Four Worlds of Heart in Family

All the evidence from the previous posts show that there is something important for human development in the very structure of the family.

Reverend Sun Myung Moon summarizes that roles in the family create a certain 'realm of heart'. This heart fostered between the relationships between mother-father, parents-children, siblings, and God and family becomes a school for love.

People learn about love through being sons and daughters, brothers and sisters, husbands and wives, mothers and fathers.

“The family teaches by its form,” as educator Gabriel Moran explains it.

Each realm of heart reflects an aspect of God's love.

God is the Parent of all parents. He has the absolute love that surpasses the love of even model parents. With that love He can embrace all the parents of the world. In fact, God created man from His parental love.

Without that love from God, we die.

God is always ready to give the type of love that is best suited for the person who is seeking a relationship with Him.

If we are ready for parental love from God, He is prepared to give it. If we want brotherly love, conjugal love, or the love of a friend from Him, He is ready with these.

It is so amazing and wonderful that God who is a God of love protects us in every possible relationship

When we fulfill each realm of heart (children's realm, siblings realm conjugal realm, and the parent's realm) we grow to resemble God's many-faceted love.

Each type of love that is exhibited in the family forms a world of experiences and responsibilities that becomes a matrix for the growth of heart.

Lessons in Loving Others

The family works to school people to have other-centered love through providing crucial relationships to learn from. Each realm of heart involves relating to significant others or partners in love.

In the child's ream of heart, the parents become their most significant other. The sibling's realms of heart, their brothers/sisters and peers are increasingly significant. Within the spouse's realms of heart, one has a relationship with the opposite sex who are emotionally and physically committed for the rest of one's life.

Children are the significant other in the parent's realm of heart.

True love begins with the infant responding to a parent in the child’s realm of love.

A baby is not alone in the universe. He or she is compelled to bond with others by all the forces within.

Many theorists conclude that a baby's attachment to their parent is a necessary building block of relating to others with empathy for the rest of their life.

The quality of the interactions between a parent and child is an essential love relationship that gives each a lifelong perspective on others.

When brothers and sisters interact with their siblings, this realm of heart offers a new territory where the growing child must accommodate others. He or she now shares the parents' universe with their sibilings.

One learns they must not hurt their sibling but must wait their turn and share.

In turn, the relationship of brother and sister in the family can offer joy of companionship and expand each child's love into new dimensions.

When a child must cooperate with their playmates or children at school, issues of fair play, justice, and honesty come to the foreground as he or she learns that there are yet others who need respect and accommodations.

Through experiencing the sibling's realm of heart, a child begins to relate to the world of their peers. The repertoire they obtain through these relationship expand dramatically, as well as their heart for others in society as they mature.

Maturity brings the world of the opposite sex into sharp focus.

A newlywed couple often feel that they are the only two people in the world.

This is how rich the world or realm they occupy together. It is an exclusive, intensely exciting, deeply affecting circle of relationships in which each will learn to love someone who is truly their 'other'. 

They will experience a different emotion and mental make-up than with others they encounter.

When one becomes a parent, he or she enters a realm of relationship with a child that opens up a whole new world of loving and caring.

The parent's realm of love is perhaps the most transformative relationship that resembles the heart and love of God the most closely.

With their children, parents have a dependent 'other' who needs and demands more than anyone else has demanded in a lifetime. They must be attendant to their growth. As a parent, rewards and blessings are enormous as well as anxieties and emotional taxes.

The heart grows here earnestly through other-centered love.

Grandparent's love is an extension of the parent's realm of heart. This love has its own special gifts to bestow and receive from the grandparents.

When we grow and understand the inner workings of the family through experiencing these four realms of heart, we grow to appreciate the brilliantly designed vehicle of emotional, moral and spiritual growth.

The impact of your family does not stop within its own relationships either. The lessons one learns from their interactions in the family is profound and far-reaching. It extrapolates into a person's orientation toward the rest of the world.

Ethicist James Q. Wilson said, “The family is a continuing locus of reciprocal obligations that constitute an unending school for moral instruction . . . . We learn to cope with the people of this world because we learn to cope with the members of our family.”

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This post was rewritten and derived from the religious textbook “Educating for True Love” written by a team of writers to explain Reverend Sun Myung Moon's philosophy.

Where is the School of Love?

Why is it that something as love which is vital to human life as breathing, the ability to give and receive does not come to us naturally?

Rather, true love must be taught, learned and practiced. Humans spend many years as immature, dependent children who have to learn how to act in the world and then provide for themselves.

Schools, teachers, masters of trades and parents teach them skills, but there is no formal school or system that teach people how to love and be loved.

Left without instruction on the proper way to love centered on God, people are left floundering, having to learn about love through painful trial and error.

We have witnessed science and the arts flourish rapidly throughout the centuries, yet our wisdom about love and relationships grows slowly at best and unevenly.

Pitirim Sorokin, a sociologist at Harvard, expressed his chagrin at “our enormous ignorance of love’s properties, of the efficient way of its production, accumulation, and distribution.”

We are living the era to remedy all the love ails by studying about and educating for true love.

Even though to love and be loved properly is one of life's most daunting challenges =, it is essential more than any other aspect of life people work hard to achieve.

Psychiatrists have been visited by high-powered professional people who break down in their offices because they are at a complete loss when it comes to their most important personal relationships. 

Despite all of their qualifications and accomplishments politicians, business executives and celebrities find that their wealth, power and talent fail when they are faced with the demands of love.

Therefore, to study the true way of life begins with a life lived in true love. Only after people are well-versed in the nature and practices of true love will they find a path to follow that will satisfy the human longing for true love.

The most precious philosophy is to live for the sake of others.

—Sun Myung Moon

For people to live in love, they need to understand it.

It is utterly difficult to define love.

The ancient Greeks divided love into different categories, describing features of each.

For example, 'eros' was an impassioned romantic attraction; 'eunoia' stood for general benevolence or good will; 'xenlike' represented kindness to the guest or stranger; and 'agape' love which defined as an unselfish affection for others. 

Agape love became a keystone of Christianity. It is recognized by all the faiths of the world. Buddhism calls agape love 'compassion', Hinduism and 'human-hearedness' or jen in Confucian thought.

