How to be a True Godly Couple

Conjugal love is the oneness of the love of man and the love of woman. Conjugal love is to become one with children's love centering upon parental love and then it can become one with God's love. God's love will dwell where the origin of perfect conjugal love is established.



Rev. Sun Myung Moon






When a man and woman are about to explode in love based on loving God and humankind, then God and the universe can possess their family.


Where is the root of love? It doesn't exist within you. God's love is the true origin.


When doves are in love, they make the sound, 'coo, coo'. What about you couples? When people are in deep love and meet each other, the sound them make is much bigger than thunder.


If we have the strong love centered on God, then having opposition from the world will be something interesting to play with.

"First love" possesses enormous power, like dynamite.

True love is the first, last and the eternal.


A mind that pursues such an idealistic love, becomes the driving force to overcome all difficulties. 

We will be able to win over anything, not only Satan, when we are in love.


Where Adam and Eve blessed in holy marriage before they lived together or did they live together first as is accustom with young people in this age?


To fall is to lose the center focus of God's vertical love and horizontal love.


This is why conjugal love in the fallen world is so unstable. Conjugal love these days turns around 180 degrees based on just one word. 

This means that people do not know where conjugal love should aim.


The order of conjugal love has been broken which has caused the world to head toward destruction.

True love means to love in complete oneness of body, heart and blood lineage.

Who has the capacity to love like that? Only the husband and wife can.


One's spouse is the most lovely object in the world. A couple's relationship is just like an echo, your spouse will act and behave according to how you sound and behave.


A man does not reject a woman when she is plunging into the depth of his heart. A man likes such a woman.

All barriers are broken when one sacrifices and invests everything for the sake of love.

God wants a couple to love each other passionately.


Ones who enter married life after keeping their virginity are able to love wholeheartedly. 

This is why virgin maidens and bachelors are warned to not touch hands before marriage so they do not leak any love, or to love 100%.


Even though a couple may be far apart in distance, they will find themselves moving toward each other automatically and unconsciously.


Unfortunately, after the fall, we find that our mind and body are in contradiction. We should correct this by placing the mind in the subject position over the fallen, fleshy body. 

Then ask God to dwell in our mind.


A man and woman who have both accomplished this and receive the Marriage Blessing while giving and receiving perfect love in joy, will both look like flowers in full bloom.


The harmonized outcomes that come from such a loving couple will be a beautiful fragrance to God.


God has longed to live with such people.

God can dwell only in the love of a husband and wife.

All things of the universe should harmonize upon that love.



The Unification Church is the place to teach such a love. The sound of a happy couple in love is God's favorite melody. 

When a couple has the mind to embrace the entire universe, laughter is automatically produced. Wouldn't such a couples loving life be a beautiful flower in God's sight?


This is not some abstract concept, we are talking about the original world which God intended to flourish instead of a sinful world.


A couple can become one through accomplishing the purpose of the universe. To live for this purpose is the most significant aspect of life.


If a couple was to come upon a mountain and ask, “Who does this mountain exist for?” The couple will say, “It exists for me at the same time as for you.” A couple is like this.

A couple speaks centered upon mind, personality and love.

They are in the same boat aren't they?

Even if a Cabinet minister was to marry a country-bred lady, the people will bow down to her as his wife. Even if she did not graduate from elementary school.


Husband and wife go the same way. Within a couple, the wife's love is also the husband's love and the husband's love is the wife's love.


A couple in love's laughter who are intoxicated in love is relative.


When a man laughs, he opens his eyes wide. When a woman laughs, she gently gets smaller, then they get more intoxicated in love.


A couple should not desire that their spouse's face stays in a fixed position.  If spouses were to have the same facial expression from day in and day out, then they would eventually  get tired of looking at each other.

When you look at your spouse with a joyful heart, he or she will look joyful.

When you look at your spouse with a loving, beautiful heart, he or she will look beautiful.


Be grateful that you can feel your spouse's face anew with every new stimulation.


If a husband strikes his wife, that couple cannot be happy, but a husband and wife can be happy when they give and receive love with each other.


When a man loves a woman energetically, the woman will feel true happiness. This type of love cannot be accomplished with just energy alone, it can be fulfilled by the heart alone.


When a man confirms his loving heart through his physical power, the woman feels complete happiness, and when the woman returns his love both physically and spiritually, they can become a truly happy couple.

Human beings always need stimulation.

