first treatment.

Why is this so?

This is the order of love, flowing to the first fruits, then the second fruits.

There is a certain flow and timing which remains as the universal order.  God created one at a time in order, not two at once.  God would not complain about this because it is God's universal order.

This order is established in subject and object relationship.

If all of creation was a Boeing 747, then true love would be the compass and navigator.  True love love guides the whole plane with all its passengers riding in the correct direction.


I have been called all kinds of things, such as a dictator worse than Hitler. Do you think I have the power to do everything at random according to my will? Am I without principles and law? What is guiding me? True love. 


Father is obedient to the law of true love more than anyone else.  He upholds this law and gives his entire life for it.

Does true love have color of white, black or yellow?  True love is all colors.  All colors have come to follow Father, why is that?  They each have a common goal.  We are not just talking about it, we're creating it.








A good example is we have all colors and races under one fatherhood and bound by true love.









Could this be the result of a dictatorship?

You work hard at your mission and it seems like  a thankless, miserable life, but underneath is a burning desire to be a central person of true love.


You bring meaning to hard work.  You do not do it because someone forces your, but you do it because you have desire that is burning, you have peace within you.

This is true love.

When you are activated by true love, everything you do shall have beauty and glory.  If you communicate with God, then you could never leave him.  Even if you were to receive persecution from the whole world, you are able to sustain your ground, because true love of God upholds us.








This love is invincible because this true love is what mankind needs. 









Because those who you witness have to receive that love through you, they have to come.

Once you reach the level of total oneness with God in His true love, then you can enjoy absolute freedom and do anything with God.  In this love of God, there is no deed that is ungodly.  Even if you do things that seem nasty on the outside, they will bring you closer to God.







No deed done in true love is ugly.









What if God was angry about something, but in that moment His three-year old grandson came over and said, "Grandpa".  He would not be able to help but smile despite His anger, because that one word came from the child's true love.

Maybe God was in the middle of making a life or death decision for the universe, but even at that moment that one word of true love melted His heart.

If you have ever seen a moon launch, the moon may be in one direction in the sky, but the rocket will go in the opposite direction.  The spectators do not think that this makes any sense.

Those living in the world would say the same of the movement, that we were crazy and going in the wrong direction to the Kingdom of Heaven.  But our compass has a clear direction.  It is a spiritual compass leading ultimately to heaven.









If that compass leading your heart is true love then you are bound to reach heaven. 








Even though the rocket looks like it is doing unnecessary maneuvers, if it is led by the compass of true love, it will definitely take you right into heaven.

When that rocket led by true love lands in God's love, that love will explode and rock the entire universe.

When this happens, God will be activated in true love and begin to dance.  When God dances, all of creation will harmonize with Him and begin to dance, too.  Even if God stepped on someone's head in His excitement, that person would not complain, and probably ask for more.

This is the power of true love.







The contest of giving true love is the ultimate competition between husband and wife. 









If you are able to say that you love your partner with the true love of God, then no matter how wealthy or handsome or beautiful he or she is, he has to bow down.

True love is the ultimate gauge of value, not appearance or social standing.

If a wife measures how her husband has given true love to his family, if he is defeated in the competition of true love, he has to bow down to her.  If the subject is defeated in true love, then he must humbly come under his object.

This works on every level, as between a head of state and the people.  If a child is on tour of the White House and asks the President if he loves the people as much as he love his parents and he answers yes, then he is a great President.

If he cannot love the people more than his own parents, he is a failure.

Just as the Bible states that even though you may move mountains, without love it does not have value.  What is the expression of this true love?  Unselfish giving in everyday life is the true expression of that love.

This is the way parents have been living for their children and also the way God has been living for mankind.







Any subject demonstrating unselfish love toward his object is living true love.








When a man stands in the center of true love, the Kingdom of Heaven shall be there.  That love will go beyond any power that is on earth and win over it.  Then the power of unity will bind everything together into oneness like glue.

This is our goal on the road toward an ideal world.  Our direction is true love.

When we manifest that true love in our daily life, it is unselfish giving everyday.  You will also always remember your position.