Additionally, there are all kinds of love found within the family:

There is devotion of parents toward their children, the children's affection which is reciprocated. Siblings care about one another in a unique special way, and there is the love between spouses which is a world in itself.

Grandparents have a profound regard for their grandchildren.

All these types of love have their distinct features.

There should be an all-around definition for love that encompasses all types of loves and form.

Reverend Moon states that true love is to live for the sake of other people. Within this definition, love that is not true is weeded out. Love that is deceptive and lead people to despair rather than joy are left out when defining what true love is.

True love is other-centered.

Why was humanity necessary?

We were created to completely fulfill His love. Love is the reason that humanity are the supreme creation.

True love only happens in relationship to others. Even God required an 'other' in order to fulfill His love.

God created humanity as His love partners who will share in the glory of His creation.

Even though God is almighty, He needed an object, someone to share in the creation with. God also needs a relationship in order to experience love fully.

If God is so, so must be His creatures.

As author Sherwood Anderson said, “Two oddly sensitive human atoms” find one another, cling together and think, “Here is this other.”

A love that satisfies is only possible when in the presence of another person. The Bible emphasizes the love others in the presence of others. The Old Testament testifies to the greatest commandments which were to love God and love one's neighbor as one loves themselves.

Jesus echoed this truth by telling his followers to not come to the altar of God if they quarrel with their brother in their heart. They had to set things right between their 'brother' before approaching God.

Jesus later pronounced that God only forgives those who forgives others.

Jesus told his people that when two or more were gathered in his name he would be present. He was implying the need for believers to seek communion not only with God, but with one another as well.

Loving others is always in couplet with loving God well.

The prophet Muhammad stated that on the day of judgment, God the most high will say, “Son of Adam, I was sick and you did not visit Me.” 

The son replied how could he visit the Lord when he was the Lord of the Universe. God replied, “Did you not know that My servant such and such was ill and yet you did not visit him? Did you not know that if you had visited him you would have found Me with him?”

Russian thinker Vladimir Solovyov said that love “forces us with all our being to acknowledge for another the same absolute central significance which, because of the power of our egoism, we are conscious of only in our selves . . . shifting the very center of our personal lives.”

Reverend Moon refers this shifting of center from self to others as a 'revolution'. He holds that such a revolution toward true love is necessary for happiness and peace in the world.

Modern culture says that love is a spontaneous feeling within a person's heart toward one another when in fact, ethics figure prominently in successful and loving relationships.

Upon further examination, it is shown that ethics enable true love and love that is based on feelings alone is dangerous.

If a man feels that he has truly fallen in love with another woman, he will leave his wife and children for her. He will leave emotional devastation in his wake in the pursuit of false feelings.

A teacher may feel that they are romantically attracted to a young student and end up causing psychological damage to the student for life when they approach them sexually.

Psychologist M. Scott Peck points out, “Many, many people possessing a feeling of love and even acting in response to that feeling act in all manner of unloving and destructive ways.”

In order to benefit the other, true love adheres to ethical principles.

Even though a truly loving person does not feel benevolent feelings toward another person, he will behave benevolently to someone based upon principles.

Such a person will be kind to a spouse even when the other is being surly because the person believes in kindness even when the other is not evoking such feelings.

Such a person believes in preserving and protecting marriage itself.

A person who helps a homeless man on the street is a person who believes in treating one's fellow human beings with compassion even if society does not see such a person as reputable.

To love a person who has harmed others means having a belief that all people can be redeemed, including the reprobate.

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This post was rewritten and derived from the religious textbook, Educating for True Love, Chapter 1 written by a team of writers to explaining Dr. Rev. Sun Myung Moon's thoughts on morality, society and Family.

Whispers of Love can Cool Hatred in the World

The invisible God is precious because invisible love is precious.



Reverend Sun Myung Moon







In order to find God, we have to enter a state of complete absence of ego.



God lives deeply and quietly in the invisible world rather than in the visible world where we live.

If we were to observe the love in America, we can say it looks very hot, but it is actually lukewarm.


Americans kiss each other every morning like a fly touching the skin and then it flies away.


Traditionally, Oriental couples on the other hand stare at each other before kissing and then they both drop their head slightly due to shyness.


This is a beautiful scene that is comparable to one of the greatest masterpieces.


It is a mysterious scene when a wife carries a husband's suitcase with her loving heart to see him off before a business trip. But most American women do not even turn their heads or leave the room to see their husband's off.


This is why many Orientals who know the Western lifestyle do not want to marry an American woman.


The conversation between a loving couple is more beautiful than any poem or picture in the world.


Words have such beauty such as, “between lovers,” “between ourselves,” or “you and me”!


When God blesses human beings, He creates an environment where the couple can be happy. A couple who enters the door of such prepared blessing don't fight with one another right away.



Once they enter the door of love, they are too busy exchanging whispers such as, “I've been waiting to meet you for a long time. 

My life will bloom with the blossom of value through you. I was born to love you and waited to love you until this moment.” There is nothing sweeter than the confidential talk of love.


A loving married couple's whispers of love are more effective to cool off any fatigue and the hatred in the world.

A couple shouldn't demand love forcibly from each other.

Love is natural, so the talk of love in confidence is soft and beautiful.


Once the wife knows such a love, she is stimulated to take a nap in her husband's lap because she is so addicted to this happiness. She will not be able to control her heart.


But before the wife married her husband, the man looked creepy and scary, but her heart changes rapidly after marriage.


She will do whatever it takes to be as much with her husband as she can. For example, she will encourage him to come home to see her during his lunch break. 

 Likewise, once a man knows such a love, he also wants to sleep in his wife's lap whenever he finds leisure time. So, he rushes home during his coffee break or at lunch time.



After a couple of love marries, the man will do whatever the wife wants without hesitation - even things he formerly thought traditional were the duties of women.


How do a woman and man who meet through God as the mediator express their love?


This is the developmental process of love: love is first expressed by the mouth, second by the breasts and third through the sexual organ.


Before making love, the woman hides her mouth because of her shyness because love starts from kissing.

