My Family's Christmas Miracle

I experienced a miracle after seven years of learning the deep teachings of the Divine Principle and God wants me to share a lot lately that is very personal and hard for me, but I have to learn how to step out of the way of His message.  Someone reading this either will laugh at it, understand or learn from it.

If this was the only miracle that has happened in the last year with my family then maybe it would not stand out so much, but it is just the icing and the most recent.  Once a cheater always a cheater they say, but when God puts His love on it, then it can change anyone.

I'll give you a little background and maybe this event will have more significance. 

My uncle and aunt of course in center, his
grandchildren, daughter, 2 sons and brother are on my
dad's side, the Morris'

March of 2010 I moved back to the countryside of deep south Arkansas with 200 population and most of it family.  Both my mother and father's side live within a three mile radius. That's aunts, cousins and up to fourth cousins on both sides and everywhere.  I moved back because God called me back to witness what I have learned for 5 years in California and that was I had been awaken to the Messiah walking the earth and the Divine Principle.  That's a story in itself and the teachings I share on my blog.  His name is Reverend Sun Myung Moon, performs mass weddings, which my WHOLE family was trying to get me out because they thought I was part of a cult and so may you, but they ALL have changed their mind.

What the teachings profess is that Jesus was meant to accomplish more of his mission which was to marry, have children and leave God's pure blood lineage on the earth, but because he did not have anyone who truly followed him in the end, he had to go the second route of the cross to save us.  Jesus comes back to accomplish this and to bring his lineage to this earth and to reverse the beginning of sin that occurred in the Garden of Eden between a man and woman and he was to reverse it as a true man to marry his true bride.  Thus, the Marriage Supper of the Lamb.  This prophecy was fulfilled in our time. 

In short, God had an original ideal of Heaven on Earth before Adam and Eve had disbelieved in His command and were vanished from the Garden of Eden which caused you and me to be born outside of God's protective realm ... thus we have sin perpetuated nonstop throughout history.

I say all of this to give you why my VERY strong christian family were adamant that I was following the wrong way.  But, they can't deny it now because I'm still standing, and they see that I have grown and that there is a change between us all. 

Especially with this latest event.

I believe with the teaching of the Divine Principle, which I share and take more than three hours a day to prepare dozens of material for different avenues online to share the news, I have been witnessing miracles not only within my family, but with every single person who has supported me even with a smile.  Friends, families, associate have been flooded with new jobs after years of searching, marriages after long engagement, cures to diseases, high exposure for their new book, people getting back together etc.  Everyone except me.  This is my sacrifice, "live for the sake of others" is Rev. Moon's biggest motto. 

My father, one of the healthiest men I know, found out last February at 60 he had Prostate cancer even though he just had a check up 6 months ago.  They said if he had waited 6 more months for his annual check up it would have been too late.  So, I flew out to North Carolina and not only am I in love with my father now, forgave him for the past and know him better than ever because of this, he is alive and recovered weeks early without the use of any pain medication.

Then today I just came from a wedding.  Big deal right?  Well, if you knew the story it is.  Right when I came back almost three years ago, I had found out my aunt and uncle had separated after over 20 years of marriage.  I started going to my cousin's church which he was a pastor down the street and supported him as much as possible, which they couldn't understand because for some reason they thought my 'cult' didn't believe in Jesus.  Family from both side of my parent's attended this church.  I felt like Jesus with all of the damn resistance I had with every single person about my belief that the Messiah had returned..

Too long of a story on that, but long story short, my aunt told me she left the house a year ago because he was cheating on her.  At that time, I just knew that with the teachings of restoring the family that God originally planned, and all of the work of reversing our family's history of going in the wrong direction that it was possible for this situation to change. I had at that time been working hard with God and through the direct teachings of the professed Messiah to reverse my family's wrong path.

I told her give him a year and he would return.  Well, it became worse.  He actually left his house sold it and moved in with this woman and her family.  Well, to tell you how hickish my family is, this other woman is on my mother's side - the other woman's sister is married to my mother's brother, my uncle on my mother's side.

I didn't grow up like this, I never lived around family ever until this time.  I grew up in a different world, I came back here for a purpose, so this is like foreign to me as well.