When you get closer and closer to that goal, many burdens and responsibilities will come to you because the time of fulfillment of God's wish for an ideal world  is near.



Return for Tomorrow's post:  All Creation Has Purpose


This post was rewritten and derived from the speech Mankind and the Ideal World



Friday, July 26, 2013

How to Be Grateful for the Little Things

Now summer is here and all of nature is ready. When you come to Belvedere you might look at that one big tree outside here and remark at how big a tree it is.

When you go outside, you will see that some trees will have a special characteristic that will catch your attention, Especially if one is tall and has colorful leaves.  Even in nature, it is hard to find an object that is perfectly beautiful.  It takes a lot of catering and arrangement to create and present beauty.







There is manmade beauty and natural beauty, but beauty created in the natural way is more difficult. 






Even though an oak tree is big, it started from a small acorn.

Over the years that it grew, it had to absorb many elements.  In its growth it took many sacrifices and contributions.

There is an absolute necessary element that the tree needs to do before it can command respect as a great tree.

I must realize that there were several circumstances and elements combined to make its success possible.

It is a heartistic necessity to recognize and bow down to these elements which made it great.  Both internal and external elements made great sacrifices to make just that one tree.

When the tree is grateful and humble before the elements which made him great, those elements would have respect for him knowing his position and then will gladly give more of themselves.

The small blades of grass that reside in the tree's shade would not be able to complain that the tree receives all of the sun light, but would decide to live with the inconvenience because the tree was grateful.

What if the sun decided to stop shining on the tree?

Would the tree still be in the position to be proud and great or would he become worried and anxious how he would survive without the sun?

What if the air stopped existing or any more water?  How would the tree react?

This situation is just an analogy for man's relationships.

Should you walk pridefully and think that you don't need anybody and you exist independently?  Or would you be meek enough to thank the sun and the air for sustaining your existence?

You eat food with your mouth and at the same time your skin is "breathing" sunlight; which is more delicious?

Let us think in a different way.  You may think that you taste with your mouth but without the sun, your eyes would not even be necessary.

Without the air, you would no longer need your nose.  Therefore, without the air, how would soundwaves travel?  Without soundwaves, your ears would not be necessary.

Your mouth sacrifices many things from the outside for your survival.

Can you then be proud?  Where did your arms and legs come from?  They come from your parents and belong to them in reality.  When each of you was in your mother's womb, you stole energy from her as you grew.

When you go to the store, whatever you buy, you receive a receipt, but did you get a small receipt from all of the energy your mother gave you?  This is why you are thieves!

Can you truly say your body belongs to you?

Day and night you kicked and poked your mother, but you never apologized.  Did you complain or did you have gratitude while you were in your mother's womb?  After nine months of acting up in your mother, you were born.

But you still took nourishment and energy as she fed you.

When you were a little older, you were then fed complete meals by others.  Can we still proclaim our bodies truly belong to us and owe no one?  You never earned it.

Americans are prompt to say thank you, but how much more do you owe thanks to your parents who gave birth to you and attended to you while you grew?

If you were a restless or cranky baby and cried all of the time and demanded attention, you parents didn't demand you to stop, they would immediately comfort you.

Then when you became of age, you attended school for education.  Your parents in totality take care of you for 18 years.

When you think deeply about these things, then you know that you are indebted to your parents for your well-being.  Have you ever told your parents how much they served you or gave and terms of dollars.

The debt is so great, you would never be able to pay them back.

American teenagers act sometimes as if their parents magically appeared out of the heavens.  They speak about the gap between the generations, and that they came into being without causing any trouble to anyone.

Many times young people think their parents just bother them and they place them in retirement homes with an attitude that no one needs the elderly.

The universe does not work in this way.






The world must harmonize.









A person never parallels the universal way when they claim things for his own selfish benefit and demand his rights.  

It is a law of nature that while you are growing up, you are deeply indebted to your parents, and after you are grown and responsible then you repay that debt by taking care of your parents.

When you take a look into the past, what is it that you can be proud of?

You can be proud that you are indebted to your father and mother recognizing that you are also indebted to nature.  You would show appreciation for the water, sun and air, because without these elements you could not even survive for five minutes.