As love matures, sons and daughters are born as the fruit of love.

The woman's holy place of love is her sexual organ.


The husband should hold the only key to the door of his wife's love. If the husband holds two keys to the holy place, then he is Satan. A wife's holy place should only be opened by her husband. If it can be opened by any other key, then the woman is Satan.


When a husband opens his wife's holy place of love, then the most precious and valuable children will be born from there.

The children are the crystals of love.

When human beings have a child, they are able to have the same experience which God exhibited during the process of creating Adam and Eve, His first children.


Because the baby is the incarnation of both their parent's flesh and love, a baby looks cute all of the time.


It doesn't matter if the child has a runny nose, is urinating or defecating, all of these actions are soaked in love.

A couple whose relationship is based on a strong force of love, no matter what action they take, it looks joyful and lovely.



If a woman complains about her husband's body smell or the husband complains about his wife's gestures, we can tell that this is not a perfect love between this couple. Such a couple relate to one another based on what the other can gain from the relationship.


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This Post was rewritten and derived from the religious textbook Blessing and Ideal Family Part 2.

Your Parents Are Your False Parents

No matter how old some people get, they still carry the wounds of the occurrences that happened to them at home where they grew up.

Whether it was because their parents were not there for them, they suffered mental abuse that disabled their minds for life or they were physically abused or watched their parents' evil behavior, the wounds stay fresh all the way into adulthood.

What wrongs a parent does to a child, the damage can be difficult for the survival of a healthy mind to flourish in that environment.

Many abandon God, were not raised with morals, or follow the wrong path that was set forth by their parents.

How can God allow children to grow up in such a way?  There is a reason.

If we look back to the beginning of human history, at the very first parents who carried the life and spirit of God within them, then take a look at their family, there the mystery of the why the world is the way it is today can be answered.

Humanity severing their ties with God in the beginning is the cause of all human suffering.

True Parents is a term that has appeared for the first time.

For God's will to be realized, a world of peace, true parents must come, and reverse the mistakes of fallen parents.

You find True Parents from a position of having thought about it.  This term has never appeared in history and is appearing for the first time.

A revolution does not compare with this fact.  The time that the True Parents live on the earth is a miraculous and great event, unprecedented in history.

The fact that you know the words True Parents and say the word 'true' means they have appeared with the love that surpasses the love of all the billions of parents who have come and passed away until now.

True Parents have been long awaited since the first parents of humankind who had spirit (Bible states that God breathed life into Adam).  Yet, had turned away from God in the Garden of Eden.

True Parents' love cannot come into existence more than once.  They have returned in the Last Days, the Completed Testament Age, and reversed the mistake of the fallen first parents.

They have the name 'true' because they have such a standard.

Their love relationship has the highest standard.

Satan knew that once the price was paid in the course of history through countless people of faith and saints shedding blood, sweat and tears to bring True Parents to the earth, he would be completely defeated.

Satan throughout history has been trying to prevent that time from coming.

Jesus was sent to not just be a true example of a brother and Son, but a True Parent along with his True Family that carried the unfallen blood lineage of God.

Lucifer as the false parent (since Adam and Eve believed in his word instead of God), has tried to prevent this through sacrificing countless people making them pay a price of blood by any means.

Satan has tried to uphold this philosophy through sacrificing believers who tried to uphold this philosophy and follow the path as individuals, family, nation and world.

We should truly recognize how terrible the price in blood was paid by our ancestors who were sacrificed.  Countless brothers and sister who sought only goodness, who dreamed of a world of peace and pursued the way of truth and the path to the True Parents.

The appearance of True Parents is the greatest news in human history.

Where do you have to go to find an Utopian world?  You must go through the realm of family love.  Without reaching that level, you have no place else to go.

The way was opened from which to go back and forth between spirit and the physical world over a bridge of love.  The Principle explains that these two are distinct realms as God created them.  How can we make them one?

This is only possible through true love.  The only way they become one is when humans reach spiritual maturity.  Then, when they embrace, saying, "Oh, you are my partner," true love appears at the center of that couple.

When positively charged love appears in perfection, negatively charged love is bound to appear immediately. When positively charged love comes down to negatively charged love and they engage, they determine the standard of true love. Then it is complete.

When true love appears, everything follows automatically. 

True love is the only element that works for everything.

This is how this world will be converted into an Utopian sphere.

So, where does true love start?

It starts from True Parents.

This is the gospel of all the gospels. Although there are good words and phrases in the world, and husband and wife are good words, there is no news better than the arrival of the True Parents.

A true husband and wife will not appear in the fallen world without True Parents appearing first spreading their message of truth.

They will not just appear in history.  The True Family is the result of experiencing the deepest sorrow of all sorrows, enduring the hardest of all hardships and paying the highest blood and sacrifice of all such payments through the course of history.

This is such a miserable indemnity condition that had to be made in history.  This price was made through people's death throughout the course of history and will be redeemed when the True Family is established.

When they appear on earth, this should be a cause for unparalleled joy and value.  For a true family to come about, there have to be True Parents.

A true husband and wife must emerge at the same time as True Parents.  They become a true couple and must give birth to true children.  These True Parents should have no condition that permits Satan to accuse them or their family.

The Bible states to be careful with your every action because Satan is waiting at the door for you to invite him in.

They should not make a base for Satan to accuse them of behaving in a manner unlike God.  The children born in a true family cannot be the sons and daughters of a true family if they leave behind a condition to be accused by the satanic world.

Nobody in history had thought of the title as True Parents, but you are using the words today.  You are in the glorious position to know their name, attend them and their teachings.  You are in a happier and nobler position than anyone who ever lived in history.

Those who sought True Parents, cried and hoped for their coming offered a tremendous amount of sacrifice and work to lay the foundation for their Victory.

When you consider the history, then you should know that the words portend the greatest blessing for humankind today.

Saints and good people of the world for thousands of years, hoped for the arrival of the parents who could lead us toward a world of peace beginning on the individual level.

History is being brought under control through the True Parents.  They are the starting point of our advancement toward a new world.

Who in history has been able to bring a solution to all of humanity's problems and reverse the cause at its roots?