Anyway, I told her one time when we went out to eat alone together that I was sorry for getting her hopes up, I thought it was going to happen after the two year mark and I don't understand why he is still with her with all the prayer and conditions of faith.

Well, my uncle is my blood uncle on my father's side so he told me to pray for him.  All the time.  I told my aunt that the other woman's family was from Louisiana and into voodoo which I heard straight from my uncle's wife on my mother's side.  Crazy stuff when I write this. Meaning he was with this woman because of the occult.  And they think I AM into some crazy stuff.  But they told Jesus the same; that they said that he was doing his works with the help of the devil.

So, I prayed and talked to them both separately in confidence. I remember the stories from my aunt when I would Facebook her on the holidays and she would tell me I was the only one who said anything to her that day.  She was so lonely!  She didn't date, she went to restaurants alone and even said a waitress asked her why she was alone and the waitress was ashamed after she told her, her story of her husband leaving.  But never did my aunt have any bad words to say about my uncle *unlike my mother about my father.

One main reason why I returned to the south is what Rev. Moon says: Be a Tribal Messiah to your family, tribe and to return them to God.  I had written a 400 page book for my family of a fictional account of my spiritual experiences being visited by ancestors who had done bad things in the past and we are paying for their sins. 

They actually read it and even said that one character I fictionalized had that exact same name, and even misspelled the name the same way and was just like her even though I never heard about her before or lived in the same time frame.  Well, my family is with God, but they don't know him without the Completed Testament (Divine Principle is not an addition to the bible it is based of the Old testament and New Testament) which tells us the hidden messages of the bible and the why and how of war and sin on the earth and finally, how it is being eradicated.  So, merely that the Messiah comes to take his people to the clouds is false, God always wanted to restore the earth, not kill everybody and just save a few.  Who knew?

Long story short, my uncle's mother, my last grandparent, died two months ago and just before that my uncle had made peace with her and God.  He was deemed the black sheep and had just came back home along with his heart to my grandmother days before he found her on the ground moaning after she fell out from her stroke and went into a coma until she had to be unplugged.

At her funeral he sung a song where he could barely finish because he was singing thank you Jesus,God because he was supposed to be dead and he is back in the Lord's arm.

Well TODAY, a few hours ago he just was REmarried on my grandmother's birthday to his wife after leaving her four years ago.

Right after the ceremony and before the picture taking, my uncle said something that was amazing because I never told him how I felt about him leaving.  I hugged him and told him that I prayed for him all the time.  He said that, "I know.  I know this is what you always wanted for a long time." He looks so much like my dad, I just hugged him and then he added, "Only God could have done this." If you just knew how much of a Don Juan, player whatever he was, you would know you witnessed a miracle for him to say this.

This was my mission to help my family in their situation.  Their problem is my problem which is God's problem.  Before, I never cared about people's problems until I started studying the Divine Principle and Unification Thought.

Before I came back to my family, their children under 25 were dying from cars running off the road, into trees, motorcycles running into a swimming pool in the middle of the street, dying of new diseases at the time, as babies from choking on a hot dog and now my family's curses are turning around into blessings.  After a year of my return only the elderly have died where before, one young cousin a year was dying.  I am truly starting to see Heaven on Earth.  It is still a daily battle of fighting evils within and without, but it is better than the path before I started learning this teaching.

I am leaving out so much that it probably doesn't make sense or seem significant, but before Rev. Moon passed away this September, he said that if we witnessed for three hours a day we would start to see miracles happen in our family.  I think the same as reading the material or reading even a little of the Divine Principle and applying it in our life it will work.

If you can, believe that the end of the world truly means the end of Satan's sovereignty, the end of the evil world where satan's reign and the beginning of God and His children prospering, plus the beginning of Heaven on Earth.  It can only happen when we no longer give and take with our evil side, kind of like the little devil on one shoulder and the angel on the other shoulder.

Fortunately, the Divine Principle workshops are given freely in each state by district pastors through the ACLC affiliated with the Unification Church or you can continue with my blog where I rewrite Dr. Rev. Moon's speeches and textbooks without changing the spirit of the message for those who are not members of the Unification Church.