We must be thankful for the world of plants and the animal kingdom.








When you pass a pasture, what is the first thing you think when you see a cow?  That she is fat and that she would make good steaks?  You would probably think of food first instead of thanking the cow.

Which person would the cow welcome: the person who thought of him as a potential steak, or the one who shows gratitude toward him?

Even a cow would rather be eaten by a gracious person instead of a greedy person.

God looks down at this self-centered kind of thinking and knows that He did not create this world for man's self-serving needs.

Do you think that your clothes belong to you?  What about the jewelry you wear?

When a person is proud and thinks that they are independent from others and their environment, nature would laugh at such a person.  Nature knows that you could never exist by yourself.

The universe would never show any gratitude toward the person does not observe any thankfulness.  Everyone has something to be thankful for in their life from the moment of their birth.

If there is a person that understands how much they are indebted to nature, parents, the world and knows his position the world gladly harmonizes with him.

What if you lived in the desert and all the sudden woke up to find that a tropical environment was being created before you in your presence.  How much gratitude would you feel then?

Wouldn't you shout for happiness if all of this appeared out of nowhere one day?  Would you take the world of nature for granted after experiencing the wasteland just beforehand?

Have you ever thought that there was a day where nothing was in existence, that time before God brought anything into existence?  God said that everything was good when creation was complete, but what if you as His child took more pleasure and enjoyment in each thing that He did?

Would He gladly appreciate your expression or not?

God has existed from the beginning, so He would remember and appreciate you based on the historical perspective of millions of years.  Would God say with your kind of heart that it was just good, or would He remember and appreciate you within His heart?

He would think that you were better than anyone in all of history for having so much gratitude for His work.

What if this type of person was not so valued in the looks department or was crippled?  Would God appreciate them less?

No, this person would be remembered first in God's heart.

What about you, what is you first impression when you look in the mirror every morning?

Many women will shun looking in the mirror or have their picture taken.  But no matter how you look, you should view yourself in the broader perspective in which God sees us.




Each of us sends out waves or vibrations to the universe and the world can communicate with you through them. 











What kind of vibes would a person who appreciate everything send?

What about people who always complain and use people for their own advantage?  This kind of person would repel everything in the universe because of that vibration.

The person who is always negative and dissatisfied with everything in site, bites everything including friends and family.

A dissatisfied personality always has long nails everywhere around their body to bite or scratch the universe.  Doesn't it feel that way when you are around such a person?

Today there are definitely a great many people that live in such an unhappy state.

What about your heart?

On the other hand, when you realize your position toward your neighbors and relatives, you feel gratitude.  Then instead of biting and scratching others, you only reach out to embrace them all.

This way, you are sending out infinite waves of gratitude out to all corners of the earth.










The ocean is wide, but it could not be greater than your mind of gratitude. 













Your mind can be strong if you make it small, but if you make it large then it is larger than any ocean on earth!

In that case, the entire universe embraces you also with that quality of mind.    

We each have millions of individual cells in our bodies that are similar to employees in a corporation.  Each of these cells send out their own waves which all of nature responds.

Whatever vibe you send out, is how nature will echo you.

What kind of person do you want to be like: the kind that has infinite appreciation, or one that always has infinite disappointment and complaint?

This is why the Bible teaches to always have gratitude, as well as humbleness and meekness.

Can you count how many words you have used in your life up to this point?  Can you measure what portion has been dedicated to speaking gratitude or for complaint?

We have a general tendency to complain, so most people would receive the sign, "I am a complainer."  Don't you think this is the life most people lead?







But when you complain then everything in the universe is repelled by you. 








Even your parents and friends wouldn't want to be around you if you complain all the time.

Would God be happy to hear it?  Are your eyes, nose and ears complaining about the information that comes to them or are they appreciative in what they see, hear and smell?

If your body and mind are always full of complaint, who will welcome you?  Not even your husband or fiancee, there is no exception.  No one likes to be around such negativity.

If you were to place bags holding your complaint or appreciation, which outweighs the other?

Are complainers usually good or bad people?  You don't like to hear this kind of judgement do you?:

But don't you think that evil-minded people also want to hear kind words from others?

