Self-Grading
Monthly Score Tables On
“The 10 Daily-Life Habits That Make a Supremely
Happy Couple”
Q.1.
Have you practiced walking hand in hand when you
go out with your spouse?
Q.2.
Have you practiced holding your spouse’s hand when
you watch TV together?
Q.3.
Have you practiced holding each other’s hand in bed
before going to sleep?
Q.4.
Have you practiced sleeping naked together in one
bed?
Q.5.
Have you practiced calling each other at least once
a day in the daytime?
Q.6.
Have you practiced bowing down to a picture of True
Parents, reciting the Family Pledge, reporting to
God while facing each other and holding each
other’s hands, and bowing (down) to each other
in conclusion, every morning andnight?
Q.7.
Have you practiced sending off, and welcoming home,
your husband (wife), by holding his (her) hand,
kissing, and/or hugging at the front door, when
he (she) goes out for work and when he (she)
returns from work?
Q.8.
Have you practiced talking to each other politely, and
with respect?
Q.9.
Have you practiced hoondokhae [i.e., reading True Parents’
speeches] together every day?
Q.10.
Have you practiced making love at least twice a week?
♦ Scale
for Scoring Points
Your
answer to each question can receive 0 to 5 points. Your
answers to all 10 questions in total can receive from
0 to 50 points.
5
points: We have always or almost always practiced.
4
points: We have frequently practiced.
3
points: We have sometimes practiced.
2
points: We have practiced once in awhile.
1
point: We have rarely practiced.
0
point: We have never practiced.
(Each
Question 0-5 points; Total 0-50 points)
Couple’s
Monthly Scores and Letter Grades
Couple’s
Total Score: 0-100 points
Couple’s
Earned Grade:
A+:
95-100 points
A:
90-94 points
A-:
85-89 points
B+:
80-84 points
B:
75-79 points
B-:
70-74 points
C+:
65-69 points
C:
60-64 points
C-:
55-59 points
D+:
50-54 points
D:
45-49 points
D-:
40-44 points
F:
0-39 points
I
hope that husbands and wives can both quickly obtain the full
score of 5 points for many, if not all, of the 10 questions by faithfully
practicing the daily-life habits of true love. Then the couple
can obtain 5
points + 5 points = 10 total points for
a question.
When a couple can obtain a perfect score of 10 total points
for a question, I interpret this as meaning that this couple has
achieved the standard of “Ssang
Hab Shib Seung Il”
which means
the “Day
of Total Victory with the Unity of a Pair of Fives”
and
the beginning of the “Era
after the Coming of Heaven,”
the
time when we can joyfully live together with God.
When
we can obtain a perfect score of 10 total points as a couple
for almost all of the 10 questions, we can easily achieve over
95 total points and can receive the grade of “A+.” The letter grade
of ABC is decided, not by the relative percentage among couples,
but by the absolute total number of points for each couple.
Therefore,
it is possible that every Blessed couple can achieve
the grade of “A+.”
If
a couple can even only faithfully practice the “10
daily-life habits
that make a supremely happy couple,” then
that couple can
become an “A+”
pure-love couple without
fail. There is no need
to pay extra expenses to practice the “10
daily-life habits that
make a supremely happy couple.” Therefore,
no matter how
poor a couple may be, any couple can always practice these
“10
daily-life habits” without
any financial concern.
If
a husband and wife faithfully practice the “10
daily-life habits
that make a supremely happy couple” here
on earth, that
couple can live in happiness eternally by continuing to practice these
same daily-life habits of true love in the spirit world, after
ascending into Heaven.
I
sincerely hope that all couples will faithfully practice these “10
daily-life habits that make a supremely happy couple” and
truly become “A+” pure-love couples living in supreme happiness
in the new Era after the Coming of Heaven. I am sure God
will always dwell in such “A+” pure-love couples.
Yoshihiko
Masuda, PhD
(Professor, CheongShim Graduate School of Theology
CheongShim GST University Press
Based on the Speeches of True Parents and Dae Mo Nim
Published by CheongShim GST University Press
Copyright
ⓒ 2010 by Yoshihiko Masuda
All Rights Reserved
Published in the Republic of Korea by CheongShim GST University Press
(Professor, CheongShim Graduate School of Theology
CheongShim GST University Press
Based on the Speeches of True Parents and Dae Mo Nim
Published by CheongShim GST University Press
Copyright
ⓒ 2010 by Yoshihiko Masuda
All Rights Reserved
Published in the Republic of Korea by CheongShim GST University Press
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