Pray and see if my testimony is just a coincidence, or  I'm crazy or that it is truly possible that you are living in the most highest time of human history where finally good things and miracles will be a natural occurrence and God can finally take position as absolute ruler over His earth. 

You may think He was all this time, but it was satan who ruled over this earth perpetrating as the false god.  Why else would Jesus tell his people out of anger that 'you are of your father the devil'?  If you think God would create and rule over this hell on earth then it is possible we will never agree.  Who did Eve choose to believe in the beginning, God's word or Satan's?  And that is the word we have believed until now.  Choose the living word.  Every moment you choose either life or death in your decisions.

It is up to you.  I will never pressure anyone to follow unless they want me to or love to hear the messages.  My only job is to give the living word and spread it as a messenger, open the door not push you through it or make you believe.  I already been down that alley face to face with strangers and it takes up energy from people who really are sick spiritually and have been praying for God to drop someone like me into their life.

Hopefully, you have the eyes to see and will believe and understand the time you are living in.  All I know is what I told my family who I stood up against every single one of them because I said, "When I go to the gates and God ask did I do all he asked me to do.  I will say hell yes everything!!!  Did you do it to the best of your ability? I will say yes, Lord, and I didn't come here alone.  I brought my family and millions of others like you said I would."

Yes, I always feel like I am a nuisance to people and I bother them, but they either fade away or they cling to the word that is given.

It may sound selfish, but I told my uncle now it was his turn to pray for me, and my time for my miracle.  I have received half of my miracle with a blessed story idea 35 years in the making and admit shamefully I do wish for the rest of the miracle to be fulfilled, but that depends completely on God and the person He chosen my heart for.

I had a waking vision when I first started the Divine Principle teachings 7 years ago that I was going to have a lot of tribulation, beyond words that my novel could not even cover, and to endure God showed me that if I counted the stars that would be how many people/children I would bring to Him.  Millions. 

I do not fit in with the Unification Church, I do not fit in with my family, people do not understand me, but God is with me.  He wants me to be a leader and always had even though I wanted to sit in the back and be led, but he will not tolerate it anymore and He ordained for my partner to do the same and we are both waiting for him to step up to the plate.

Is this path easy to do as God will and not as 'thou wilst'?  God is asking me to talk to people I would never even know or talk to without His consent, power or love.  The me I am without God, loves only thyself and can do without another human's presence for eternity.  So imagine how hard it is for me to do half of what he asks.  Anyone who knows me and the better me, knows only God had something to do with this, and if God is with me, then he must be with Reverend Moon.

Will you be a witness to the greatness of this time or are you going to be like the people of Noah's time and miss the boat and continue to eat, drink and give into marriage without Him completely?

Those who have the ears to hear will hear and those who don't, must be protected by our prayers.

Love you all for reading and have a good week.

I will see you January 5 with some fantastic new blogs after my refreshing month off.  I love you all from around the world.  Have a good one.

Denise Rochelle M.

How to Have the Happiest Marriage (rewritten)

Daily-Life Habits That Make a Supremely Happy Couple

A Guide to the Happiest Married Life

written by Yoshihiko Masuda, PhD

AchieveWorldPeace Note:

The following text was given by a Unification Church member based on the values taught by the founder, Dr. Reverend Sun Myung Moon, married for over 50 years before his death this September, which is centered on his teachings of the Divine Principle. The Original text of DP is given in Korean and the philosophy and based on the teachings of the bible and of Jesus. With the combined teachings of the Eastern philosophy and teachings of the Western bible, the Reverend has been able to tap into the hearts of people of all religions, faiths and along with non-believers for one reason: the teaching of the heart of God which is rooted in every human being.

The UC member had used many of the speeches given by the reverend to instruct his congregation on how to keep their marriage alive with the unity of God and the energy of spirit world. Reverend Moon was married over 50 years to his wife Dr. Hak Ja Han Moon before his recent death at 92 in September of this year.

The members who this text is original geared toward have had extensive training and missions to train their body and their minds to become united centered on God in the goal of becoming the original children of God that appeared before the fall.  They understand the basic rule of the living for others, no sex outside of marriage or with anyone other than their spouse, spouses live for one another and their sexual organs belong to their spouse.

For more understanding of the Divine  Principle, please scan the dozens of articles which translate the Divine Principle into conversational speech.