Wouldn't nature also want to hear words of kindness and love, or would they tell you to stop?  Even your pet loves to have loving reinforcement when they do something good. Even the simple words, "Good boy" brings such excitement.

Does your balance tilt more on the complaint or gratitude side?

If you are below zero, then nothing will treat you like a human being because you would be substandard, at the animal level of interaction.



Return for Tomorrow's Post: Recreate the Ideal World

This post was rewritten and derived form the speech Reflection Upon Life

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Trust God Matches Best Person as Your Spouse

In my experience lately, I wondered why God matches certain people or cause an attraction between two unlikely people and now I found out why of course through reading speeches and through recent experience.

There may not be just only ONE person possible for us to be happy with, but there is the BEST one God has in mind that not only benefits the family, but the world through their united interaction.

I think too many people settle early for the second best chose for their spouse or just good enough.  Then there are those who get to experience that out-of-the-world matching by God where there is absolutely no question, this person was created for you and matched by God.

They don't necessarily seem to fit separately, but the best matches are those who have the opposite qualities of their mate, yet are headed toward the same direction.

This type of match of 'opposite attraction' once this couple unites, will have a broader range of attributes and experiences to bring to the relationship.  A child of this kind of harmonious marriage will inherit the wide range of talents and backgrounds of their parents and will be a well-round person able to embrace more people.

There is absolutely one woman for a man who can represent the best sister, mother, daughter, wife for that him.  I believe each of us has that one person - God's ideal mate for us.

In a previous post, we imagined  the Garden of Eden how God had prepared Eve for Adam.  Could they say to God, I don't like her hair, who else is better?  Absolutely, Adam and Eve were born for each other.

Marriage is for the purpose of man to learn about woman, and women to learn all about man and to live for the sake of their spouse, family, nation and world through this love and for God to be at the center.

This is God's ideal.

So why does it seem that most people do not seem to get it right even though in the beginning of the relationship it seems like a perfect match.

One blog described the law of love attraction so well that I want to contribute this portion of the post to their advice.

First, the blog speaks about you first need to know the list of qualities you need in your ideal mate.  Then they challenge you with the next step...list the qualities you think your mate would want.  The hard truth, the blog says, is that everyone wants an ideal mate, but they themselves don't have the qualities to be the perfect mate for someone else:

"If both of your checklists match perfectly, it’s instant attraction. The secret law of attraction in love would set into motion a chain of reactions that will draw both of you together like moths to a warm flame!

Most singles start out in their teens or twenties wanting the best partner in all aspects, and by the time they’re twenty five, they drop their expectations a wee bit. And by the time they reach their thirties, they drop all their expectations and date anyone they get.

Now obviously, even if you find your partner by dropping all your expectations, you’re never going to be completely, truly happy in love. You’re always going to look at someone else, and wonder how things could have been if you could have been with your dream partner.

This is one of the biggest reasons why some people start to fall out of love with their own partners after a few years into a long-term relationship.

Instead of dropping expectations in love all the time, retain them. But just like you have expectations from your partner, remember that your dream partner has expectations too. Ask yourself what your dream partner might want from you and try to become a better person yourself."



If people don't have a simple understanding of this science of love, they will think that it is impossible to have a perfect match.

Thankfully, you now know that with faith and patience, you will find the one absolutely that matches you in every way.

First we need to have the standard of love within ourselves.




Love begins From Within You

When you look back on your love relationships, do you think that you have been able to love someone unselfishly?  If you can say that you have loved to this degree, these experiences will be your assests when you ascend to the spirit world - your pure love relationships will be the only thing you can take from this world into the next.



"You have met someone whom you can love. What an incredible blessing that is for you. Think of all that lies behind this marriage. But this love should not be just a horizontal bond between you and your beloved; you must link it to the vertical dimension."

It isn't easy to add vertical love to horizontal love, is it?

We are living on the horizontal plane and this axis links husband and wife.  However, for the family to link to the vertical line and for the vertical realm to reach down the family must extend upward.

What is this vertical line?