They lay the conditions that we can use to subjugate Satan.  The central couple can liberate God from His anguish by conquering Satan, who is occupying the external world under the mask of True God.

You should be thankful of the amazing grace to be living together with the True Parents.

Therefore, you should be thankful for this grace while you receive and carry out their instructions.  If there is a way you can align yourself to their path, there should be nothing that makes you happier.

If a soldier marches toward an enemy camp based on True Parents' command, then they are a holy soldier standing on the highest summit of hope desired by humankind.  This will draw history's attention.

If you fight on behalf of the Parents' heart or on behalf of the nation and people, this heart will enable the nation and people to open the gate of the garden of happiness for the first time.

If you are in the position to fight on behalf of True Parents' heart or on behalf of the nation and people, this heart will enable the nation and people to open the gate of the garden of happiness for the first time. 

You are the flag bearers who can revive the violent, sorrowful history and judge the world of death again.

The nation and people of hope who can march in and join in the glory of victory will appear.

The future Secured Through True Parents

The title of True Parent we use is a great one.  The Principle's content is very deep.  It gives meaning and confidence to the future.

We should unite.

You should not become one with you at the center.  Nor should you become one with your family at the center by pulling in True Parents.

You should be pulled by True Parents.

You should not be pulled just by yourself, but take your parents, husband or wife together with you.  Moreover, you should take your children and even your material possessions.  You should become one in this way.

The value of True Parents

There has been many positions in history.  But this is the most valuable one, the position of True Parents.  Parents without any condition for Satan to attack.

It could be likened to a world where fathers were like Jesus and mother's were like Mary giving birth to sinless children.

It is the central point where God's ideal world is realized.

All the saints have fought for that foundation.  God and all the spirits in spirit world consider it important.  So, should we also understand its importance.

The point before the fall, heaven on earth cannot be exchanged even for thousands of pieces of land.  It cannot be exchanged for a diamond as wide as a stretch of land.  You would not be able to buy it even if you offered the United States to God as a sacrificial offering.

How miserable humanity has been for not being able to see it.  God, spirits and all people must be focused on this.  To look at history from this point of view, there has not be any true history that connects with this.

True Parents, is the place before the Fall, before the birth of sin.

There can be no fall in history after it has been restored.

We should be happy that a new beginning starts from this point.

From here, the center of everything, the substance of everything and the result of everything will begin from here.  Those who participate in this will be the first winners on earth.

We start forming a family that is fully centered on God's love.

We can defeat the sovereignty of Satan and build a new, heavenly kingdom on earth.  Moreover, the fruits of history will emerge from this point.  The accumulation of sacrifices and shedding of blood for God's sake will finally be harvested.

It is the start point of the future; the center point of the entire world.

The culmination of the past history will occur, the fulfillment of present history will be preserved and the completion of the future world of peace will begin.

If you take in this point, this place, you will be the conqueror of everything.

How great is the value after knowing this?

This place has to be the highest place in history.  You will love, praise and respect it and come to like it.

All the great people who ever existed in history cannot compare with this.  When you see it, you will surely be deeply moved by joy.

Every time you think of such an original place as this this position, you will have the feeling of dancing in a dream while you were asleep.

You will be able to dance even during your sleep.  Your heart should be drawn to this pure place more than any other places, your life or anything else.  You should want to see it, touch it and feel that you cannot live without it.

Adam turned reality into a non-reality by saying, "Yes" to something that God said "No" to.

For this reason, without acknowledging a current non-reality(world peace) as a reality again, it will not be possible to regain the original standard.

If one physically resolve all problems on their road to become True Parents they brighten heaven and earth, and resolves the complex issues of history and remove the nail embedded in God's heart.  

When true love is liberated, results in rejoicing, dancing, and laughing while embracing and loving these sons and daughters.

Great shouts of victory will rise up from every being.  They experience tremendous joy throughout all of creation and heaven and earth.

Within the ideal of creation, there is a heart that cannot be expressed in words.  We each should realize this heart on the road to perfecting himself and bring the devil to surrender.

Adam should be the sovereign of liberation.  True Adam is the ruler of all nations, the master of salvation, and the one who can be the first son among all brothers and sisters.

We should be grateful

What is the best way to offer our gratitude to God and True Parents?  To our church? How do we show gratitude for being created?

After the process I have been through, a true family will appear. At the next stage, a true tribe will appear, and at the next stage, a true nation, then a true world, a true universe, and a true cosmos; at the next stage up, God appears. 

This is our final goal.

Humankind for countless of generations received Satan's blood lineage after the fall.  This is the problem.  Instead of receiving God's lineage, humankind received Satan's blood lineage filled with sin.

How can we eliminate this satanic lineage?

How do we eliminate the dirty lineage Adam and Eve inherited from the Fall?

True Parents come to our age with true love, true life and God's true blood lineage in order to eliminate the Fall through using those in Satan's lineage, they have been raising up.

In this new age, the body will mature based on God's love, life and lineage.  It will use true love as fertilizer.  One side will disappear and the other prospers.  At that point, God is present and Satan is separated away forever.  This is a time for rejoicing.

No one knows the pain that is in God's heart.

Through the True Parent revelation, we have come to know the sorrow of God's heart due to His being separate from His children.  Otherwise, we would not know it.

This is truly amazing affirmation that even Jesus did not know.  Even if he did know it, he was not able to relay exactly what was in his heart due to the disciples not able to understand his most basic teachings.

There also has never been any religious leader who could understand this hidden secret of the universe.

I have come here before the world to reveal the secrets of the universe for the first time in history. From now on, we should turn our direction from the individual foundation to the national foundation. 

If the leader of a nation repents of his past wrongdoings, God forgives him.

This is part of God's new tradition and signals a new lineage.  Otherwise, there is no way we can separate from Satan.

This also signifies the changing from the sinful lineage humanity inherited to a new lineage directly connected to God that takes place in the Unification Church through the Marriage Blessing Ceremony given by True Parents.

For the first time, humanity can have a true marriage tying their family to God's blood lineage.

Humanity had connected to a dirty blood lineage and things in the satanic world because of the Fall.  Now we can be connected to God's true love, life and lineage horizontally.