I have changed the 70-page text to be understandable for readers who are members of other churches

Chapter 1

It is recommended that the first 10 habits, listed in Chapter 1, be practiced everyday, that is, always, and these can make for a supremely happy couple. The additional 10 habits, in Chapter 2, can also make for a supremely happy couple, and it is recommended that these be practiced at least sometimes, if not everyday.

This method is used by many couples in this world, even before their marriage.

“Method for the Improvement through Practice,” as a way to improve the conjugal relationship. No matter how bad their relationship may be, a married couple can, without fail, improve their conjugal relationship, if they only practice these following habits.

This is why I named it the “Method for the Improvement through Practice.”

As for the “10 daily-life habits that make a supremely happy couple,” I will present the words of True Parents and Dae Mo Nim (Spiritualist who can see spirit world with evil and good spirits) repeatedly on each habit in most of the cases. I personally came to practice these 10 habits largely because I had read their speeches, which repeatedly touch on these habits.

If you have not yet been practicing these habits, please read carefully and repeatedly the speeches of Dr. Rev. Sun Myung Moon and Dae Mo Nim in addition to this text. The motivation to experiment with these habits in your daily life will surely well up from your heart. Undoubtedly, you will come to say to yourself, “As Rev. Moon and his Wife have taught us repeatedly like this and even presented to us an ideal model of practice in their daily lives, let’s try to practice these habits in our lives.”

After practicing these habits on an experimental basis, you may cease practicing them if you as a couple does not feel good. Nonetheless, after practicing these habits experimentally, I am sure your couple will end up in practicing them continuously because you will come to feel a deep sense of peace and goodness in your heart. In other words, you can feel genuinely happy, and you can feel the presence of God by practicing them.

Any couple can, without fail, become an “A+” pure-love couple by faithfully practicing the “10 daily-life habits that make a supremely happy couple.” There is no need to pay any extra expenses when practicing these “10 daily-life habits that make a supremely happy couple.” Therefore, no matter how poor a couple may be, they can still practice these “10 daily-life habits,” without worrying about money.

If a husband and wife faithfully practice these “10 daily-life habits” while here on earth, the couple can live in happiness eternally, simply by continuing to practice these daily-life habits of true love in the spirit world, after both ascending into Heaven.

I really hope that all couples will faithfully practice, not only the first “10 daily-life habits that make a supremely happy couple,” but also the additional 10 habits, and truly become “A+”pure-love couples living in supreme happiness. I am sure God will always dwell in such “A+” pure-love couple.

This is, in a sense, a tribute to my late wife, and this book is dedicated to her with my profound gratitude for her untiring practice of true love here on earth.

The Value of Holding Hands

We could easily say that “holding each other’s hand” or living “hand in hand,” which Rev. Moon and Dae Mo Nim have recommended, is the main characteristic emerging from these “10 daily-life habits that make a supremely happy couple.”

“Special spiritual energy” comes out of our fingers and palms, as we know from using them to heal our bodies and to rid of any negative energy. So, if we live hand in hand as a couple, we can receive the effect of a hand massage, which contributes not only to our spiritual health (happy feelings), but also to our physical health.

The Spiritualist Dae Mo Nim, however, has repeatedly emphasized the importance of changing our daily-life habits. Therefore, since 2008 I have renamed it as “a checklist of the 10 daily-life habits that make a supremely happy couple.”

1. We should always walk hand in hand when we go out with our spouse.
2. We should always hold our spouse’s hand when we watch TV together.
3. We should always hold each other’s hand in bed and have pillow-talk before going to sleep.
4. We should sleep naked together in one bed every night.
5. We should call each other at least once a day during the daytime and always keep in touch.
6. We should bow down before a picture of True Parents, recite the Family Pledge, report to God facing each other and holding each other’s hands, and bow (down) to each other to close, every morning and every night.
7. We should always send off and welcome home our husband (wife), by holding his (her) hand, kissing, and/or hugging at the front door when he (she) goes out for work and returns from work.
8. We should always talk to each other politely, and with respect.
9. We should practice reading True Parents’ speeches together every day.
10. We should make love at least twice a week.

