Chasity With Intent to Marry

I don't know where non-believers or people who love multiple sex partners with every being under the sun get the idea that faithful people view chastity as a crime or a forever sentence.  It for a certain time period.  During this time period, we strengthen our vertical relationship with God and become better people for our intended spouse.  When two people are centered on God, they have a more dynamic, lasting relationship with the same common goals of living for the sake of their spouse and children.

 I believe the misinformation is a scare tactic to get teenagers to follow the "fun" popular  way of sexing whomever they want, having multiple partners, despite imminent heartbreak following them from one broken relationship to the next.  The world tells telling them that they will never find happiness and people who hold out on sex for marriage never have fun or will never find someone to stay faithful.

Free sex sells, chastity is a buzz killer to the industry.

I refuse to live my life the secular way just for fear that my future mate will bounce on our wedding vows one day.  I truly believe people get the spouse that best matches their dreams or their fears.  Thankfully all my life I envisioned one who has the same values in this manner and not fall for the traps of thinking there are no such possibilities in a true monogamous relationship.


Second Chance Virgin

It is never too late to rededicate ones life to fidelity, and then only have sex with their partner thereafter.

People call it many names, but I have heard it called, Second Virginity where people take a vow to wait to have sexual relations until after marriage.

I have said it before in a better post that teens who are 'wild' always get bored and to me, I think free sex with whomever always comes out of boredom for lack of better activities presented before them.  Also, teenagers are told what not to do which is don't have sex, drink, drugs or etc., but they are never given the best options of what TO DO instead.  With all the "don't dos this" and the things they see that look like fun being taken off the list, and the see reinforcements on television that it is okay, all they hear is DO sex. 

Just drop the 'n't'. 

Imagine where a teen is innundated with all these cool options of sports, atheltics, trips, activities, friends, things they CAN do, make a campaign, fight for this cause, hang out with the same sex more, there is too much to do for the benefit of other's happiness other than just cutting loose. 

As I wrote in the post about celebrities sort of repenting, a few celebrities mostly said that their wild life was actually boring at the end of the day, and are now sobering up and starting their real life.
 
Neither Adam nor Eve were the origin. The True Love point where they could become one was the point of origin. Once they became totally one, they could never become separated. That is the place where True Love dwells. Then they become an ideal couple centered upon True Love. Where is the origin of True Love?

What is your answer? The place of union of the ideal man and woman in True Love is the origin. Unless you become connected through your sexual organs, there is no way for the love of husband and wife to be eternally bonded.  This means we absolutely believe in sex as a necessary means within the confines of a marriage.


Sexual Orgins Are Valuable

Do you understand just how precious and valuable are the sexual organs of man and woman? Nothing can replace their value. Only the partnership of True Love can control that place forever. Therefore, the ideal marriage between man and woman and their first night of sexual love is the most precious thing in the entire universe.

There is no other place to find the universal truth and ideal. When the author of the Divine Principle discovered that this truth and ideal dwells within our own body, he was so surprised. Therefore, we should dwell in the bosom of the True Love couple. As husband and wife, without holding onto your partner's sexual organ, how can you continue in your married life? This is the ideal way of married couples. Do you understand?

Do you all have sexual organs or not? Is God a male or female God? What is the difference between the original sexual organ of God, which is the origin of True Love, and human beings' sexual organ which is the result of God's True Love? They possess equal value.

Our sexual organ has the desire to conquer the King of kings of the universe. The husband stands in the position of king, and God is in the position of King of kings. This is the palace of True Love, Life and Lineage. Without this organ, we are not able to create the ideal world. The secular world has considered the sexual organ as the worst possible thing, because through this sexual organ the entire humanity was destroyed. That is why God desired humanity to live a life of chastity and follow an ascetic path through the various religions.

The grandparents, parents, husband and wife, brothers and sisters all hang onto the sexual organ of their spouse. That is why there is equalization. If this balance is broken, the entire family will be unbalanced. If the ideal sexual life of husband and wife is broken, the entire family will be shaken.