This is a complete 180 degree conversion.

The hope we seek is not in America or this world because they are connected to the satanic side.

All the people of the world have followed the most wickedest of parents on the satanic side since the beginning.

Now for the first time, that direction has been completely turned around. 

We are at zero point.

Now we are in the place where there is no meaning, no concept, no tradition and no culture.  This is re-creation.

When God first created man by combining soil, water and air, humans did not have any fixed concepts.  It was zero point.

Today, we are turned completely around from the satanic tradition and are becoming completely reborn.

This means to be born again in the truest sense, not just spiritually, but physically.

The first to accomplish getting rid of the satanic bloodline are the parents on the individual level, not the nation first.  Brothers and sisters are next.  Husband and wife are third and the children are fourth.

God wants three generations, but has never had them before this time.

The first generation is God, the second generation is Adam and Eve, yet God never had the third generation before this time.  Humankind has not multiplied under God, but has belonged to Satan who is an enemy of love.

How can we eliminate this fallen lineage?

To recognize the new world of peace which the world is headed, you must recognize that you are not born American or Japanese, but as one of God's people.

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Chapter 6 True Parents and Us from the book Cheon Seong Gyeong Book Two

Everybody Wants True Love

Does this seem like a false statement?  Is it possible that even a criminal, a mob boss or a seemingly heartless person deep down wants love?

All of the worlds problem can be solved through true love.

Where does this love begin?  It would begin in the family as two individuals mature in love , come together and bear their fruit of love expanding it on the family level.  Family is the textbook for love.  This level expands to the society, nation and the world.


Every human no matter how evil they may appear to be, wants true love.

Reverend Moon had tapped into the truth of the world's major headaches and found the root and cause of these problems. He explains the topic of True love in his following speech:

"Respected religious leaders, I am truly grateful that so many of you have taken time out of your busy schedules to gather here for the Fourth True Family Values Ministry Awards Banquet.

Ladies and Gentlemen, what is the most important thing that we need more than anything else?

It is not money, power or knowledge. It is true love. True love is more precious than life itself and more important to us than air or water.

Why is true love so precious and important? It is because it is the means by which we can meet God. Just as human beings desire to meet God, God also wants to meet true human beings because of love.

The love by which God can see, touch and share with men and women at the same time, is the love by which men and women love each other.

If anything other than love were to be recognized as the most valuable thing in the universe, men and women would fight each other to try to claim it for themselves.

Once we realize that love is the highest value, however, we can strive to live for each other and become one with each other, sharing the happiness of possessing love together.



Everyone desires love. 

Love is the only thing that can satisfy all human desires. It is humankind’s, and God’s, unfailing attraction to love that makes God’s providence of salvation possible. Fundamentally, love belongs to God. Yet even God cannot possess love all by Himself. Love requires a mutual relationship. A man by himself or a woman by herself cannot experience love.

Women exist for the sake of men’s love and men exist for the sake of women’s love. Regardless of external appearance, in our heart each of us desires a mate with whom we can give and receive the highest level of love.

When we examine the universe, we see that all beings exist in pairs relating to one another as subject and object. In the mineral world, we observe the relationship of plus and minus. In the plant world, the animal world and the world of human beings, we see the relationship between masculine and feminine.

This is because God created the universe in order to fulfill the expression of love. All beings desire the experience of true love through a mutual relationship. Love is the one power in the universe that absolutely no one can possess by himself.

Once we have a partner, however, love gives us the power to share the entire universe. Likewise, a husband and wife need children in order to experience the profound joy of parental love.

Thus, we can say that God created human beings and the universe as His reciprocal partners in order to bring about true love. All types of love -- including love of children, love of siblings, love of husband and wife, and love of parents -- come about through the unity of subject and object partners.

When two partners become one in true love, it is impossible to separate them. If for any reason separation occurs, true love is destroyed. Therefore, in true love there is no concept of divorce.

When a man feels love, the feeling is not generated on its own. The feeling awakens in his heart because of a particular woman. Likewise, the fire of love is kindled in the heart of a woman not by herself alone but by the man she loves.

In other words, our love belongs to our partner. Thus, we should honor our partner’s love as being even more precious than our love.

True love comes through both horizontal and vertical reciprocal relationships. A horizontal relationship of true love is gradually elevated in a vertical direction until it eventually reaches the pinnacle. This pinnacle is the position of the "King and Queen of True Love." We are born for the sake of love, live for the sake of love, and finally die for the sake of love.


Adam and Eve's False Love

God’s ideal was for one couple, Adam and Eve, centering on true love, to become the seed from which all the world’s families, clans, nations and, finally, the multitudinous citizenry of the Kingdom of Heaven would be descended. Citizens of the Kingdom of Heaven can be created only in accordance with God’s tradition of true love.

In all creation, the most precious entities are human beings -- men and women.

Furthermore, the most precious part of the human body is not the nose, the eyes, the hands, or even the brain. It is the sexual organs, the main organs of love. Everything in the universe can be recreated through the sexual parts.

Most living things -- whether plants or animals -- multiply through sex.

The most precious and outstanding family begins with a husband and wife who are one with each other. Our love organs are the main sanctuary of life, occupying a position of incredible value where blood lineage and history are connected. God’s fundamental principle is to create through male and female.

For a man and woman to share absolute love, however, they should have only one partner. We must not have two or more partners, but only one, eternally.

There is absolutely only one man for each woman and one woman for each man. That is why God did not create two Adams or two Eves. Tragically, in the world today we see children who have had as many as ten stepfathers. How false and degraded love has become!

When men and women uphold and preserve chastity, they are protecting the universe. The discipline of love between men and women is the foundation of the universe. We must not abuse our love as if we were animals. Our love can only have one owner. The word "true" in "true love" does not allow for the possibility of more than one partner. There can be only one. This is an absolute law.

Not just anyone can say they have 'true love'. Only God can really love with true love, and only God absolutely owns true love. God’s true life, God’s true lineage, and God’s true conscience emerges from true love. In this way, the most fundamental essence of God is true love.