These 10 points of advice are not my personal advice, but are from Dr. Rev. Sun Myung Moon, his wife and Dae Mo Nim. Therefore, readers must not talk about these 10 points as coming from Prof. Masuda. I merely gathered these 10 points together as a practical “checklist of the 10 daily-life habits,” from the guidance of True Parents and Dae Mo Nim, concerning our lives as a husband and wife.

From my personal experience, I am sure that even if we practice only half of these 10 points, our conjugal relationship will tremendously improve and be carried on a strong ascending wind current. If you haven’t practiced any of these habits yet, I strongly recommend that you immediately put them into practice.

Try them out! You have nothing to lose!

I would like to present True Parent’s and Dae Mo Nim’s speeches that support these “10 habits that make a supremely happy couple.”

1. We should always walk hand in hand when we go out with our spouse.

As for the first habit of “always walking hand in hand,” I would like to introduce True Parent’s speech delivered on May 5, 2005, the one-year anniversary of The Day of Total Victory with the Unity of a Pair of Fives.

It has become a rumor here that Reverend Moon is always walking hand in hand with his wife, Dr. Hak Ja Han. Usually in Korea, the husband keeps walking on and on ahead of his wife, who walks behind him. Then, the wife wonders, “How busy is he, walking that fast?” Reverend Moon, however, walks hand in hand with his wife.

Dae Mo Nim has also repeatedly mentioned that True Parents (members call Rev. Moon and his wife TP because they have fulfilled oneship as a couple before God and teach members, as parents, to rid the evil lineage of satan plus sin from their own lineage through marriage) always hold each other’s hand while walking outside, and she has taught us that we Blessed Married couples, married by the Reverend, should emulate them by always holding each other’s hand in our daily lives.

True Parents hold each other’s hand while watching TV and while walking outside. True Parents always hold each other’s hand in their daily lives. You know that, don’t you? True Parents say, “Follow us by watching our lives.”

True Parents are the ideal model for all Blessed couples and always “walk hand in hand” in their daily lives, not only in the United States, but also in Korea. Up until now, just as in Japan, top Korean leaders such as the President and the First Lady, or the chairman or president of a major company and his wife, have never had the habit of walking together hand in hand in public, in Korea. All Blessed couples, however, should emulate True Parents and practice the culture of true conjugal love.

Hyung-jin Nim, Rev. Moon's son, also always walks hand in hand with his wife, Yeon-ah Nim. During the fall semester of 2006, when he frequently guided our CheongShim Graduate School’s hoondokhae, he always, without fail, walked hand in hand with his wife between their car and our Chapel on the fourth floor of the main building, before and after the gatherings. I was very happy to see the beautiful scene of their walking hand in hand.

As we can tell from the practice of using our fingers and palms during the workshops to rid our bodies of negative energy, “special spiritual energy” comes out of our fingers and palms. That’s why I recommend walking “hand in hand” rather than “arm in arm.” So, if we walk hand in hand as a couple, we can give and receive the effect of a hand massage, which contributes not only to our spiritual health but also to our physical health. I wholeheartedly recommend “always walking hand in hand” just likeTrue Parents; it is part of the True Parents’ rules of health: “Become an absolute Blessed couple of one heart and one body.”

When walking together, or watching TV together, or sleeping together, and so on, a husband and wife are advised to hold each other’s hand, and every time when the husband and wife hold each other’shand, it brings about the unity of a husband’s five fingers and a wife’s five fingers. Therefore, we can view it as symbolizing the “Day of Total Victory with the Unity of a Pair of Fives,”

When we walk hand in hand, we should sometimes remind ourselves that “walking hand in hand” brings about the unity of a husband’s five fingers and a wife’s five fingers and symbolizes the “Day of Total Victory with the Unity of a Pair of Fives”. We should always walk hand in hand and at least sometimes give deep thanks to God in our hearts for the fact that we now live in the unprecedented new “Era after the Coming of Heaven,” (through the coming of the Lord of the Second Advent's worked to bring Heaven on Earth) when a husband and wife can completely become one and when God can dwell within us.