We cannot establish happiness without stimulation.


When we are hungry, rice tastes so good and fresh. We are able to eat the same meal every day. Likewise, love should always be fresh and new.

The husband and the wife should miss each other more and more, day by day.

In order to have this kind of feeling, we have to research ourselves and God.


What is our favorite thing to do? Would that be eating?


Everyone feels good when they eat, but this situation and feeling is only temporary. When we are full, no matter what delicious food is set before us, we can't eat anymore.


On the other other hand, we are satiated with our lover; the more we see the lover, the more we miss him or her.


In this way, a couple make a circle of love. Unification takes place right there.


A girl does not need a man before marriage, but once she gets caught up in the love of married life, then she cannot bear to be without him.


Because of love, she sees that her husband is more precious than herself.

True joyfulness can be generated in a family only if they center their love upon God.

A couple that reaches this state can see the joyous God.


Originally, love was supposed to be the noblest, holiest and most beautiful thing. It was not supposed to be an activity of shame. 

But because humanity committed the sin of love, then the history of love has flowed in the opposite direction away from God.


Society will accuse a couple who dance naked in front of others, but who cares if a husband and wife dance naked in their own room. 

Nobody can accuse whatever happens between a husband and a wife in love.


Even though there are billions of men and women in the world, you should only think that there exists, only you and your spouse alone.

The value of love lies in longing.

A spouse will be happy to pour out his or her love if you actively initiate love. Otherwise, your spouse will run away.


How would you feel if your spouse was passive in love and was not serious?


We always want to be together with our lover?


We always want to be together with our love partner. We feel good when we are together because everything functions simultaneously.


It would be better do to it silently than to do it loudly shouting, “I love you.”

Deep love kept silently in the heart is very precious.

Love in the orient is internal while love in the West is active.

The waves are high in the shallow water and gentle in the deep water. The waves of love also get quieter in depth.


If God had made Himself visible to all of the nations, what would have happened? The nations would fight with one another and possess the limited God within their own boundaries.


That which is invisible is precious. God is precious, because He dwells in our invisible mind.


Because God is invisible inside our mind, nobody can steal God from us.

Invisible love is the greatest among all kinds of love.

How much fun would love be, if it was visible?


Yet, because God made love invisible, it can be the highest, widest and deepest. Some say love is like the Rocky Mountains or like the Niagara Falls. These are correct similes.






Return for Tomorrow's Post: Whispers of Love can Cool Hate in the World

This Post was rewritten and derived from the religious textbook Blessing and Ideal Family Part 2.

Satan Stole God's Family

A father and mother create new life through their love, and it is the same in the rebirth process.

Each person has their own responsibility to return to the good origin and be born again. 

They begins as flesh and blood and bone in the Father. So, you must go back to the body of Jesus in a sinless, sacrificial life.

Through sacrificial love you can go back to the origin, the very source of your life.

If you know Jesus as your spiritual father, you want to bring yourself inside his heart and be reborn as his flesh and blood. This is the desire you must have.

Before this, you were flesh and blood of your father and mother, but if you love Jesus so much that nothing else in the world matters to you, you can absolutely give you heart and soul to him. 

 At that time, the Holy Spirit will come to you and give you rebirth. Then you are reborn as the spiritual son or daughter of Jesus.

This is the whole process of rebirth in Christianity, the is the essence of Christianity..

But this position is only at the level of adopted son or daughter, not true son or daughter.

We not only have a spirit, but we are created with a body. The biggest step left to be taken is to be born again. This is not just in spirit alone, but in spirit and body together.

For this purpose, Jesus is needed and he must return as a living person in the flesh to finish his mission of physical salvation.

So far, Christianity has offered salvation in spirit only. Now in this new age, when jesus comes back as the second Messiah, we will be given the power to be born again in the flesh as well.

Each person needs this physical rebirth before going to the spirit world.

The requirement to enter the Kingdom of God is to be elevated as sons and daughters of God, while loving the world as God loves the world.

No one can doubt that Christianity today is in a definite crisis. This is the same crisis that parallels the time of Jesus when the established religions of that time failed the Son of God.

Religious traditions have become a shackle, and religions have no way to advance.

These former disciplines and traditions are too small to embrace the salvation of the whole world. This is why the young people of the world are so rebellious in their search for a more open atmosphere.