God’s Children

We are created as God’s children. As we grow in love, relating to brothers and sisters, becoming husbands and wives, giving birth and raising children, God is present each step of the way, harvesting true love. God observes and guides us as we develop, and He becomes the owner of love at each stage.

In this sense, it can be said that human beings, through whom God comes to own all love, are more precious to God than He is to Himself. In the same way, we attach a thousand times more value to the person we love than to ourselves. God invests Himself for those He loves and then forgets this investment.

Then he invests again and again. In the same way, a wife who wants her husband to be a success invests herself in her husband and then forgets this investment.

By investing herself and forgetting, she enables him to achieve his full potential in life. When we as partners continue to invest in each other and forget, the level of our love is elevated, and we will ultimately find ourselves connected to God. This is how we can fulfill our parent-child relationship with God and have eternal life.

Everyone wants to go to heaven, but those whose attitude is "Everyone should live for me," will not get there. True love begins with embracing and living for the sake of all God’s masterpieces of creation. The way we can reach heaven is to live for all humankind and ultimately for God.

Again, the ideal family and ideal nation are the places where all of us -- as parents, children, couples, brothers and sisters, and nations -- want to establish ownership of true love. From there, eternal world peace will emerge, the Kingdom of God on Earth will dawn, and the Kingdom of God in Heaven will blossom.

Beginning from the year 2000, in every corner of the globe, countless blessed families united with the Parents of Heaven and Earth will initiate a new family revolution and worldwide moral revolution, centering on true love. God is longing to see the eternal ideal Kingdom of God built on Earth as well as in Heaven. Let us join in this holy task. May God’s blessing be abundant upon you and your family."SMM


Return for Tomorrow's Post: True Love is Center of God's Desire

This post was derived from the Religious Book: 40 Years in America

Men, Women Misuse Love Root of Evil

When we look at the situation in the world and all of the problems, we realize that they all stem from men and women problems!  When men and women can mutually come together, all problems can be solved easily.

How is it that this could be the answer to all problems?

If we look backwards from a nation, a nation is made up of a society.  Well, you can't have a society without families.  Families begin with a man and woman coming together to produce children. 

The lack of unity within one family creates problems which are spread into society and throughout the world.  Man and woman cannot live emotionally well without each other.

For one to live well they need to gain knowledge to learn how to live and they need emotion which triggers happiness.

Which quality is more important - emotion or intellect?  After God finished each day of creation, He would finish by saying it was good.  This is because His emotions were stimulated and He experienced joy in seeing the completion of His ideal.  Any artist who has a plan for what they will create experiences joy to finally behold the final product and share it with the world.

"All the problems of the World will end when men and women come to together in harmony. Problems cannot be resolved on the world level or through social programs. It is the family problem that needs to be resolved. If that is accomplished all "world problems" and "social problems" will be resolved." SMM

We see that revolutions arise to improve a society's situation, but in the case of the realm of Heart, there cannot be a revolution.  True love is unchanging. 

What makes a family happy?  When every member is united in heart.  The family's emotional state is important for a happy society.


Mind And Body Problems

You cannot establish World Peace by force. World Peace starts in the family. In your own family you can see many problems. Beginning with the Grand Parents, the Parents and all relatives we can recognize that all have individual problems. All these problems relate back to the lack of mind and body unity centered on God.

What will bring about World Peace?  Can war solve all the world's problems?  Dictators of Communist countries believe forcing their citizens to obey their laws brings unity of a nation.  

World Peace will never be established by force. 

Where is the beginning point of World Peace: in your own family, where you see many problems.  The individual problems of a family stem from the grandparents and can be recognized through observing the parents and all relatives.

Which problem is found in every family member?  Everything relates to the mind and body problem. The problem of the struggle between the Godly mind and the satanic body.  This is true for the husband's side and the wife's side of the family totaling 16 people with this inherited problem of the fall. 

Even if one individual person was to eradicate sin, such as Jesus, it cannot bring World Peace.

World of Peace

Why did God not create a world full of love without sin?  One must first understand the deeper context of the Fall of Man in order to see why God cannot not stop sin. 

All problems in the world begin with you, I and me!  I must resolve my individual problem first before I begin a family.

People who say, "I'll do whatever I want as long as it does not hurt anybody, it's okay".  This is not freedom.  There is no freedom unless the Mind and the Body are united.  If a person thinks they are free by being loose, just freely having sex with several partners a week, living only for themselves, or obeying every pleasure the bodies wish, freedom laughs at such a person.  This person thinks rules belong to the others.

 "A building can only be built on plain level ground. When your mind is always fighting your body, you are up and down and go through peaks and valleys. This takes much of your energy and you can not build a proper life for yourself. Because you are constantly fighting a war there is no motivation to do anything else."

After women shouted for equal rights and freedoms, they always say that they are higher than men.  Women who continue this way cannot progress.
 

Abide By Natural Law

If women are on top of men, it is against the Principle.  Women have switched positions and dominate the husband and the family.  Society must correct this trend, it cannot be ignored.  We must abide by the natural law before we can prosper.

What would the world be like if it was made up of only men and no women?  Many men would not want to walk the street at night out of fear.  What if it was made of only women?  The gossiping and rumors would be out of control! A world without either men and women would be a world of chaos.

Love Order

The world comes into order because, everyone goes home at night because of love of a man or woman.  If there are a million men in love with a million women, there is no problem no matter how many men and and women in love are out on the street.

The reason for marriage is to set up a prototype for God.  God needs a perfect individual then a perfect family in which He can directly relate.  There can only be one such family, if there are two prototypes for a family, this means one of them is false.

"God must have a man and woman prototype. Man represents Heaven and woman represents Earth. Earth and Heaven can come together into unity when man and woman who both have united mind and body come together. That will create True Peace."

 The same is true for man.  First, every individual should obtain mind and body unity.  It is not good for a woman to go to her husband to find unity of mind and body.



Which Woman Here Is Perfect?

Who has ever met a perfect woman.  Everyone has met a woman who believed she was perfect, correct?  Even though no woman has become perfect based on God's ideal, people claim 'my' children, 'my' husband without being the standard of a True Mother or wife.