2. We should always hold our spouse’s hand when we watch TV together.

3. We should always hold each other’s hand in bed and have pillow-talk before going to sleep.

I would like to introduce four speeches of Dae Mo Nim, in which she talked about the second and third habits of holding each other’s hand intimately, while watching TV, and while in bed before going to sleep. True Parents hold each other’s hand while watching TV and while walking outside. True Parents always hold each other’s hand in their daily lives. You know that, don’t you? True Parents say, “Follow us by watching our lives.” I sometimes watch how True Parents are doing in their lives. When they watch TV, how are they doing?

They are watching TV while holding each other’s hand. When they listen to music, they are listening while holding each other’s hand and responding to the rhythm. We Blessed couples must resemble such True Parents.

You must not simply go to sleep when you sleep at night. You should sleep holding your husband’s hand or other parts of the body.

When watching TV after dinner, you and your husband must not sit apart. For example, while watching TV, you should hold your husband’s hand and put it on your lap or put your hand on your husband’s knee or use his lap as a pillow. If you act in this way, you can receive love from your husband in many ways. But many wives do not act in such a way. Love is what you nurture and create with your own effort.

Some couples sit apart as if they were fighting when they watch TV, or when they watch their children playing. That is not good. We can say a husband and wife were utter strangers to each other in the past from some viewpoints. Therefore, without their effort to stay close and to care about each other, they gradually drift apart. Therefore, you have to sleep holding each other’s hand and watch TV holding each other’s hand.

On the bed at night, after scratching on the back of the spouse to increase comfortableness, or massaging the legs, or touching the ear and head and so on to each other, a husband and wife should hold each other’s hand and squeeze it tightly in the end to say “Good night!” together before going to sleep. Such a husband and wife are a happy couple.

It seems that many Oriental Blessed Married husbands are not good at expressing love in their daily lives. They repeatedly recite “absolute faith, absolute love, and absolute obedience” with their lips. Nonetheless, when it comes to practicing true love with their own hands, many of them seem to be hesitant to follow True Parent’s and Dae Mo Nim’s advice in their daily lives, as obediently as a small child. In particular, many middle-aged and older husbands in their 40s and above tend to resist throwing away old and familiar habits and avoid practicing completely new ones in their daily lives.

When we come to think of it, we Blessed couples have miraculously encountered the greatest father and teacher in human history who can teach us how to practice true love in our daily lives. Our True Parents have taught us how to attain the supreme happiness as a married couple, not only by words, but also by concretely showing us the best example (ideal model). We Blessed couples have the miraculous opportunity of inheriting the greatest heavenly fortune and happiness through our True Parents. Nonetheless, if we don’t practice their teachings about our conjugal life, the greatest heavenly fortune and happiness will fly away from us.

I recommend that all Blessed couples obediently practice these words by discarding old ideas and habits of the fallen, secularized world who loosely use their sexual organs and have multiple sexual partners without care. Those who cannot practice obediently due to their old inflexible ideas from this fallen world are unfaithful and foolish persons who have given up on the task of becoming a married couple of supreme happiness.  It is possible to have a happy, loving marriage centered on God.

Unless we married couples can become supremely happy couples and demonstrate a life-style as a genuinely happy couple, we will never succeed in witnessing to and converting others. Only when we really become supremely happy couples and manifest the life-style of a genuinely happy couple, can we succeed in witnessing to our neighbors in our surrounding communities as well as restoring the relatives in our clans in accomplishing our mission as a clan messiah. In the United States, the Mormon Church (Church of the Latter- day Saints) has now grown bigger than the Episcopal Church, which is affiliated with the Anglican Church of the United Kingdom.

The key to its success consists in the happy family-life of its members. Reportedly, a very small number of its members joined the Mormon Church because of its unique theology. The majority of its new members joined because they were attracted by the happy family-life of the Mormon Church members.

I used to be a typical Japanese man who was poor at expressing love. Nonetheless, thanks to my job as a professor in Unification ethics at Sun Moon University, and more recently at the CheongShim Graduate School of Theology, I have seriously researched and become very familiar with True Parent’s and Dae Mo Nim’s speeches on the practice of true love in our daily lives.

After collecting True Parent’s and Dae Mo Nim’s speeches on the practice of true love, I felt compelled to put them into practice.