When this imbalance and contradiction between the secular world and religious world takes place, we know that it is time for God to undertake some extraordinary, revolutionary action to change the format of religion. God must have some universal religion in mind.

The world is ready. This is the perfect time that God will inspire such a religion.

Without this religion forming, the present world cannot have any hope for change in the future. God has a solution for both the religious and secular worlds. He is responsible for them both. So, which path should we take?

We either change the secular world first or religon first.

Religion today, should lead the way through the emergence of a universal religion.

The first problem that needs to be faced within religion is the religious division and antagonism.

Do you think God is proud of the hundred of denomination and disunity among His believers? God most certainly want all religious people united together.

The universal goal of humankind is world brother and sisterhood, one human family.

Therefore, a new religious movement that centers on that vision and goal should come into being.

Religious people are always a problem to those in power.

God is always their main goal.

With this attitude, they can go beyond national boundaries, racial and cultural boundaries.

Religious people are difficult to handle because the accepted sense of judgement does not apply to them.

When they are told, “We will kill you!” is not a threat to them. They will answer, “Go ahead, do it!”

A new religion emerged throughout history to liquidate the religions before they got too big.

A sovereign nation only worries about its own territory, but religious people must go beyond the boundary of their own nation.

Religious people don't care if an an enemy is next door – they might even open the door to the enemy camp. This type of behavior worries the governing people.

Rulers of nations usually look at religious people as a very sticky problem.

Yet, today, young people are in search for spiritual values. There is no other way to find what they want other than through religion. There is a rise of enrollment in church-run schools which shows the growing interest in religion.

People who could not find secular solutions to their problems are coming all the way back to seek a religious life.

“Long ago I predicted that this would indeed happen and that the year 1976 would be a turning point of American history. From now on the search for spiritual rather than material solutions for this nation's problems will intensify.”

We recognize this crisis, and we can see through this haze to the bright shining day of new hope.

We are living in the most extraordinary time in human history.

We are in the position to save and liberate Jesus Christ from his anguish and even liberate God from His sadness for all that has been lost throughout history due to humanity's mistakes.

We are the ones who can assure God his happiness, His joy, His peace.

We are the ones to liberate God's heart and His sorrow.

We also are liberating all humankind from the bondage of Satan. Finally, we can push the entire satanic world out of this world and hand it back to God.

We bear our cross as living beings. It is possible to complain in our position along the way, but we must go beyond that. 

You must expect a miracle to happen without the need to die. When we reach this goal – this is a miracle. If you have this faith, commitment, then when you go, God will be with you.

God's power is yours.

“God has been with me when I have this intent, this faith, and this love. God was with me each step of my way. The same God shall be with you.”

We are living in the time for an unprecedented spiritual awakening of humanity.

“I want you to open your eyes and ears to perceive the truth. This is my hope, that by sharing this message with you, we might unite to prepare for the glorious day of the arrival of the Lord. Let us see the God of history, let us understand the God of Providence, and let us embrace the living God in our own lives.

“The major criticism Christians have is their contention that I pose as the Lord of the Second Advent. But I never said that. They created rumors like that. Christians have been waiting all these years for the second coming, so they should have had the courtesy to come and find out for themselves whether our members have valid reason to spread such a rumor.

“If they had earnestly done that, Christianity today would be entirely different. Some Christians say that we are heretics, but I tell you that this is not just ordinary heresy. I am a super-heretic in their eyes, and the amazing thing is that God likes this super-heretic.”

Since Jesus died, children have been born all over the world into sin, yet they are still children of God and need to be restored.

There has not been a tree of life for them to physically graft themselves onto.

We are living at the end of the world, not only for Christians, but for all people throughout the world.

The new history of God will begin with the arrival of the Lord.

Blessed are those who have the eyes to see him upon his return.

It is the mission of Christianity to recognize, receive, and accept the Lord of the second advent at his arrival. This chance has already arrived for all of us.

You must be humble, and open yourself to great new hope! The greatest opportunity in anyone's life is now knocking at our door.

No position, money can please God except for your heart of love for God alone which will make Him cry. That alone can touch His heart.

God will trust you and love you once you are ready to do anything for Him in order to ease His grieving heart while denying yourself, sacrificing yourself with tearful eyes.

If you cry out to God, “Whatever place you have for us to die, I will go to that place. I am ready to deny myself, I am ready to die in the place of other people for Your cause.” If you are ready to dash to that point to sacrifice yourself, He will trust you.