Satan came and destroyed the standard of families and made the whole world hell.  Now, we are living in the time where everything will be restored.  It is God's time.

The whole established world is our enemy. Immorality, homosexuality and incest is destroying America. Love and Emotion have become degraded because of free sex. Emotions have been completely wiped out. That is why there is wide spread alcohol and drug abuse. If you use drugs, you are like a car that is being crushed. People do not even know that satan is behind all of their activity and believe they are practicing freedom..

AIDS can be good if it discourages free sex.  There is wide spread individualism in this nation. Individualism means that I do not need my grand parents, parents, clan, nation and world. After a while suicide will be the only way out.

The Second Coming restores the first parents mistake by becoming True Parents.  True Paremts reveals satan's work throughout history.  Those who oppose satan in these last days must be on God's side.  Satan works through communism and must follow the Messiah.  The Kingdom of Heaven on Earth begins when the  Messiah sets this standard for man.


Return for Tomorrow's Post: The Cooperation of True Husband and Wife


This text was rewritten and derived from the textbook: New Families and the Completed Testament based upon the Divine Principle authored by Reverend Sun Myung Moon.

My Family's Christmas Miracle

I experienced a miracle after seven years of learning the deep teachings of the Divine Principle and God wants me to share a lot lately that is very personal and hard for me, but I have to learn how to step out of the way of His message.  Someone reading this either will laugh at it, understand or learn from it.

If this was the only miracle that has happened in the last year with my family then maybe it would not stand out so much, but it is just the icing and the most recent.  Once a cheater always a cheater they say, but when God puts His love on it, then it can change anyone.

I'll give you a little background and maybe this event will have more significance. 

My uncle and aunt of course in center, his
grandchildren, daughter, 2 sons and brother are on my
dad's side, the Morris'

March of 2010 I moved back to the countryside of deep south Arkansas with 200 population and most of it family.  Both my mother and father's side live within a three mile radius. That's aunts, cousins and up to fourth cousins on both sides and everywhere.  I moved back because God called me back to witness what I have learned for 5 years in California and that was I had been awaken to the Messiah walking the earth and the Divine Principle.  That's a story in itself and the teachings I share on my blog.  His name is Reverend Sun Myung Moon, performs mass weddings, which my WHOLE family was trying to get me out because they thought I was part of a cult and so may you, but they ALL have changed their mind.

What the teachings profess is that Jesus was meant to accomplish more of his mission which was to marry, have children and leave God's pure blood lineage on the earth, but because he did not have anyone who truly followed him in the end, he had to go the second route of the cross to save us.  Jesus comes back to accomplish this and to bring his lineage to this earth and to reverse the beginning of sin that occurred in the Garden of Eden between a man and woman and he was to reverse it as a true man to marry his true bride.  Thus, the Marriage Supper of the Lamb.  This prophecy was fulfilled in our time. 

In short, God had an original ideal of Heaven on Earth before Adam and Eve had disbelieved in His command and were vanished from the Garden of Eden which caused you and me to be born outside of God's protective realm ... thus we have sin perpetuated nonstop throughout history.

I say all of this to give you why my VERY strong christian family were adamant that I was following the wrong way.  But, they can't deny it now because I'm still standing, and they see that I have grown and that there is a change between us all. 

Especially with this latest event.

I believe with the teaching of the Divine Principle, which I share and take more than three hours a day to prepare dozens of material for different avenues online to share the news, I have been witnessing miracles not only within my family, but with every single person who has supported me even with a smile.  Friends, families, associate have been flooded with new jobs after years of searching, marriages after long engagement, cures to diseases, high exposure for their new book, people getting back together etc.  Everyone except me.  This is my sacrifice, "live for the sake of others" is Rev. Moon's biggest motto. 

My father, one of the healthiest men I know, found out last February at 60 he had Prostate cancer even though he just had a check up 6 months ago.  They said if he had waited 6 more months for his annual check up it would have been too late.  So, I flew out to North Carolina and not only am I in love with my father now, forgave him for the past and know him better than ever because of this, he is alive and recovered weeks early without the use of any pain medication.

Then today I just came from a wedding.  Big deal right?  Well, if you knew the story it is.  Right when I came back almost three years ago, I had found out my aunt and uncle had separated after over 20 years of marriage.  I started going to my cousin's church which he was a pastor down the street and supported him as much as possible, which they couldn't understand because for some reason they thought my 'cult' didn't believe in Jesus.  Family from both side of my parent's attended this church.  I felt like Jesus with all of the damn resistance I had with every single person about my belief that the Messiah had returned..

Too long of a story on that, but long story short, my aunt told me she left the house a year ago because he was cheating on her.  At that time, I just knew that with the teachings of restoring the family that God originally planned, and all of the work of reversing our family's history of going in the wrong direction that it was possible for this situation to change. I had at that time been working hard with God and through the direct teachings of the professed Messiah to reverse my family's wrong path.

I told her give him a year and he would return.  Well, it became worse.  He actually left his house sold it and moved in with this woman and her family.  Well, to tell you how hickish my family is, this other woman is on my mother's side - the other woman's sister is married to my mother's brother, my uncle on my mother's side.

I didn't grow up like this, I never lived around family ever until this time.  I grew up in a different world, I came back here for a purpose, so this is like foreign to me as well.

Anyway, I told her one time when we went out to eat alone together that I was sorry for getting her hopes up, I thought it was going to happen after the two year mark and I don't understand why he is still with her with all the prayer and conditions of faith.

Well, my uncle is my blood uncle on my father's side so he told me to pray for him.  All the time.  I told my aunt that the other woman's family was from Louisiana and into voodoo which I heard straight from my uncle's wife on my mother's side.  Crazy stuff when I write this. Meaning he was with this woman because of the occult.  And they think I AM into some crazy stuff.  But they told Jesus the same; that they said that he was doing his works with the help of the devil.

So, I prayed and talked to them both separately in confidence. I remember the stories from my aunt when I would Facebook her on the holidays and she would tell me I was the only one who said anything to her that day.  She was so lonely!  She didn't date, she went to restaurants alone and even said a waitress asked her why she was alone and the waitress was ashamed after she told her, her story of her husband leaving.  But never did my aunt have any bad words to say about my uncle *unlike my mother about my father.