By faithfully implementing such teachings, my wife and I felt so peaceful and happy that we soon made it a rule, for example, to hold each other’s hand while in bed before going to sleep and while watching TV together. My wife and I always felt very peaceful and happy feelings through holding each other’s hand. As a result, my wife and I always held each other’s hand whenever possible, because it felt very good. While she was still alive on earth, my wife repeatedly said to me, “It is my happiest time to have ‘pillow-talk’ while holding each other’s hand in bed.”

4. We should sleep naked together in one bed every night.

As for the “sleeping naked” part of the fourth daily-life habit, I will explain it extensively in another chapter of this book. There I will quote True Father’s original speech, “From tonight on, a husband and wife must sleep naked together,” to a great extent and explain its providential meaning, and related issues, through answering four questions on this daily-life habit.

Therefore, in this section, I just focus on the latter part of this fouth habit (“sleeping together in one bed”), and I will introduce Dae Mo Nim’s and True Parent’s words.

A husband and wife must sleep together under one quilt and live feeling in love with each other, just as couples do in Korea. But many married couples in Japan sleep in separate futons or beds. It is fundamentally wrong to sleep separately.

Also in another family, the husband used a back room, and the wife used a small room; they lived their lives separately under one roof. Such a life is really wrong. You all sometimes fight with your husbands, don’t you? Even when you fight, you must absolutely not sleep in a separate room by taking your pillow with you.

True Father also said, at the Cheongpyeong Training Center after the Pledge Service on True Children’s Day, in November 2006, “a husband and wife should sleep naked in one bed, not in two separate beds.”

You husbands and wives should completely take off your clothes and sleep naked together every night, embracing each other in one bed, not in two separate beds.  Then, is it possible for a husband and wife to quarrel every day? Is it possible for them to quarrel in the morning and sleep together at night?

It is impossible.

Although your husband’s snoring sound is very loud and noisy, a husband and wife should sleep together in one bed, even if they must use ear plugs, as a daily-life habit in the Era after the Coming of Heaven. The 3M Company in the United States invented very effective soundproof ear plugs for the astronauts of NASA, and they are on sale at a cheap price, even at the store at the Cheongpyeong Heaven and Earth Training Center.

Return Tomorrow for : How to Have the Happiest Marriage Part 2

Yoshihiko Masuda, PhD(Professor, CheongShim Graduate School of Theology

This book is in large part the English translation of my Japanese booklet

CheongShim GST University Press

Based on the Speeches of True Parents and Dae Mo Nim

Published by CheongShim GST University Press

Copyright

ⓒ 2010 by Yoshihiko Masuda

All Rights Reserved

Published in the Republic of Korea by CheongShim GST University Press

December Is Time Off!

 Achieve World Peace is only about four months old and it is time for a rest.  A nap doesn't last forever.  I enjoyed being able to learn more as I post each day and share to the world from South Africa, Germany, Russia and many other countries who read daily. 

During this break, I will be concentrating more on my divine inspiration-given novel which I plan to finish a  clean, viable draft by the end of December.  I will be able to catch and prepare for next year's post in advance.  And lastly during this time I will be able to concentrate more on the Divine Principle Bible Study topics that will begin December 15.  This hopefully will be more of a forum for a specific topic with more interaction with guest Divine Principle teachers and pastors answering questions.

So, far there is a live nationwide broadcast starting on that same day of a LIVE Divine Principal workshop.  If this happens I will post a link for that day and reminders before.

Well, please take this time if you are new here to catch up on posts on different topics, re-read or

please ask questions or make comments as I will still be able to answer.  See you December 15.  And you can leave ideas for topics you would like to see in the future.

See you Jan. 5 everyone and happy "every holiday you celebrate" until then.

Love Across the Board,
Denise Rochelle M.

Hunger Solution Update

I wrote several articles that the solution to the world's hunger problem was in the ocean, an article through fish and making a living to support family.

 

This catch this week is a grand example of how deep sea fishing can feed and support a person better than any farmland.

This thousand pounder tuna did not break the 1979 record, but the Daily Mail reports that this whopper will yield 20, 000 pieces of sushi and will be expected to be sold for more than $32,000 to a buyer in Japan.

Neil Cooke, who was with Towers, is quoted as saying: "It took Marc two hours to pull in, and we had started to see the shape of it when the skipper said, 'This could be a big fish.'