Wouldn't God make a certain standard for relationships?
Most certainly, God has an absolute standard and order, and model of love He has in mind.
It depends on whether the love a man and a woman share is in accord with God's will that determines success or destruction.
That is a relief to know that God has already placed within the creation a set standard for how a man and a woman should love one another.
Once these certain standards are set in place, not only do they receive God's protection in their love, but they are guaranteed a successful and loving relationship full of happiness.
Many relationship gurus fight amongst themselves over who has the better solution to acquire love and how to keep it, but the highest best advice comes from the master of love Himself, God.
Let's go back to the beginning of the very first love relationship, Adam and Eve.
We by now know the story that if they had become one in love that was based on the love of God, then this world would have turned out completely opposite from what we witness now.
They would have matured and become perfect individually and then they would have become the universal model of love. This is what God desired from human beings.
Likewise, man and woman must also have wanted to have united based on this true love of God, wouldn't they?
The true love of that couple would be the core of the universe. That love would have become the standard of measurement for the rest of humanity and for eternity. God's love and human love is the same in essence.
Love causes oneness.
Why does a man and a woman long for each other?
They feel such a natural desire because it is the only way man can possess God is through a woman and a woman can possess God only through a man.
In other words, they have a longing for one another because God comes and dwells where a man and a woman have become one in love.
God is the source of man and woman.
Therefore, we should sing praises for the noble value of God and the dignity and value of men and women. When God's beloved woman lives in a man's heart and God's beloved man lives in a woman's heart as well, these two will become object partners to God.
When they love each other, God will be delighted to see such love and all things will rejoice.
Heaven and earth will rejoice to see such a man and a woman embrace who have such values. When man and woman embrace each other in mutual fondness, that fondness becomes the point where the universe unifies.
This was how God's original ideal for the world of peace was to unfold. Originally, a man should meet a woman where he can rejoice, and a woman should meet a man with whom she can rejoice.
More than this, their encounter should be a place where both God and all things in creation can rejoice.
Then, all of creation will be mobilized for this couple. They want to be ruled by them. Birds will sing and butterflies will flutter and dance joy at this sight. God will rejoice, people will rejoice, everything will rejoice.
This would have been the original scene if the first ancestors started history based on such a position. The world would have had a different origin and it would have been centered on God.
The Reason Men and Women Are Born
What is the original purpose of man to be born on earth? It is undeniable that man was born for the sake of a woman.
Of course many Westerners would shake their head at such a notion, but this fact is undeniable.
Likewise, woman was not born for her own sake. Even her breasts and sexual organs are not for her, but her children and husband. We should know that problems arise if a woman fails to understand her own purpose for being born for the sake of man.
Since the 70s of modern feminism and equal rights, women have fallen far away from the traditional view of marriage and life.
No matter how much it is fought, God ultimately established the world based on these principles.
Therefore, we cannot enter the world of goodness, truth, happiness and peace or the world of love and the ideal unless we follow this principle.
A woman is born to meet a man, and a man is born to meet a woman. Isn't this so? This is the highest truth whether it is recognized or not.
When we deviate from this highest truth, that constitutes the highest evil.
God created men and women physically opposite and complementary to one another.
Women are one-directional, men are three or four-directional. Women are more likely to enjoy staying at home while men are more likely to enjoy traveling the world.
There are many books, movies and discussions over the differences between men and women and that it is almost impossible to come together in unity.
How is it possible for men and women to become one? Surely, a perfect God would not create such beings that would not be able to unite.
Men and women unite through love. Love has the ability to unite human beings and God.
Man was not born for the sake for academic accomplishments, money or political power. He is born for the sake of a woman.
Man was born with a larger physique, not so that he can live only for himself, but so he can earn a living for their children and wives.
No one can argue the fact that men and women's sexual organs are different from one another.
Of course these organs do not exist for their own sake. Man's sexual organ came into existence for the woman, likewise, woman's sexual organ is for the sake of man.
Have you ever stopped to think about this? This is not a funny matter.
Where is the final destination of love?
Since the coming together of the male and female sexual organ makes them one, this is the final destination.
That which man has is not his, and that which woman has is not hers. In other words, man has what belongs to woman, and woman has what belongs to man. The sexual organ becomes a channel through which the mind and body come merged through love.
Of course these organs do not exist for their own sake. Man's sexual organ came into existence for the woman, likewise, woman's sexual organ is for the sake of man.
Have you ever stopped to think about this? This is not a funny matter.
Where is the final destination of love?
Since the coming together of the male and female sexual organ makes them one, this is the final destination.
That which man has is not his, and that which woman has is not hers. In other words, man has what belongs to woman, and woman has what belongs to man. The sexual organ becomes a channel through which the mind and body come merged through love.
We should clearly know that we are each born for the sake of our one partner.
This is important, because if we know our final destination, there is no confusion and we know clearly the path we should take in life.
So, why are men and women born on earth?
Men and women are born to love each other. Since God is the great king of wisdom, He switched ownership of their love organs.
A man is not the owner of his sexual organ. The same is true for women.
Those who behaved carelessly in regard to the ownership of their love organs will be ultimately judged.
If men were to suffer punishment under the most harshest and fearful of laws, would they even think of other women instead of their wives. Conversely, can wives think of other men instead of their own husbands?
This is important, because if we know our final destination, there is no confusion and we know clearly the path we should take in life.
So, why are men and women born on earth?
Men and women are born to love each other. Since God is the great king of wisdom, He switched ownership of their love organs.
A man is not the owner of his sexual organ. The same is true for women.
Those who behaved carelessly in regard to the ownership of their love organs will be ultimately judged.
If men were to suffer punishment under the most harshest and fearful of laws, would they even think of other women instead of their wives. Conversely, can wives think of other men instead of their own husbands?
Men and Women Absolutely Need Each Other
How much do men and women need each other?
Just think, no matter how much men boasts about their accomplishments, it does not matter because it would all disappear in 100 years if there were no women.
Therefore women are absolutely necessary.
When we look at a single man, we think he needs to be with a woman and when we look at a woman, she has to be with a man.
Man can not be born based on his own desire, nor woman be born through her own desire. Both need each other.
The reason one is born a woman is that there is a man who needs her. Likewise, the reason I am born as a man like this is that there is a woman who needs me. Isn't that right? We are all born in this way, with God's knowledge.
Man absolutely needs God, but before this, he needs a partner called woman.
This is where human history has failed miserably. Men have failed to correctly understand the absolute need for women. Also, women have not understood they absolutely need for men.
A true man and a true woman who pursue true love are joined through their efforts of becoming one in heart.
When such a man and woman are joined as one, God comes and dwells with them.
God does not like to see a couple that is joined by true love to separate. Therefore the love of an absolute man and woman is eternal.
God is omnipotent and omniscient, but even God's existence will have no meaning if He is alone.
On the same token, no matter how handsome or fit a man may be, these things have no meaning if he is without a woman.
Men who are in love with their own existence and good looks lead such an ugly existence.
He has no value before God. This is the problem that many men in the world have fallen into such narcissism. This is the reason why history has moved toward tragedy.
God's providence works to change and improve this world that has been immersed in such self-centeredness.
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This post was rewritten and derived from the textbook, Cheong Seong Gyeong Book Four - True Family, Chapter Five Section 1 - 3
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