This vertical line above you is your nation in which you should feel patriotic.  In the fallen world, we pay our taxes because we can't avoid paying them.  In the original world, we should pay taxes because we love our country more than our own family and want to pay them.

With this intensity of patriotic love for your country, your children and descendants will create a great benefit and reward for future generations. Through this way, the blessing will multiply and expand.  This is the way to become an ideal family and form an ideal nation on this foundation of love.

You and your spouse become the core of the country when you devote yourself to loving your country and create a full circle of love.  As this core expands, you will receive special protection and true love will expand.

It is an Oriental custom always to use both hands when you serve your elders. Also, Orientals have the custom of bowing. To bow means to empty yourself and to convey the attitude, "I am nothing; you are everything."

When you bow, you acknowledge your elder as the perfect plus, and you empty yourself totally to that person, becoming a perfect minus. Whenever the plus is perfected, the minus is automatically perfected as well; and the interaction between plus and minus creates energy.


The Ideal Couple

What holds a man and woman together?


Men and women have interlocking shapes, to keep them from missing each other or sliding apart once they meet. The man has the additional role of anchor, so that when a couple is bolted together, they won't slip and lose their footing. This way, a couple can be anchored and bolted together with true love.

There is a space-age glue so strong that something mended with it may break anywhere else, but never at that joint. Likewise, a man and a woman bonded together in complete, true love might get hurt someplace else, but nothing will ever be able to separate their union.

God created man with interlocking shapes that prevents them from missing each other or sliding apart once they meet.  Man has the role of an additonal anchor where the couple will not lose their footing once they are bolted together with true love.

A man and woman that are tightened completely together through true love might get hurt elsewhere, but like the space-age glue, there is nothing not even God that can separate their union.

"True love is the super glue which holds husband and wife together. Do you understand? Don't just laugh. This is an operation of natural law; tell me whether you understand


You or the world could push, toss, knock down and kick such a strong couple bonded by true love and they still would not be able to be pulled apart but always stick together.  Such couples come from a a Marriage blessed directly and approved by God bearing children of His lineage.

A truly united couple does not break apart even if someone drill a hole through them -  the broken pieces would fall and return and stick to them.  Even if pressured was applied to this couple, once this pressure is removed, the couple would plump right back up.

A totally united couple is completely one.  Nothing under the sun can alter a couple with unity brought together by true love.

Would you like to be part of this perfect couple or be a mediocre couple?

What about a couple that only takes the easy way of dealing with issues. " Can you attain perfection as a couple if your focus is only on having fun and a good time; if you long only to see beautiful sights, smell nice things, eat good food and listen to good music; if you can relate only to good feelings?


One Common Trunk Line

Those blessed in a marriage that inherits the love and blood lineage of God is what Jesus wanted to accomplish during his lifetime if he had those of faith to follow him to the end.

Here the author of the Divine Principle tells groups of couples about the importance of this kind of marriage and becoming one in unity:

"After being a single person so long, it is wonderful to get married because something is added to you. However, in order to sustain that added stature, you need a strong root and a broad foundation. Your roots are your parents and relatives. Anyone who tries to flee his parents by getting married is making a mistake.

Once you are married, you cannot think of yourself as an individual but as part of the larger root system. Furthermore, once you are married, you have not only one family to worry about, but two. You have in-laws now -- brothers, sisters, mother-in-law, father-in-law, as well as many other new relatives. You should be able to plant yourself firmly upon this new root and foundation.

If you women try to be clever and take advantage of your husband's relatives for your own benefit, you will be kicked out of the house. Here I am referring basically to women; if you act that way, your husband will eventually throw you out.

Marriage is like a grafting process. The root of the man and the root of the woman are grafted together and become one. Your two roots join into one common trunk line, which branches out and produces blossoms, bearing the fruit of both families. A couple is not just one family but represents two families.

Your parents and relatives will see your blossoms and rejoice; your in-laws as well will look on and feel joy. Marriage is not just the meeting of husband and wife, not just the union of one individual to another, but the joining of two families. Two roots come together and become one trunk; a new trunk, new branches, new leaves are produced, and then the blossoms, flowers and fruits come.