Once you American women receive your spouse, will you cling to him for eternity or try to change partners within a few years. As the founder of the Unification Church, Father has revealed the importance and value of the sexual organ, this very organ which the secular world considers the absolute worst. That is why Father has been labeled as a heretic. However, the truth is, the fall of man took place because of false love-making, the misuse of the original sexual organs. Instead of the ideal center being between Adam and Eve, they deviated and created a false center after Eve was tempted - not by her husband.

Chasity or Infidelity

The dividing line between Heaven and Hell is your sexual organ. Is this the truth? Absolutely yes.

If you misuse your sexual organ you are condemned to Hell. If you use it correctly you are destined to Heaven. This is a clear dividing line. Therefore, Unification Church teaches the process of recreation. Because the original position was lost, we have to recreate in order to enter the Kingdom of Heaven. No one has appreciated the value of the human sexual organ until now.

As husband and wife you become an ideal couple and produce children who will be true children in eternity. Even if you produce true children within your family, if one of those children deviates and falls, they will be doomed to Hell. Blessed couples clearly know yourselves better than anyone else. At this moment your conscience clearly tells you whether you belong to Heaven or Hell. Your path toward Heaven is a long way ahead of you. If your life is zig-zagging you will never be able to go over the boundary of Satan's realm. Consider the Messiah's  life, constantly marching on without eating and resting properly.

Those of you who have come here for the first time to hear this context, please remember that the dividing line between Heaven and Hell is within the relationship with your spouse. If you follow the way of Divine Principle you will eventually belong to Heaven. However, if you misuse your sexual organ you will end up in Hell. Please remember this teaching. Once you are bound together through True Love you can never be separated as husband and wife.

When you are really tired, instead of sleeping for eight hours alone, place your head on your wife's lap and sleep for only thirty minutes and you will gain more recovery than eight hours of sleep all alone. When your husband returns after a long day working invite him to rest on your lap for thirty minutes or for one hour. Then when he is totally recovered you can gently lead him into the bathroom to have him take a shower.

Are Blessed Unification Church couples who are married believing in this ideology happy or unhappy? Millions are happy no matter what struggles they encounter. There are so many senior Korean elders who have left their wives and family in Korea and followed directions to America. They have spent five, ten or twelve years without their spouses. However, they don't worry about them. They have faith that their families will live in Korea peacefully. Since they live separately without having to worry about their spouse, they gain more weight and look even brighter. After five or seven years of separation, their love grows as big as a mountain. When these two mountains meet they make a big noise like the thunder. How wonderful. This is our love dream. Have you actually experienced this?

Within American society, they don't cherish this kind of dream because they are running after free sex. If you truly live your life close to your wife's True Love , don't you think that she would welcome you? Husbands should offer their True Love to their wives and wives to their husbands. If you have enough money to live your life without working, and you chain yourself to your wife so that you can never be separated from one another and live your entire life this way, then no one will ever blame you.

If you find yourself in this position, you can practice every level of love-making. Go and practice every level of love-making. You are the center of the entire universe. Even if you spend your entire life practicing all the varieties of love-making, you will never be able to practice them all. There are just too many.

Now we have the recipe for where and how we should live our lives. Those who clearly understand and are ready to live this kind of life are ready to experience many blessings.  If you truly practice this path of True Love, even without believing in Jesus, you will go straight to Heaven. Amen.

This way of life is not centered on your family alone, but it includes the entire world. We have to remember that my couple is the center of my family, my clan, my tribe, my nation, my world and even the center of God Himself. That is the kind of pride we should have when we follow this way. Just as God consists of dual characteristics of plus and minus, as husband and wife we manifest God and follow this principle.

The origin, direction, and effect must be one through unity between husband and wife. The life that we will practice is one of investing and forgetting. Shall we do so? Living for the sake of others is the quality of life we which we want to realize.


Return for Tomorrow's Post: How To Be Unforgettable

Speech titled "Where and How Do You Want To Live Your Life" given by the author of the Divine Prinicile, Dr. Rev. Sun Myung Moon, which every post is based upon.