If you are utterly going to do things for the sake of God's will, then alone will He believe you. 

 Even though God has been betrayed by so many people, if you pray to God saying: “You may do anything You please, and I will follow You,” then God could cry out, “You resemble me; you restored yourself in the image and likeness of Myself.” In that case alone will He trust that person.

Even if God was to lose a whole nation, tribe or family, if he finds one person with this kind of attitude left, that devotion and oneness with the love of God, He will be pleased with that person.

Then starting from that person, He can broaden the scope of His love and reach out to the whole world again.

In other words, we must resemble God to the fullest extent.

If we were to dissolve God there would be one thing left, and that is love, God's love.

We must be ready to sacrifice ourselves for this great love.

Even if we must die on the sea, mountainside, or in the deep valley of darkness, wherever we may have to die, if we are killed for this cause, we must be ready to do that and make this our determination.

This is why Jesus said in the Bible, 'Whoever want to gain his life will lose it and whoever is ready to lose his life for my sake will gain it.'

“I hope that you consider these ideas seriously, and pray to God. He will answer you.

Return for Tomorrow's Post:  How to be a True Godly Couple 

This post was rewritten and derived from the text, Jesus and the Second Coming God's Warning to the World -message from prison.

Every Person is to be Born Again

A father and mother create new life through their love, and it is the same in the rebirth process.

Each person has their own responsibility to return to the good origin and be born again.

They begins as flesh and blood and bone in the Father.  So, you must go back to the body of Jesus in a sinless, sacrificial life.

Through sacrificial love you can go back to the origin, the very source of your life. 

If you know Jesus as your spiritual father, you want to bring yourself inside his heart and be reborn as his flesh and blood.  This is the desire you must have.

Before this, you were flesh and blood of your father and mother, but if you love Jesus so much that nothing else in the world matters to you, you can absolutely give you heart and soul to him.  At that time, the Holy Spirit will come to you and give you rebirth.

Then you are reborn as the spiritual son or daughter of Jesus.

This is the whole process of rebirth in Christianity, the is the essence of Christianity..

But this position is only at the level of adopted son or daughter, not true son or daughter.

We not only have a spirit, but we are created with a body.  The biggest step left to be taken is to be born again.  This is not just in spirit alone, but in spirit and body together.

For this purpose, Jesus is needed and he must return as a living person in the flesh to finish his mission of physical salvation.

So far, Christianity has offered salvation in spirit only.  Now in this new age, when jesus comes back as the second Messiah, we will be given the power to be born again in the flesh as well.

Each person needs this physical rebirth before going to the spirit world. 

The requirement to enter the Kingdom of God is to be elevated as sons and daughters of God, while loving the world as God loves the world.

No one can doubt that Christianity today is in a definite crisis.  This is the same crisis that parallels the time of Jesus when the established religions of that time failed the Son of God.

Religious traditions have become a shackle, and religions have no way to advance.

These former disciplines and traditions are too small to embrace the salvation of the whole world.  This is why the young people of the world are so rebellious in their search for a more open atmosphere.

When this imbalance and contradiction between the secular world and religious world takes place, we know that it is time for God to undertake some extraordinary, revolutionary action to change the format of religion.  God must have some universal religion in mind.

The world is ready. This is the perfect time that God will inspire such a religion.

Without this religion forming, the present world cannot have any hope for change in the future.  God has a solution for both the religious and secular worlds.  He is responsible for them both.  So, which path should we take?

We either change the secular world first or religion first.

Religion today, should lead the way through the emergence of a universal religion.

The first problem that needs to be faced within religion is the religious division and antagonism.

Do you think God is proud of the hundred of denomination and disunity among His believers?  God most certainly want all religious people united together.

The universal goal of humankind is world brother and sisterhood, one human family.

Therefore, a new religious movement that centers on that vision and goal should come into being.

Religious people are always a problem to those in power. 

God is always their main goal.

With this attitude, they can go beyond national boundaries, racial and cultural boundaries.

Religious people are difficult to handle because the accepted sense of judgement does not apply to them.

When they are told, “We will kill you!” is not a threat to them.  They will answer, “Go ahead, do it!”

A new religion emerged throughout history to liquidate the religions before they got too big.

A sovereign nation only worries about its own territory, but religious people must go beyond the boundary of their own nation.

Religious people don't care if an an enemy is next door – they might even open the door to the enemy camp.   This type of behavior worries the governing people.