Would you like to have a broad and embracing kind of tree, or would you rather ignore your in-laws and focus just on your spouse and yourself? Those who disregard the roots and focus only on their marriage relationship may try to justify themselves by claiming: "We are like Adam and Eve. We are the only ones that count.

We just want to concentrate on ourselves. Life is simpler and more convenient that way; we don't have any burdens. Why should we bother with the roots and branches?" Is that the right attitude? Unfortunately, however, this is the trend in America today.

One danger in focusing just on your spouse is that your relationship may easily break up. The wife may meet a man who is more handsome than her husband, someone who tells her how beautiful and attractive she is and how her husband is not treating her right. If she has no anchor or foundation, her heart can be affected.

Or the husband may meet a pretty woman who flatters him telling him how handsome he is. Perhaps his wife never told him that, and when another woman says it, his heart starts to quiver. He thinks, "You know, my wife is like a stump; she is unattractive and ugly. She's a good housekeeper but not adequate as a wife." Then the marriage breaks up.

Your marriage needs to be anchored to its roots and secured to its branches. Then when you consider all the foundation upon which you are standing and your commitment to the future, you cannot take your marriage lightly.

You should tell yourself, "I am marrying for the sake of my spouse, my parents, and my future children." You are the present. The present could not exist without a past, which is your parents. A future is coming, which will be your children. The past, present and future must be linked in your Blessing."


Return for Tomorrow's Post:  God Fortune is in Finding Right Spouse

This information was rewritten and taken from the religious textbook: True Love, Volume One, Restoration of Love.

"Why do people get married? It is to love God. Why should we love God? It is because we need to become one with the axis of God."




Monday, November 26, 2012

Principles of True Love

Welcome to a new week, and the last week of posts for the year of 2012, the Chinese symbol of the Dragon. Let's get started!  Does anyone think that love has rules or principles that are absolute?

True love happens in relationship with others. Even God required an “other” to fulfill His love. He created human beings as love partners, to whom to share the glory of His creation. He needed an object—someone to share with. He needed a relationship in order to experience love fully.





True Love Is Principled
 
Modern cultural notions have it that love is a spontaneous feeling in one person’s heart toward another. Yet, in fact, ethics weighs prominently that in successful and loving relationships. Examination reveals that ethics and morals enable true love.

Love based on feelings alone can be dangerous.

A man may feel he has fallen in love with another woman and desert his wife and children for her, leaving emotional devastation in his wake. A teacher may feel aromantic attraction toward a young student and wind up psychologically damaging the student for life with sexual approaches.

Psychologist M. Scott Peck points out, “Many, many people possessing a feeling of love and even acting in response to that feeling act in all manner of unloving and destructive ways."

In order to benefit the other, true love adheres to ethical principles.

Based upon principles, a truly loving person will behave benevolently toward a person he or she does not feel benevolent toward in the moment. To be kind to a spouse even when the spouse is being surly means a person believes in kindness, even when the other is not evoking it. It means a person believes in preserving and protecting marriage itself. To help the homeless man on the street means a person believes in treating one’s fellow human beings with compassion, even when that fellow human being is disreputable. To love those who have done a person harm means belief in the ultimate redemption of all, including the reprobate.

 
Ethics Enable a Life of True Love
 
Principles help stiffen the will to love the unlovable. They provide the impetus to enact the prodding of the conscience, which tells a person to act caringly even at his or her own expense. Mother Teresa could not have overcome her natural revulsion at the sights and smells of the diseased and dying in Calcutta had she not believed that the image of Christ was alive in each person. When she saw filthy people being gnawed on by rats in the gutters, it did not cause her to turn away, leaving them to the trash pile. Instead, she saw them as Jesus in a “distressing disguise” and asserted their eternal value as children of God. Adherence to a strong belief system enables a life of true love.
The necessity for ethical principles in love may be noted in the visceral reactions people have to violations of right and wrong in their relationships. For instance, learning that a spouse has been unfaithful is always an occasion for great anguish and pain. Marital love is bound up with expectations of loyalty, and these expectations are not just culturally conditioned. The emotional pain—the rage and hurt—that adultery causes is testimony enough to the deep affective content of the principle of fidelity in married love.