One main reason why I returned to the south is what Rev. Moon says: Be a Tribal Messiah to your family, tribe and to return them to God.  I had written a 400 page book for my family of a fictional account of my spiritual experiences being visited by ancestors who had done bad things in the past and we are paying for their sins. 

They actually read it and even said that one character I fictionalized had that exact same name, and even misspelled the name the same way and was just like her even though I never heard about her before or lived in the same time frame.  Well, my family is with God, but they don't know him without the Completed Testament (Divine Principle is not an addition to the bible it is based of the Old testament and New Testament) which tells us the hidden messages of the bible and the why and how of war and sin on the earth and finally, how it is being eradicated.  So, merely that the Messiah comes to take his people to the clouds is false, God always wanted to restore the earth, not kill everybody and just save a few.  Who knew?

Long story short, my uncle's mother, my last grandparent, died two months ago and just before that my uncle had made peace with her and God.  He was deemed the black sheep and had just came back home along with his heart to my grandmother days before he found her on the ground moaning after she fell out from her stroke and went into a coma until she had to be unplugged.

At her funeral he sung a song where he could barely finish because he was singing thank you Jesus,God because he was supposed to be dead and he is back in the Lord's arm.

Well TODAY, a few hours ago he just was REmarried on my grandmother's birthday to his wife after leaving her four years ago.

Right after the ceremony and before the picture taking, my uncle said something that was amazing because I never told him how I felt about him leaving.  I hugged him and told him that I prayed for him all the time.  He said that, "I know.  I know this is what you always wanted for a long time." He looks so much like my dad, I just hugged him and then he added, "Only God could have done this." If you just knew how much of a Don Juan, player whatever he was, you would know you witnessed a miracle for him to say this.

This was my mission to help my family in their situation.  Their problem is my problem which is God's problem.  Before, I never cared about people's problems until I started studying the Divine Principle and Unification Thought.

Before I came back to my family, their children under 25 were dying from cars running off the road, into trees, motorcycles running into a swimming pool in the middle of the street, dying of new diseases at the time, as babies from choking on a hot dog and now my family's curses are turning around into blessings.  After a year of my return only the elderly have died where before, one young cousin a year was dying.  I am truly starting to see Heaven on Earth.  It is still a daily battle of fighting evils within and without, but it is better than the path before I started learning this teaching.

I am leaving out so much that it probably doesn't make sense or seem significant, but before Rev. Moon passed away this September, he said that if we witnessed for three hours a day we would start to see miracles happen in our family.  I think the same as reading the material or reading even a little of the Divine Principle and applying it in our life it will work.

If you can, believe that the end of the world truly means the end of Satan's sovereignty, the end of the evil world where satan's reign and the beginning of God and His children prospering, plus the beginning of Heaven on Earth.  It can only happen when we no longer give and take with our evil side, kind of like the little devil on one shoulder and the angel on the other shoulder.

Fortunately, the Divine Principle workshops are given freely in each state by district pastors through the ACLC affiliated with the Unification Church or you can continue with my blog where I rewrite Dr. Rev. Moon's speeches and textbooks without changing the spirit of the message for those who are not members of the Unification Church.

Pray and see if my testimony is just a coincidence, or  I'm crazy or that it is truly possible that you are living in the most highest time of human history where finally good things and miracles will be a natural occurrence and God can finally take position as absolute ruler over His earth. 

You may think He was all this time, but it was satan who ruled over this earth perpetrating as the false god.  Why else would Jesus tell his people out of anger that 'you are of your father the devil'?  If you think God would create and rule over this hell on earth then it is possible we will never agree.  Who did Eve choose to believe in the beginning, God's word or Satan's?  And that is the word we have believed until now.  Choose the living word.  Every moment you choose either life or death in your decisions.

It is up to you.  I will never pressure anyone to follow unless they want me to or love to hear the messages.  My only job is to give the living word and spread it as a messenger, open the door not push you through it or make you believe.  I already been down that alley face to face with strangers and it takes up energy from people who really are sick spiritually and have been praying for God to drop someone like me into their life.

Hopefully, you have the eyes to see and will believe and understand the time you are living in.  All I know is what I told my family who I stood up against every single one of them because I said, "When I go to the gates and God ask did I do all he asked me to do.  I will say hell yes everything!!!  Did you do it to the best of your ability? I will say yes, Lord, and I didn't come here alone.  I brought my family and millions of others like you said I would."

Yes, I always feel like I am a nuisance to people and I bother them, but they either fade away or they cling to the word that is given.

It may sound selfish, but I told my uncle now it was his turn to pray for me, and my time for my miracle.  I have received half of my miracle with a blessed story idea 35 years in the making and admit shamefully I do wish for the rest of the miracle to be fulfilled, but that depends completely on God and the person He chosen my heart for.

I had a waking vision when I first started the Divine Principle teachings 7 years ago that I was going to have a lot of tribulation, beyond words that my novel could not even cover, and to endure God showed me that if I counted the stars that would be how many people/children I would bring to Him.  Millions. 

I do not fit in with the Unification Church, I do not fit in with my family, people do not understand me, but God is with me.  He wants me to be a leader and always had even though I wanted to sit in the back and be led, but he will not tolerate it anymore and He ordained for my partner to do the same and we are both waiting for him to step up to the plate.

Is this path easy to do as God will and not as 'thou wilst'?  God is asking me to talk to people I would never even know or talk to without His consent, power or love.  The me I am without God, loves only thyself and can do without another human's presence for eternity.  So imagine how hard it is for me to do half of what he asks.  Anyone who knows me and the better me, knows only God had something to do with this, and if God is with me, then he must be with Reverend Moon.

Will you be a witness to the greatness of this time or are you going to be like the people of Noah's time and miss the boat and continue to eat, drink and give into marriage without Him completely?

Those who have the ears to hear will hear and those who don't, must be protected by our prayers.

Love you all for reading and have a good week.

I will see you January 5 with some fantastic new blogs after my refreshing month off.  I love you all from around the world.  Have a good one.

Denise Rochelle M.