Rulers of nations usually look at religious people as a very sticky problem.

Yet, today, young people are in search for spiritual values.   There is no other way to find what they want other than through religion.

There is a rise of enrollment in church-run schools which shows the growing interest in religion.

People who could not find secular solutions to their problems are coming all the way back to seek a religious life.



“Long ago I predicted that this would indeed happen and that the year 1976 would be a turning point of American history. From now on the search for spiritual rather than material solutions for this nation's problems will intensify.”


We recognize this crisis, and we can see through this haze to the bright shining day of new hope.


We are living in the most extraordinary time in human history.

We are in the position to save and liberate Jesus Christ from his anguish and even liberate God from His sadness for all that has been lost throughout history due to humanity's mistakes.

We are the ones who can assure God his happiness, His joy, His peace. 

We are the ones to liberate God's heart and His sorrow.

We also are liberating all humankind from the bondage of Satan.  Finally, we can push the entire satanic world out of this world and hand it back to God.

We bear our cross as living beings.  It is possible to complain in our position along the way, but we must go beyond that.

You must expect a miracle to happen without the need to die.  When we reach this goal – this is a miracle.  If you have this faith, commitment, then when you go, God will be with you.

God's power is yours.

“God has been with me when I have this intent, this faith, and this love. God was with me each step of my way. The same God shall be with you.”


We are living in the time for an unprecedented spiritual awakening of humanity.



“I want you to open your eyes and ears to perceive the truth. This is my hope, that by sharing this message with you, we might unite to prepare for the glorious day of the arrival of the Lord. Let us see the God of history, let us understand the God of Providence, and let us embrace the living God in our own lives.

“The major criticism Christians have is their contention that I pose as the Lord of the Second Advent. But I never said that. They created rumors like that. Christians have been waiting all these years for the second coming, so they should have had the courtesy to come and find out for themselves whether our members have valid reason to spread such a rumor.

“If they had earnestly done that, Christianity today would be entirely different. Some Christians say that we are heretics, but I tell you that this is not just ordinary heresy. I am a super-heretic in their eyes, and the amazing thing is that God likes this super-heretic.”


Since Jesus died, children have been born all over the world into sin, yet they are still children of God and need to be restored.

There has not been a tree of life for them to physically graft themselves onto.

We are living at the end of the world, not only for Christians, but for all people throughout the world.

The new history of God will begin with the arrival of the Lord. 

Blessed are those who have the eyes to see him upon his return.

It is the mission of Christianity to recognize, receive, and accept the Lord of the second advent at his arrival.  This chance has already arrived for all of us.

You must be humble, and open yourself to great new hope! The greatest opportunity in anyone's life is now knocking at our door.

No position, money can please God except for your heart of love for God alone which will make Him cry.

That alone can touch His heart.

God will trust you and love you once you are ready to do anything for Him in order to ease His grieving heart while denying yourself, sacrificing yourself with tearful eyes.

If you cry out to God, “Whatever place you have for us to die, I will go to that place.  I am ready to deny myself, I am ready to die in the place of other people for Your cause.”  If you are ready to dash to that point to sacrifice yourself, He will trust you.

If you are utterly going to do things for the sake of God's will, then alone will He believe you.  Even though God has been betrayed by so many people, if you pray to God saying: “You may do anything You please, and I will follow You,” then God could cry out, “You resemble me; you restored yourself in the image and likeness of Myself.”  In that case alone will He trust that person.

Even if God was to lose a whole nation, tribe or family, if he finds one person with this kind of attitude left, that devotion and oneness with the love of God, He will be pleased with that person.

Then starting from that person, He can broaden the scope of His love and reach out to the whole world again.

In other words, we must resemble God to the fullest extent.

If we were to dissolve God there would be one thing left, and that is love, God's love.

We must be ready to sacrifice ourselves for this great love. 

Even if we must die on the sea, mountainside, or in the deep valley of darkness, wherever we may have to die, if we are killed for this cause, we must be ready to do that and make this our determination.

This is why Jesus said in the Bible, 'Whoever wants to gain his life will lose it and whoever is ready to lose his life for my sake will gain it.'


“I hope that you consider these ideas seriously, and pray to God. He will answer you.”


Return for Tomorrow's Post: Satan Stole God's Family


This post was rewritten and derived from the text, Jesus and the Second Coming God's Warning to the World message from prison.