 
All other forms of love depend upon principles, too. You may have sensed these principles even in relationship with your friends.  In the love between friends, ethical violations are felt keenly as personal betrayals. The friend who lies, the friend who talks behind one’s back, the friend who passes one over in favor of another,the friend who is always willing to let the other pay the check - all of these kinds of ethical shortcomings cause friendships to flounder.

Ethical expectations accompany every human interaction and relationship—even fleeting ones. A person expects the clerk in the store to be polite and helpful. A driver expects fellow motorists to drive in a safety-conscious way in order to prevent injuries. Passengers on buses expect other passengers to make a minimum of noise, to say “Excuse me” when brushing past, and to move their things out of the way when the seat is needed.

The other-centeredness of these ethical expectations is clearly discernible. In fact, all virtues may be seen to be other-centered in perspective; all vices may be seen to be self-centered. It may be said, therefore, that “living for the sake of others” is the most all-embracing and all-encompassing moral principle.

 
True Love Is Serving and Sacrificial

True love is active. It involves enacting through willpower the promptings of beliefs and principles. Author and Christian philosopher C. S. Lewis noted that the more one feels without acting, eventually the less one is able to feel. This echoes the Book of James:
 
If anyone is a hearer of the word and not a doer, he is like a man who looks at his own face in a mirror, he sees himself, then goes off and promptly forgets what he looked like.
 
But the one who peers into the perfect law of freedom and perseveres, and is not a hearer who forgets but a doer who acts, such a one shall be blessedin what he does.

Many faith and ethical traditions emphasize service and self-sacrifice.   The great disciplines require fasting, prayer vigils, caring for the poor, the sick, the imprisoned, working to bring others into the light of truth, lengthy periods of silence and contemplation, and the giving up of worldly goods and pleasures in order to direct the mind toward God and others. It is as if in order for love to come down from Heaven, service and sacrifice must create a vacuum on earth.
 
Sacrifice in service to others creates a pocket in the usual maelstrom of selfishness—an empty space where God may dwell. As Reverend Moon has said, “God is creator and the originator of the two basic principles of service and sacrifice,” and when those principles are put into effect, God’s true love moves in.

The touching story of Shay shows how sacrifice and service to others creates an open place for heavenly love to come down to earth. Shay was a young, learning-disabled boy. He and his father were walking past a park where some boys were playing baseball.

Shay wanted to play, and his father reluctantly approached one of the boys on the field. The boy said, “Well, we’re losing by six runs, and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team.”
Oddly enough, Shay’s team started to score until they had a chance to win the game. But Shay was up next. Knowing it meant they would lose, Shay’s team still gave him the bat. He didn’t even know how to hold it. Thoughtfully, the opposing pitcher moved forward to throw Shay easy soft pitches. When Shay managed to hit a grounder, the pitcher instead of throwing it to the first baseman, lobbed it in a high arc out into right field. Everyone started yelling,

“Shay, run to first!” Startled, eyes wide, Shay ran to first and past it.

The right fielder then deliberately threw the ball way over the second baseman’s head, and once again, everyone shouted for Shay to run to the next base. The shortstop from the other team even turned him in the right direction. Another wild throw over the third baseman’s head had boys from both teams shouting, “Run home, Shay!” Shay ran home and was cheered by all as the hero who had hit the winning home run.
“That day,” the father said, with tears rolling down his face, “The boys from both teams helped bring a piece of the Divine Plan into this world.” They did so by their willingness to sacrifice their own interests for the sake of a little boy who needed a win more than they did, and who would always remembers the day other created a special space for him to belong.

It is hard to give things up that are in a person’s own self-interest.  Yet when a person does so to serve others, a window seems to open in the heart. It is a window through which the warm sunlight, gentle breezes, and the pure oxygen of the love of God may be seen and felt. For a moment, heaven comes to earth, and the whole world breathes a little easier.


Return for Tomorrow's Post: Second Chance at First Love

Photos courtesy of : freedigitalphotos.net

Today's text was taken from Textbook: Educating for True Love, Explaining Rev. Moon's Thought on Morality, Family, and Society.